Shelby and Erica share dating safety precautions they implement to feel safe and comfortable, tips to working our 9-5s + working so well together, and how to navigate reconnecting with friends. Words of wisdom from Proverbs 23:4-5. Instagram⁠ @allthingsmelanin__ ⁠X (Formerly Twitter)⁠ @melanintv_ ⁠Threads⁠ @allthingsmelanin__ Find out how you canli…

Shelby and Erica share their thoughts and insight on love addiction, offer tips on how to determine if you are making the right career or business move, and offer advice on what to do when you want to follow your dreams but your family isn't supportive. Words of wisdom from Isaiah 55:9. Keep up with us onsocial! ⁠Instagram⁠ @allthingsmelanin__ ⁠X (…

Shelby and Erica switch it up a bit and start off the episode by sharing the importance and beauty of sisterhood. They delve into if they will share their romantic relationships on social media or not, getting back to the basics with their brand, and how to shoot your career shot. Words of wisdom from Zechariah 4:10. Keep up with us on social! Inst…

Shelby and Erica share their outlook on when it's time to let go vs. giving it more time in relationships, how to shoot your shot in business and career, and how to navigate a relationship that's no longer fulfilling you. Words of wisdom from Isaiah 30:18. Keep up with us on social! ⁠Instagram⁠ @allthingsmelanin__ ⁠X (Formerly Twitter)⁠ @melanintv_…

Shelby and Erica share their opinions on low maintenance friendships, how to navigate being "The Only" in professional spaces, and how to prepare yourself to ease back into dating. Words of wisdom from Galatians 6:9. Wait On You X Maverick City Music: https://open.spotify.com/track/2p3qr3HQBgsjeE5rFobSDy?si=ab44f668ff694e15 Keep up with All Things …

Shelby and Erica discuss self-love and why it's so important, how to navigate hitting a plateau in career or business, and how to be patient in your "in between" season. Words of wisdom come from Psalm 131: 1-3. Keep up with All Things Melanin: https://msha.ke/allthingsmelanin Keep up with Erica: https://msha.ke/everything.erica Keep up with Shelby…

Shelby and Erica are back with a new season, and they're not holding back! They share what dating advice they would give their younger selves, how they navigated through some technical difficulties last season, and share how they've navigated grief in the past. Words of wisdom come from Psalm 23:1. *Please note, this episode does discuss and share …

Shelby and Erica share their experiences around stigmas put on Black women, having discernment in your business, and walking away from people and things that no longer serve you. Words of wisdom from Psalms 18:30...Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at https://bio.site/shelbybrenna.…

Shelby and Erica share their opinion on the “right time” to bring up finances in a relationship. They provide insight into how they’re able to work so well together in growing their brand and share tips to working smarter together and not against one another, and give advice on what to do if you don’t feel like your friends and family are supportin…

Shelby and Erica debate if you should keep your options open when dating, and if men or women have more options when it comes to the dating pool. They share ways to overcome a creative block, and give advice on how to make new friends as an adult. Words of wisdom from John 13:7...Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at …

Shelby and Erica dive into the importance of having high standards and firm boundaries when dating, and their experience in the past when they let things slide. They switch things up and Shelby interviews Erica for her business, Erica L. Murphy Interiors, LLC, and Erica shares the ups and downs of launching and growing her business. They give advic…

Shelby and Erica are back in their dating era, so they’re sharing ways to put themselves out there and meet a new love interest, they chat about the growth of All Things Melanin since 2017, and give advice on how to shake the guilt of putting yourself first. Words of wisdom from Psalms 32:8...Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica a…

Shelby and Erica settle the debacle of the $200 date debate and if it matters how much a date costs. They then dive into a deep discussion on their experience in corporate America and being one of few or the only one person of color in their department or at their company, and how they navigate the emotions of it all. They give advice on navigating…

Shelby and Erica delve into their thoughts surrounding societal pressures of dating in your 30’s and how they’re navigating this tricky space, they share the challenges of having to figure out things they don't know how to do, and share their advice on feeling stuck in a waiting season. Words of wisdom from Peter 5:6-7...Keep up with Erica at https…

Shelby and Erica are back, and they’re opening up this new season celebrating the anniversary of All Things Melanin! They start the show off by reflecting on where they started and where they hope to grow to in the future. Then they chat about green flags to look out for in friendships and the importance of having the right friend group around you.…

Shelby and Erica discuss the biggest red flags to be aware of on a first date, sharing some of our favorite “wins” and memories from creating All Things Melain so far, and how to go from burnout to well rested. Words of encouragement from Proverbs 19:21. Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at https://bio.site/shelbybre…

