最佳Broken Marriage播客 (2024)

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49 | Sobriety vs. Recovery After Porn-Fueled Infidelity 35:43

3d ago35:43

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Wives, has you husband stopped his acting out behavior and is even showing some behaviors that you appreciate, but you still feel like he isn’t a changed man? Do you still feel the distance between you? Like he doesn’t really see you? Husbands, are you doing all the things your wife has requested and feel like you are moving forward in recovery, bu…

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Ep 73 How they felt about you during their affair 25:59

7d ago25:59

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This episode sheds light on what your spouse was thinking about you and your relationship during their affair. Did they love you? Did they love the affair partner? Could they have loved you both? Enroll in our 3 day workshop here: https://healingbrokentrust.com/hbtworkshop由Brad and Morgan Robinson

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48 | Closing the Gap - 3 Steps to Sexual Intimacy 32:16

10d ago32:16

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Have you been on the healing journey after sexual betrayal and you and your spouse are ready to level up? Do you want to experience more true intimacy? Today we will be talking about 3 simple steps to take that are not easy because it will involve some risk. But, if you are looking for intimacy that goes far beyond anything that our world has to of…

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47| Sexual Intimacy with a Recovering Sex Addict in Marriage 35:30

16d ago35:30

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Hopefully you’ve heard both sides of our sexual intimacy story, or lack thereof, in episodes 45 and 46. If not, we encourage you to listen to those to gain a better understanding of how we got to the place where our broken marriage got new life after God intervened and recovery began. Now, we share a wonderfully intimate sexual life together, but i…

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46 | Sexuality as a Sex-Addict in Marriage 35:19

23d ago35:19

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Men, do you have a secret relationship with pornography and/or others outside of your marriage? Are you consumed by your thought life and hiding things from your wife that you don’t want her to know? Is sex with your wife becoming challenging, difficult, or just too much effort? Do you feel misunderstood? Are you afraid that if she knew everything …

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45 | Intimacy with a Sex-Addict in Marriage 26:48

1M ago26:48

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Ladies, have you spent years trying to connect with your husband in a meaningful and fulfilling way only to find that you just couldn’t get there no matter what you did? Has it ever occurred to you that you may be trying to experience intimacy with a sex-addict? Seems oxymoronic, right? Intimacy with a sex- addict. We think so as well. But how many…

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44 | Fearing the Worst? How to Plan for Sex Addiction Slips & Relapses in Your Marriage 50:44

1M ago50:44

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Ladies, now that you know your husband has been unfaithful and broken covenant with you; maybe through pornography use, maybe it even escalated to being sexually active outside of your marriage, I want to ask you, what is your biggest fear? If you are like me, you are afraid that he will do it again. This is a very real and natural thing to be conc…

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43 | Our 12-Step Series Wrap Up: Which Sex Addiction Recovery Program Is the Best? 37:01

2M ago37:01

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What happens to a marriage, shattered by porn-fueled infidelity, that doesn’t undertake a specific recovery process? What happens to the individuals in that marriage? We believe, it’s likely that this marriage will be devoid of real connection and true intimacy. Sure, it is possible to stay married without recovery. Couples can sweep it under the r…

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42 | Recovery Step 12: A Great Awakening - 7 Ways to Serve Others While Healing From Sex Addiction 33:21

2M ago33:21

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Have you ever experienced a life-changing revelation that compelled you to share it with others and integrate it into your life? This is similar to the impact of embracing recovery and is at the very heart of what we felt when we surrendered to Jesus. Today, we will explore the 12th step of recovery, and how we can actively share our message while …

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41 | Recovery Step 11: How Can We Know? 6 Points to Ponder When Seeking God’s Will 34:37

2M ago34:37

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Do you find it difficult to connect with God and know his will for your life? If you said yes, you are not alone. Just like the recovery journey, it takes a lot of persistent and consistent effort to cultivate a close relationship with the Lord. It doesn’t come naturally to us mere humans, but there is a roadmap for discovering how to make connecti…

