Kia and Deb are two friends from Philadelphia working to destigmatize what it means to be a “hoe” or “hopeless”. Kia is a sexually liberated woman with the stories to match but is in a committed relationship. Deb is single but doesn’t need the pity party that comes along with that. Join them as they recount their sex-capades both good and bad, talk taboo topics (how come no one told us vulvas change completely in your mid-twenties?!), and speak on their perspective as black women living in t ...
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On this episode Deb sits across from Kia & her partner Joey, as they get real about what it’s like to be together!
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On this episode we discuss how your friendships shift when you dive into a new relationship and of course SEX! Refreshing your sex life is so important and this includes self pleasure as well... so join Kia & Deb in a discussion about how we spice it up in the bedroom (or on the kitchen counter 😝)
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We just wanted to check in and say hi! CORONAVIRUS (cardi B voice) got us fucked up tbh!
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Everything dating! We sat down with our talented friend Payal, the host of podcast The Dating Culture and discuss all things dating. We cover everything from online dating to the importance of peeing after sex.
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Let’s talk about redefining relationships! On this episode Kia & Deb talk about relationships in the past versus now, as well as what we think about marriage and tradition. We also discuss dating experiences- from dealing with awkward first dates to shooting your shot!
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On this episode Kia & Deb dive into their experience with rejection. How it feels to be rejected and how it affects your dating life. We also give our engineer some advice on getting back with an ex. Can you spark an old flame or is it a whole new spark? Find out our thoughts on this first full episode of season two!…
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Sorry, we were gone for a minute (tbh we were beefing). We're back and honestly beaten but also better. We're on anchor now! But catch us on Apple Podcasts and Spotify too. Follow us on instagram: instagram.com/thehoeandthehopeless
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Deb and Kia talk dirty this episode.WE HAVE AN INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/thehoeandthehopeless/WE HAVE AN EMAIL: thehandtheh@gmail.comDope theme music by Kia Orio
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Kia and Deb recap their worst tinder dates, talk about the impact of social media and rap about why STIs are kind of no biggie.
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This is 45 minutes of us talking about the Jordyn Woods "scandal" (the devil works hard but kris jenner works harder) and why isn't the CHEATER ever the one to blame?!? We have a lot to say.
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Kia and Deb bring Joe Vela from Emojibator to talk about self-pleasure and why it's so important. Also, they also discuss what to do post cuffin season.Emojibator: https://emojibator.com/Use HOEMIES for 15% offWE HAVE AN INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/thehoeandthehopeless/WE HAVE AN EMAIL: thehandtheh@gmail.comDope theme music by Kia Orion…
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Kia and Deb talk about the pros of breaking up, lube's place in the bedroom and bring on the boys from Aggressively Passive Podcast to ask "why do y'all ghost?!?!"
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Y'all are still here? Bet. This week we're talking about interracial dating and are actually left speechless (i know, right?!) We also give you a hoe tip that will save you a ton of time. As always, let us know what you think below.WE HAVE AN INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/thehoeandthehopeless/WE HAVE AN EMAIL: thehandtheh@gmail.comDope theme music b…
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Kia & Deb get together to explain why it's good to date multiple people at once, list what they're leaving in 2019 and talk sex dive (or lack thereof).WE HAVE AN INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/thehoeandthehopeless/WE HAVE AN EMAIL: thehandtheh@gmail.comDope theme music by Kia Orion
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