Shelby and Erica share their thoughts on men’s "brutal" relationship advice and the best relationship advice they’ve received, tips we’ve learned from building a brand from the ground up, and what to do when your dream seems to be taking “too” long to take off. Words of encouragement from Psalm 105: 4-5. Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everyt…

Shelby and Erica share if they would date a man with a child(ren), and if so, what their guidelines are, the importance of discipline when trying to figure it out, and navigating being laid off. Words of encouragement from Exodus 14:14. Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at https://bio.site/shelbybrenna ..*If you or s…

Shelby and Erica discuss the importance and value of men who not only show up financially but emotionally as well, how to overcome feelings of inadequacy and comparing yourself to others on your journey, and how to deal with conflict in a bridal party. Words of encouragement from Proverbs 16:32. Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.eric…

Shelby and Erica discuss their thoughts and feelings around the 80/20 rule for relationships, the importance of setting firm boundaries and standards in your career, and navigating feeling left out of your friend group. Words of encouragement from Matthew 14: 27-32. Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at https://bio.si…

Shelby and Erica share what past relationships have taught them and what they’re working on to be the best version of themselves for their future partner, what to do when you aren’t seeing results in your career or personal project, and whether to ghost a new love interest or not. Words of encouragement from Romans 15:13. Keep up with Erica at http…

Shelby and Erica discuss their views on society/ culture shaping our views on being an independent woman and the negative stance surrounding independent women, how to stay consistent when building a brand, and tips on how to transition your side hustle to your main hustle. Words of wisdom from Isaiah 55:8-9. Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/ev…

Shelby and Erica are back with a brand new season!! They share questions and conversations to have with your partner when you think they may be “the one,” lessons they’ve learned in their corporate career and personal projects, and what to do if someone you just met is doing too much. Words of encouragement from Luke 6:37. Keep up with Erica at htt…

Shelby and Erica discuss if they could go on a dating show, and if so, which one. They also share their personal projects and businesses they’re working on and how to say no. Words of wisdom from Deuteronomy 31:6. .Follow Erica’s virtual interior design business here https://www.instagram.com/elminteriors_/.. Stay in the know & follow Shelby’s jour…

Shelby and Erica discuss how to know if a friendship is worth nurturing or letting go, the power in dreaming, and how to overcome imposter syndrome. Words of wisdom from 2 Peter 3:9..Visit our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org and join our IG community https://www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__/.Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.eri…

Shelby and Erica discuss where to meet someone new and how to know if you should continue dating them after a few dates, how to create your own lane, and questions to ask to see if you’re violating the girl code. Words of wisdom from Matthew 6:6..Visit our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org and join our IG community at https://www.instagram.com/allth…

Shelby and Erica discuss how to balance romantic relationships and friendships so no one feels neglected, what all goes into interviewing guests on our podcast and share tips on how to live it up in your single season. Words of wisdom from Numbers 6:24-26..Visit our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org and join our IG community https://www.instagram.co…

Shelby and Erica share the importance of healing before dating again, the importance of remembering your “WHY” when pursuing your dreams, and the steps to take when you’re ready to pursue your passion. Words of wisdom from Exodus 14:14..Visit our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org and join our IG community https://www.instagram.com/allthingsmelanin__…

Shelby and Erica discuss what a “safe space” looks like in romantic relationships and friendships, the importance of setting firm and healthy boundaries, and when you should talk money with your partner. Words of wisdom from John 13:7..Visit our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org..Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica and Shelby at w…

Shelby and Erica debate on if age is just a number when it comes to dating, what we know now vs. 5 years on our journey to building a brand, and our advice for singles looking to be in a relationship. Words of wisdom are from Psalm 27:13..Visit our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org..Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica.Keep up with…

Shelby and Erica are celebrating All Things Melanin turning 5! They share if they’ve ever shot their shot with a guy before, the journey to All Things Melanin turning 5, and how to get over feeling stuck at work. Words of wisdom are from Luke 16:10..Visit our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org..Keep up with Erica at https://msha.ke/everything.erica.K…

Shelby and Erica discuss the importance of having in-depth conversations about past relationships with your partner, what people don't tell you about building a brand, and how to navigate the dating scene. Leaving you with words of wisdom from Colossians 3:23..Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. Submit your questions for o…

Shelby and Erica share red flags they look out for in dating, the pros and cons of remote work, and how to ease back into the dating game. Words of wisdom from Zechariah 4:10. .Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. Submit your questions for our mentor moment segment by emailing us at allthingsmelanintv@gmail.com.Keep up with…