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40 | Valentine's Day Fails and Favorites Before and After Sexual Betrayal 42:53

2M ago42:53

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Let us be the first to wish you a happy Valentine’s Day! Okay, how did that make you feel? Did you smile? Did it make you cringe? Did it bring up a feeling of excitement, or anger or even dread? We’ve found that Valentine’s Day is a tricky holiday. Well, it’s not a public holiday, but it is a recognized day on the calendar for celebrating love betw…

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39 | Recovery Step 10: 4 Ways to Keep Your Relational Slate Clean & Stay Clear of Porn Addiction 28:53

2M ago28:53

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Do you have a daily practice of self-reflection? Do you ever stop to take stock in how you act, think, and feel when relating to others? Most of us have heard the phrase - wash, rinse, repeat. And no, we aren’t talking about the latest greatest shampoo. Today as we talk about the 10th Step in SSA Recovery we will peel back the layers of what a dail…

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38 | Recovery Step 9: Become an Action Hero! Righting the Wrongs of Our Destructive Sexual Behavior 45:20

3M ago45:20

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Last week we asked the question: Have you ever hurt someone and come to not only realize that you hurt them but understood exactly how you hurt them? This week we want to ask: Have you felt any fear or intimidation when making the choice to go back and right that wrong? We have a special guest today who is going to share with us his experience with…

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37 | Recovery Step 8: My Addiction To Porn Hurt Others. 4 Questions to Ask When Making it Right 27:06

3M ago27:06

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Have you ever hurt someone and come to not only realize that you had hurt them, but understood exactly how you hurt them? Today as we cover the 8th step of recovery of Sex Addicts Anonymous, it is time to do the work of making a list of those we've harmed through our destructive sexual behaviors and become willing to make amends. Working this step …

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36 | Recovery Step 7: Holding on to Pride? Humility Before God = Freedom From Pornography 28:56

3M ago28:56

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Have you come to a place in life where you have been humbled by your own actions and are ready to move forward with hope and integrity? It is time to approach God humbly and ask him do for us what we cannot do for ourselves. From the Green Book of Recovery: "We may wonder why it is necessary to ask humbly. Many of us have confused humility with hum…

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35 | Recovery Step 6: Ready to Move on From Sexual Integrity Issues? 4 Questions to Help you Decide 32:30

3M ago32:30

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Have you come to a place where you understand that some of the things that you do are not beneficial for you? Or are even hurtful to others? What do you do once you’ve discovered this? Do you say, “Well, that’s just me.” Or, do you decide that you want to change these behaviors for your own good and the good of those you love? If so, how do you go …

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34 | New Beginnings for Marriages in the New Year After Sexual Betrayal 28:01

4M ago28:01

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Have you noticed that New Year’s resolutions don’t last much past January for most people? Statistically, 91% of Americans fail at New Year’s resolutions. That’s not very encouraging. We were going to talk about the reasons why resolutions are so hard to keep in today’s episode, but then Holy Spirit intervened. So, we threw out our outline and just…

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33 | The Greatest Gift at Christmas: A 12-Stop Journey To God’s Plan for Redemption 35:44

4M ago35:44

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Before you got married, you had in your head an idea of what you wanted your marriage to look like. You had all kinds of hopes and dreams and they were all good, positive things and you made plans according to this picture in your mind. But things didn’t go exactly as planned. This is not the first time this story has played out. God made plans for…

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32 | Recovery Step 5: What Have I Done? Admitting How My Porn Addiction Hurt Myself and Others 31:17

4M ago31:17

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Have you gotten to the point in your life where you are ready to tell someone else every terrible thing that you’ve done in your life? If this thought doesn't excite you or possibly even terrifies you, then you’re in good company. Baring our souls to another person is not something we come by naturally. However, the longer we keep secrets locked be…

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31 | Recovery Step 4: Who Am I? A Fearless Search - The Origin of My Sex Addiction 36:03

