How Not to Apologize: Sorry?

New Hope Baptist Church Podcast

Luke 15:18-24 NIV

18) I will set out and go back to my father and say to him: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you.19) I am no longer worthy to be called your son; make me like one of your hired servants.’20) So he got up and went to his father.

“But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him.

21) “The son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’

22) “But the father said to his servants, ‘Quick! Bring the best robe and put it on him. Put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet.23) Bring the fattened calf and kill it. Let’s have a feast and celebrate.24) For this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.’ So they began to celebrate.

TAKEAWAYS

1. Understand that the Holy Spirit convicts us when we’re responsible, the devil accuses us when we’re not.

2. Admit when we are responsible for the problem.

3. Confess everything to God.

4. Resist the temptation to excuse or even explain.

5. Never say, I’m sorry that you were offended.

6. Restore broken relationships as far as it’s within your power.

7. If something needs to be put right, and you know what to do, put it right.

8. The quicker we repent or apologize the better.

9. When you have forgiven don’t change your mind if the offense continues.

10. Receive his grace, and rejoice.