Shelby and Erica discuss the hardest part about getting into a healthy relationship after a toxic one and dive into what it takes to build a brand on their journey. They're joined by Tasha McCaskiel, founder of Black Girls in Media, who shares her journey in building community, her brand, all while holding down a 9-5. We wrap up this week's episode…

Shelby and Erica share their thoughts on how they deal with someone from their past popping back into their lives romantically, how they're navigating corporate America, and knowing when to move. We're leaving you with words of wisdom from Ephesians 4:2. .Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. Submit your questions for our me…

Shelby and Erica share what "their type" is and if it's changed over the years, share how they balance work and personal projects, and their thoughts on how to overcome feeling behind. Words of wisdom come from Ephesians 3:20. .Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. Submit your questions for our mentor moment segment by email…

Shelby and Erica discuss the impact and importance of genuine friendship, how they work together to continually grow and build All Things Melanin, and their opinions on reconnecting with "old friends." We're leaving you with words of wisdom from Mark 2:2-5..Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. Submit your questions for our …

Shelby and Erica share what self-reflection has taught them about past relationships, why it's important to remember your "why" on your journey to building your brand, and how to strive for your goals without becoming overwhelmed. We're leaving you with words of wisdom from Habakkuk 2:2. .Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org…

Shelby and Erica are back for a new season. After catching up, Shelby and Erica share the importance of setting firm boundaries and having high standards, what we've learned so far on our journey to building our brand, and how to overcome self-doubt. We're leaving you with words of encouragement from Proverbs 16:3. .Be sure to subscribe to our blog…

Shelby and Erica share their responses to men's opinons of women, how we've improved our creative process on our journey, and how to tell your family to get out of your love life. We're leaving you with words of wisdom from 1 Peter 4:10...Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. Submit your questions for our mentor moment segme…

Shelby and Erica share lessons they've learned from their latest dating situations and what they're manifesting in love going forward. They share how to collaborate with guests efficiently, how to find your purpose on your journey through life, and leave you with words of wisdom from Luke 16:10. ..Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsme…

Shelby and Erica share their opinions on "checking" your partner publically, and what it means to hustle when building your brand. Lifestyle photographer and influencer Terica stops by and shares her journey to building her personal brand and photography business. We're wrapping up this week's episode giving advice on what to do with friends who gi…

Shelby and Erica are sharing their thoughts on marriage being “just a piece of paper” and where they stand on this debate, and how to turn your fear into fuel in stepping out on faith to follow your dreams. Nisha from Beauty and a Book Box shares her journey to launching a subscription box focusing on literacy and beauty. We wrap up this week’s epi…

Shelby and Erica discuss what they bring to the table in dating that isn't tangible and doesn't involve status. They share their most challenging lessons in building a brand. Talib, founder of Afros & Adios stops by to share his journey to building community and sharing opportunities for Black podcast creatives. They wrap up the episode with how to…

One thing about Shelby and Erica, they are ride or die for each other. This week, we’re sharing personal projects we’re working on separately and why it’s so important to support each other on things we do together and alone. We share our thoughts on who should pick up the tab on the first date, the man or the woman. We’re sharing why it’s so impor…

Shelby and Erica celebrate a milestone of 15,000+ listens at the beginning of this week’s episode (S/O to the Melanin Fam.) We’re sharing our thoughts on if age really matters when dating, knowing when to rest on your journey to building your brand, and offering advice on how to recognize true friends. We’re leaving you with words of encouragement …

Shelby and Erica are back and they get right into with their thoughts on the bombs that #RHOA Porsha Williams dropped and the lack of girl code. We’re dishing on the importance of friendship and what makes a good friend, how we’re navigating doing more while holding down a 9-5, as well as dishing out advice on what to do when family or friends don’…

Shelby and Erica discuss why people come back post break up and why do some people rebound faster than others. We share how we come up with relevant content consistently, and how to go about starting from scratch at any age. We’re leaving you with words of wisdom from Psalm 126:5.Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org. Submit …

Shelby and Erica discuss potential mistakes made when dating in the early stages, how to go about pitching a brand or podcast, and our advice on what to do if your man is intimidated because you make more money than he does. We're leaving you with words of encouragement from Isaiah 40:31. Be sure to subscribe to our blog at www.allthingsmelanin.org…

Shelby and Erica share their thoughts on sliding in DMs, dating apps, and match-making services. They also discuss how to overcome imposter syndrome, how to have difficult conversations with your partner and leave you with words of wisdom from 1 Peter 4:8. .Submit your questions for our mentor moment segment by emailing us at allthingsmelanintv@gma…