4M ago36:03

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Have you turned your will and your life over to the care of God? Are you ready to gain an understanding of how you violated your personal moral boundaries and allowed addiction to set into your life? From the Green Book of Recovery: In taking the 4th step, we begin to know ourselves for who we really are. Building on the foundation of the first 3 s…

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30 | Has Adultery Grinched Your Christmas? 2 Ways to Approach Holiday Season Triggers After Sexual Betrayal 31:34

5M ago31:34

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Is the holiday season hard for you after sexual betrayal? Or any date that reminds you of the devastation that sexual betrayal brings into a marriage? It sure was for us in the beginning. What is a healthy way to deal with these triggers when they occur? Today we are going to have a conversation about how these dubious dates affected our marriage a…

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29 | Recovery Step 3: 3 Things To Know When Leaving Porn Behind 27:01

5M ago27:01

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Have you admitted your powerlessness over your porn addiction? Have you come to believe that a power greater than yourself can restore you to sanity? These two questions encapsulate steps 1 and 2 of the Sex Addicts Anonymous 12-step recovery program. In today’s episode we will unpack Step 3. which focuses on surrendering our plans and path. Are you…

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28 | Giving Thanks In Your Broken Marriage Through Gratitude 31:35

5M ago31:35

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What does Thanksgiving Day mean to you? Here in the United States, it is recognized as a national holiday on the 3rd Thursday of November each year. Today we want to look beyond what’s considered to be the traditional activities of this special day, such as gathering of family, turkey dinner with all the fixings, football, post dinner food comas, a…

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27 | Recovery Step 2: Porn Making You Crazy? Believing God Can Restore Your Sanity 22:07

5M ago22:07

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Do you see yourself in this vicious cycle of chaos? When we utilize technology to view pornography and use it for our own sexual satisfaction, then walk away from our devices, it can give us the illusion that we are in control. But how quickly do we shift from promising ourselves that we’re not going to do it again to contemplating what we've seen …

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26 | Recovery Step 1: Hooked on Porn? Admitting Helplessness Over Pornography’s Pull 35:18

5M ago35:18

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Does pornography use have a hold on you or someone you love? Today we are talking about Step 1 of the 12-Step Sex Addicts Anonymous recovery program. This is Johnny’s chosen recovery program so we will be sharing what this step entails, how he approached this step and why it is so imperative to start here. We will also be hearing from Emily on how …

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25 | Persistent Sexual Integrity Issues in Marriage. Do Recovery Programs Really Work? 30:51

6M ago30:51

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What if you had been confronted with the fact that your life had become unmanageable and through this revelation you discovered that you were powerless over a major struggle in your life? And what if you came to believe that this major struggle in your life was an addiction? You may be asking, "How did I get here? What do I do about it and how do I…

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24 | Would You Marry Your Betraying Spouse Again? Renewing Vows After Porn-Fueled Infidelity. This Time...Mean It. 34:23

6M ago34:23

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Up until now, we’ve been talking a lot about taking steps to stabilize, grieve, heal, and renew our marriages after sexual betrayal. We've covered heavy topics like confession, boundaries, apologies, and forgiveness. and in our last episode even dipped our toes into the waters of reigniting sexual connection and what true intimacy looks like. But t…

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23 | 7 Steps to True Intimacy After Sexual Betrayal 48:41

6M ago48:41

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Hello Friend, Have you wrestled with this question? Can there still be a meaningful sexual relationship after experiencing sexual betrayal? The short answer is YES, but today, we're not diving into the world of makeup or guilt sex. Instead, we'll be delving into the realm of true intimacy. Intimacy is often misunderstood as just being synonymous wi…

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22 | How Long Will This Hurt? Experiencing The 5 Stages of Grief Through the Lens of Sexual Betrayal 44:46

6M ago44:46

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Hello Friend, Have you experienced grief? We normally associate grief with the death and loss of someone we love, and we can also grieve the loss of something we are emotionally attached to like a job or home. But there is also a loss that occurs through betrayal. With this type of loss come the very same emotions that are common to losing someone …

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21 | Breaking Free: How To Escape the Grip of Porn Addiction with Emmanuel and Bekah Guarino 36:14

