You found my T SPOT. Formerly known as Sex with Topher. This ‘Apple Podcast Top 5’ charting podcast is all about judgement-free INTIMACY & unapologetic SEX talk from award-winning sex educator, writer, & adult toy expert, Topher Taylor. This no-holes-barred (literally) podcast addresses sexuality for all adults of all genders and sexualities – and features special guests from all walks of life. Alongside dedicated sex education episodes. Honest and relatable chats about confidence, relations ...
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What the f*ck does 'Sex Positivity' even mean?!For this special 2022 episode of THE T SPOT, the microphone is turned on ME by Psychosexual & Relationship psychotherapist, Silva Neves. Silva interviews me on my definition of my sexuality and my idea of sex-positivity - something I am passionately vocal about. We discuss enjoying giving blowjobs, fuc…
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Episode 4 is all about religion, sexuality, and queerness as I am joined by Reverend Jarel Robinson-Brown - my friend and openly queer priest in London. He is also the author of the incredibly written ‘Black, Gay, British, Christian, Queer’ which is available to purchase now.We discuss religion and queerness - and the complexities and confusion of …
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For episode 3 of The T SPOT, I am joined by my friend: sex educator and speaker, Char (@CharTheeGreat) at my flat to discuss giving oral sex to a penis with comfort, confidence — all ultimately leading to YOU (the giver) enjoying the experience. A blowjob doesn’t have to be a job. Enjoy it.This no holes-barred conversation with Char covers tricks, …
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For episode 2, I’m joined in my flat by hugely successful, multi-award-winning gay porn star, John Thomas. John's name blew up in the adult industry after winning ‘Best Newcomer' at the European Gay Porn awards in 2019 - and he has since gone on to win 2 more awards (even during COVID-19). We talk about John’s journey with queerness, his relationsh…
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Where have I been? Episode 1 of THE T SPOT begins with a catch-up, discussing my new life, relationship, home, and podcast. Then a very frank, fun, and extremely honest conversation with famous Fetish photographer and videographer, Matt Spike. Talking sex, fetish, leather, romance, being a young escort, and getting into sex as a queer boy from the …
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Episode 8: The XXXmas Gift Guide! Adult Toy brands & Sexperts recommend gifts for Xmas [Sex with Topher]
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Have you been naughty or nice this year? Both?! This is the XXXMAS GIFT GUIDE episode! Are you looking for the perfect sex toy to carry you through 2021? Your winter time pleasure product? Not sure where to start? Working with a budget? I speak to 6 incredible adult toy brands and their experts about their companies, product recommendations, and wh…
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This months episode is about gay porn, featuring an interview with iconic gay porn star DOLF DIETRICH. Known as ‘The Daddy you always wanted’ of porn, Dolf’s 6ft-6 frame made him an instant sex symbol and one of the most recognisable faces (amongst other body parts) in porn. We discuss sex work, his own sex education growing up, getting into sex wi…
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Episode 6: Getting into Anal Sex for Beginners. Sex Education guide from Topher Taylor. [Sex with Topher]
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Want to experience anal sex? Don’t know where to begin? Had a bad experience in the past? Episode 6 is all about developing confidence with anal penetration. This episode has a focus on beginners, alongside those who’ve had bad experiences. The ‘Getting Into Anal Play’ episode is my take (as a sex educator) on how to prepare for anal, tricks on how…
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Episode 5: Divina De Campo from Ru Paul's Drag Race UK, Black Lives Matter & LGBT + Pride Month [Sex with Topher]
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#SexWithTopher Episode 5 begins with an explanation of what I am doing as a white person, to support the BLACK LIVES MATTER movement in response to systematic racism and police brutality — alongside its relevance in the context of LGBT+ Pride Month (June). My fabulous guest this episode is an iconic Ru Paul's Drag Race UK queen, Divina De Campo. Di…
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Episode 4: Female Domination with a Dominatrix & My Channel 4 Documentary [Sex with Topher]
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#SexWithTopher Episode 4 begins with discussing my Channel 4 mini-documentary about cyber sex during quarantine which hit over 2 MILLION VIEWS in just a few days. And the homophobic public backlash. My guest this episode is the iconic Mistress Evilyne, a famous Dominatrix who has made newspaper in the past - and known for her extreme services. Alon…
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Episode 3: Sexual Health, PrEP for HIV prevention & Phil Samba from PrEPster Interview [Sex with Topher]
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#SexwithTopher is back. Episode 3 is all about SEXUAL HEALTH. All the nitty-gritty details of what happens when you go to a GUM clinic for your 3-monthly sexually transmitted infections and disease checks. There is no shame in getting checked. I also chat to social activist, writer and the strategic lead of #PrEP4QueerMenOfColour, Phil Samba. We di…
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#SexwithTopher is back. This is a SEX-POSITIVE podcast brought to you by me, Topher Taylor. Episode 2 begins with a thank you for the success of Episode 1 - with a special thanks to my Sex Worker friends. I then discuss having sex during the Corona Virus outbreak and what this means for sex. Is it safe to sleep around during the COVID-19 outbreak?T…
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Hello, Slappers! #SexwithTopher has arrived. This is a provocative podcast brought to you by me, Topher Taylor. I’m a Sex educator from London. You can expect TART… and you can expect HEART. We are talking sex without filters and with a focus on self-love – just in time for Valentine’s Day!Episode 1 begins with a focus on sexual confidence with eas…
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