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131: How to “Not Take Things Personally” Naturally When Hit With Harshness, Criticism + Gaslighting

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“Not taking things personally” can be a tough job being a human with emotions and a body! When criticism, harshness, judgment, lashing out, gaslighting, and other reactions from another person can hit us where it hurts, here are some tools to support healing and resolving where it hurts so it’s not just a forced “tough skin” but an organic neutrality or wholeness that leaves us able to be present to what is.

Work with ways to heal the shadow and allow harmony where others push their shadow parts your way. A deep love for yourself, which is loving for all.

At the very least, to digest the emotions we feel when triggered and to experience separation and boundary that gives us room to breathe, feel safer, and more loved from the inside.

Two experientials follow this episode next week where I guide you through a shift through distance and space, boundary, forgiveness, and separation from dependency, as well as to look towards and heal the part of us that gets wounded.

Links, Article, and Resources

All Show Notes for This Episode

📝 https://CandiceWu.com/thickerskin

Podcast Homepage

🎧 https://candicewu.com/podcast

Newsletter & Embody Community

💌 https://candicewu.com/embody-community

Donations – Your Support Means So Much!

💝 https://candicewu.com/support

Candice Wu Page on Facebook

👫 https:///EmbodyYourNature

Follow Candice on Instagram

📷 https://instagram.com/EmbodyYourNature

Sponsored By

Healing Share Sponsorship Program

About 25% of my healing sessions are sliding scale with my personal contributions. If you’d like to help me in supporting others in receiving healing sessions, consider sharing your resources to support someone or your community in a unique and important way!

Consider contributing to sliding scale sessions for those who need healing support and may not be able to pay a full fee. Healing sessions can be truly life-changing for someone, giving them support to integrate any trauma, bring their presence to life, or cultivate self-love.

Your support may go to someone who: is an elder, BIPOC, LGBTQIA, or a person that has been affected financially by difference and power Covid19 or Systemic Issues (systemic racism or discrimination), is an unpaid or low paid community organizer, has immigration-related expenses, has children or other dependents, is a student, or receives public assistance.

For more information about contributing or receiving from the Healing Share, check out at CandiceWu.com/healingshare.

Show Notes

00:00 Intro

01:24 Opening — Starting My Garden

03:32 Topic Overview

04:07 Healing Share Program

05:29 A Recent Experience

07:09 It’s Incredibly Hard to Not Take Things Personally

09:14 How to Move Through Experiences That Hurt

12:54 Even Strangers Can Hurt or Trigger

13:46 Learning to Harness My Own Energy and Boundary

16:07 Connecting With the Collective Experience

17:31 Being Shaped by Early Life Experience

18:34 Fight, Flight, Freeze, and Fawn

19:07 Pleasing Others is a Tool but Exhausting

21:53 Tools for a Clearer Way

25:36 Clearing Belief Sets Around Codependency

28:46 Looking at the Conversation and Placing What Was Said

32:27 A Few More Tricks

40:38 Thanking the People

41:51 Upcoming Experientials

44:38 Gratitude

45:03 The Embody Newsletter

45:13 Healing Share Program

  continue reading

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“Not taking things personally” can be a tough job being a human with emotions and a body! When criticism, harshness, judgment, lashing out, gaslighting, and other reactions from another person can hit us where it hurts, here are some tools to support healing and resolving where it hurts so it’s not just a forced “tough skin” but an organic neutrality or wholeness that leaves us able to be present to what is.

Work with ways to heal the shadow and allow harmony where others push their shadow parts your way. A deep love for yourself, which is loving for all.

At the very least, to digest the emotions we feel when triggered and to experience separation and boundary that gives us room to breathe, feel safer, and more loved from the inside.

Two experientials follow this episode next week where I guide you through a shift through distance and space, boundary, forgiveness, and separation from dependency, as well as to look towards and heal the part of us that gets wounded.

Links, Article, and Resources

All Show Notes for This Episode

📝 https://CandiceWu.com/thickerskin

Podcast Homepage

🎧 https://candicewu.com/podcast

Newsletter & Embody Community

💌 https://candicewu.com/embody-community

Donations – Your Support Means So Much!

💝 https://candicewu.com/support

Candice Wu Page on Facebook

👫 https:///EmbodyYourNature

Follow Candice on Instagram

📷 https://instagram.com/EmbodyYourNature

Sponsored By

Healing Share Sponsorship Program

About 25% of my healing sessions are sliding scale with my personal contributions. If you’d like to help me in supporting others in receiving healing sessions, consider sharing your resources to support someone or your community in a unique and important way!

Consider contributing to sliding scale sessions for those who need healing support and may not be able to pay a full fee. Healing sessions can be truly life-changing for someone, giving them support to integrate any trauma, bring their presence to life, or cultivate self-love.

Your support may go to someone who: is an elder, BIPOC, LGBTQIA, or a person that has been affected financially by difference and power Covid19 or Systemic Issues (systemic racism or discrimination), is an unpaid or low paid community organizer, has immigration-related expenses, has children or other dependents, is a student, or receives public assistance.

For more information about contributing or receiving from the Healing Share, check out at CandiceWu.com/healingshare.

Show Notes

00:00 Intro

01:24 Opening — Starting My Garden

03:32 Topic Overview

04:07 Healing Share Program

05:29 A Recent Experience

07:09 It’s Incredibly Hard to Not Take Things Personally

09:14 How to Move Through Experiences That Hurt

12:54 Even Strangers Can Hurt or Trigger

13:46 Learning to Harness My Own Energy and Boundary

16:07 Connecting With the Collective Experience

17:31 Being Shaped by Early Life Experience

18:34 Fight, Flight, Freeze, and Fawn

19:07 Pleasing Others is a Tool but Exhausting

21:53 Tools for a Clearer Way

25:36 Clearing Belief Sets Around Codependency

28:46 Looking at the Conversation and Placing What Was Said

32:27 A Few More Tricks

40:38 Thanking the People

41:51 Upcoming Experientials

44:38 Gratitude

45:03 The Embody Newsletter

45:13 Healing Share Program

  continue reading

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