7M ago36:14

36:14

The prevalence of sexually explicit content continues to surge, becoming increasingly accessible with each passing day. Who's it hurting? A better question might be, who isn't it hurting? Pornography affects everyone from innocent children to grandparents and there’s really no escaping it in our culture today. So, what can we do? Today we are shari…

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20 | From Porn Queen To Child of God Now On Mission To Help Others Find Freedom with Elizabeth Spraggins 54:39

7M ago54:39

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Hey Friend, Have you ever been curious about the untold stories of those in the adult entertainment industry? Do you question the authenticity of what you've heard about or witnessed on the screen? We've recently been talking a lot about the harmful impact of pornography on consumers and their loved ones, but only briefly explored the profound effe…

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19 | Feeling Like I’m Not Enough: How Comparison Can Distort Self-Identity 45:06

7M ago45:06

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As a fallen human race, we tend to compare ourselves to others in many ways, the way people look, what kind of clothes they wear or car they drive, what job they have or what kind of house and neighborhood they live in. This comparison can lead to feelings of inadequacy or pridefulness. I imagine most, if not all of us, have or have had some degree…

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18 | Feeling Like I’m Not Enough. What If Pornography Is Not My True Addiction? 32:05

7M ago32:05

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In our marriages when there is sexual betrayal fueled by pornography use or addiction, it is easy to only focus on the outward behaviors because they are so painful and destructive. But what if there is something deeper under the surface that you are unaware of? What if the addiction was only the evidence of an underlying problem. Would you be will…

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17 | Is My Spouse A Porn Addict? 13 Clues To Help Expose Compulsive Sexual Behavior 40:47

8M ago40:47

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As the wife of a recovering addict, I’ve learned that there were clues displayed by my husband that pointed to addictive behavior. I was aware of his periodic pornography use but didn’t put it together with these behavioral clues to realize that there might be a serious issue. Now that we have been working on our recovery for several years, I have …

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16 | ”It’s Just Porn, What’s The Big Deal?” And 4 Other Lies We Tell Ourselves To Justify Viewing Pornography 29:34

8M ago29:34

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If pornography is no big deal, why are so many marriages destroyed by it? If pornography is harmless, why are so many people around the world hurt by it? If pornography is no big deal, why do we hide it from our wives? If pornography is harmless, why do we hide it from our children? How much do you know about porn and the pornography industry? I di…

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15 | Giving Bad News? 6 Things We Said While Confessing Adultery In Our Marriage 30:02

8M ago30:02

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Have you ever told someone something you knew they were not going to want to hear? Do you have something you need to tell someone and are terrified about how they will react? Are you afraid to say it because it could cause them significant pain and/or jeopardize your relationship with them? These are very natural emotions that come with telling dif…

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14 | To Tell Or Not To Tell: 3 Things We Did Right (And 1 Thing We Didn’t) When Deciding Who Needs To Know Our Infidelity Story 32:21

8M ago32:21

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Your marriage has suffered a massive blow of betrayal. Adultery through pornography and/or extra-marital relationships has been discovered. You both want to save the marriage, if possible, by working on reconciliation and recovery. But now you’re wondering if you need to tell anyone or if you should just keep it private and work on it together. We …

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13 | His Triggers, Her Triggers – 4 Steps For Dealing With Triggers While Healing From Infidelity 34:32

9M ago34:32

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Triggers, what are they and how do they affect us? Triggers come without warning and without our permission. Today we’re going to dissect the ways we are triggered and how we should handle them, so they are not destructive, but rather an opportunity for healing, connection and growth. And good heavens, do they ever stop? Grab your favorite beverage…

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12 | His Adultery Shattered My Reality. How Do I Know What’s Real? 45:07

9M ago45:07

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What actually happens to a person who has experienced betrayal? What happens in the mind of one who has their reality shattered in an instant? Today we’re going to be discussing the effects of this type of mental and emotional injury when someone is betrayed. We’ll be sharing with you how this affected us after Johnny’s confession of adultery throu…

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11 | Freedom and Healing: 4 Keys to Unlocking Forgiveness After Sexual Betrayal 37:57

9M ago37:57

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Do you find it hard to forgive someone who has hurt you deeply? On our show today, we’re going to unpack 4 keys to unlocking forgiveness. This method is simple, but it’s definitely not easy. So how do we get through this difficult process? We will share with you how this approach played out in our marriage after porn-fueled infidelity and where we …

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10 | When “I’m Sorry” Isn’t Enough: 8 Steps to a Healing Apology 41:19

9M ago41:19

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Do you appreciate getting an apology? Do you have a hard time extending one? Do you even know what a good apology looks like? Join us today as we cover the 8 steps to a healing apology, which is so helpful in a marriage, especially when there has been some form of betrayal. We have experienced the power of this healing apology in our own marriage a…

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09 | I’m So Angry! How I Overcame Anger from Sexual Betrayal in 3 Simple But Not Easy Steps 42:28

9M ago42:28

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Do you get angry while driving in traffic? Have you ever had or seen road rage? Are you the person that yells at everyone making stupid and even dangerous driving mistakes from inside your car with the windows up? I can’t say I’ve never had a burst of anger when driving, but in recent years I have made it a practice to try and give other drivers th…

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08 | 5 Ways We Lie and the Secret to Complete Honesty (part 2) 29:21

10M ago29:21

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When you think of the word honesty, do you view it in black and white or on a sliding scale? Those who see it in black and white might argue that a person either tells the truth or they don’t. Those who prefer a sliding scale approach may categorize white lies at a 1-2, lies of omission at a 4-5, but a deceptive or premeditated lie at 9-10. Honesty…

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07 | 5 Ways We Lie and the Secret to Complete Honesty (part 1) 33:15

10M ago33:15

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Did you know that there is more than one way to lie? A lack of honesty can leave others in your life on uncertain ground. How do we overcome this deceptive practice and what is the key to complete honesty? Spend the next half hour with us as we talk about 5 different ways we lie to each other, how lying affects our relationships and what we can do …

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06 | Setting Boundaries After Sexual Betrayal in Marriage 47:16

10M ago47:16

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Have you ever stopped to think about the significance of boundaries? What kind of feelings or emotions do you think of when you hear that term? Does it bring to mind negative connotations or a sense of being confined and restricted? Perhaps it even feels punitive or unfair. It's understandable to have these reactions, but let's take a moment to con…

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05 | The Effects of Infidelity and How We Made the Decision to Stay Married After Sexual Betrayal 28:31

10M ago28:31

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The decision to stay married after sexual betrayal is a very difficult one to navigate. We understand this because the effects of infidelity shook each of us to our core. If you've been listening to our show you know we are still married, but we didn’t go through this on our own. We had an incredible amount of support and guidance along the way. In…

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04 | Sharing Our Story: From Infidelity and Addiction to Reconciliation and Recovery 20:22

11M ago20:22

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Hi Friend, In today's episode we will be telling a quick version of our love story from how we met and got married up to the day of Johnny's confession of adultery that we call Discovery Day. If you haven't heard our story as told by each of us from our own perspectives, you can listen to Emily's story in Episode 2 and Johnny's story in Episode 3. …

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03 | His Story: I Betrayed My Wife and My Moral Values 44:59

11M ago44:59

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Hi Friend, On today's episode, Johnny tells his story of how a young boy with hopes and dreams for a wonderful future ends up confessing to his wife of 31 years that he is a sex addict and an adulterer. His painful story is tragic, but also beautiful because he knows the One who makes a way when there is no way. Jesus can make something beautiful o…

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02 | Her Story: My Husband Betrayed Me 25:06

11M ago25:06

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Hi Friend, Today Emily is baring her soul to tell the story of her husband's marital infidelity fueled by pornography use. And although it was Not Her Fault in any way, she is not perfect and you will hear some of the ways she fell short in her life too. But, God is bigger than any failure, heartbreak or trauma. He is the redeemer of the lost and t…

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