Is it so bad being called the Black sheep?

As requested by a friend, this is an episode for the men on the kind of partner they shouldn't go for when it comes to marriage

Why should you come first? Well...the other choice is not so greatIt's time to choose you

Why embodying the black cat energy is some thing every woman should do1) What is Black Cat Energy?2) What isn't Black Cat Energy?3) Why it makes sense to embody Black Cat Energy 4) How to embody Black Cat Energy?

Watch out for these traits of men you do not want to marry

Do you believe healthy love exists for you?

5 questions to ask yourself to discover your passion

Is the man your with really interested in being with you or do you have it the wrong way?

Signs your "friend" wants your man

People with a victim mentality are dangerous

BS women over 30s are still believing

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Ever had a friend that was too "boy crazy"? You can understand when you're teens but as adults, it's no longer cute but scary at times.

Do you trust your family or friends to set you up with someone for marriage?

My thoughts on the famous Sprinkle Sprinkle Lady's advice

Are you unknowingly chasing him?

Do you trust people too easily?

Almost broke down a few times in this episode. It hurts. I talk about Real men & Cursed creatures who pose as menI also talk about how men who care can help end femicide

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What can men learn from women?

I think both men & women can learn something from each other

What is a deal breaker in a relationship to you? Have you ever considered these points?

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My thoughts on why I'm against dating apps

Have you ever been love bombed by a friend? Do you know the signs?

Do you keep your own promises to yourself?

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Do men really love toxic women who treat them like s***?

In this episode, I teach you how to create a Love List to manifest your perfect partner

Signs you may not have noticed about your man who might still be in the closet

In this episode, I talk about the dangers of the hook up culture on a spiritual aspect & what women can do to avoid the "Loose booty" title.

The story of Shanquella Robinson & lessons we must learn about Envy

I know there are a lot of women who are going through the married man drama period in their lives so this episode is for them. If you find yourself in an entanglement with a married man. Please listen to this episode. Write to me if you want your email/letter read out. I'll keep it anonymous. Your privacy is important. Contact me on: aellaspeaks@gm…

I talk about the mindset of older, bitter women & give advice on how to handle them

The subtle traits of a toxic man that you could miss

Just some advice for all the single mothers out there

You may think you are but I list out some beliefs & behaviour you may have that prove otherwise.

Are you operating more on your feminine or masculine energy? Find out the difference between the two & learn how to balance the energies.

Femininity channels can be great to learn some things from when it comes to your Level up journey. However, I've come to realise some channels talk about things a woman should or should not do that I personally don't agree with.To learn more on embracing your femininity, love & healing, please follow my friend's amazing page on Instagram : @kenyan_…

What is Girl Code? It is a set of unspoken rules that women follow to maintain strong friendships. In this episode, I look in depth of some of these rules & redefine what they should mean.

Nice girls, you're only hurting yourself..

Are you unhappy at your job? Ever get that feeling you're just meant for more than sitting in an office cubicle? Here are the signs that support that

Have you ever worked with these types of co-workers: 1) The Gossiper 2) The Boss Wannabe 3) The Office Romeo 4) The Office Juliet 5) The Complainer 6) The Smelly Cat 7) The snitch

Listen to the 5 signs that you'll always remain stuck in a company instead of growing

Some of the red flags that a workplace can be toxic are seen right at the interview process. Some of them we already know & others we tend to brush aside. Listen to more to know what you could be missing.

Ever notice your co-worker sneering at you when you speak? Or even giving those elevator looks? Sometimes you hear them gossiping about you or they make snide comments about you. No. You're not imagining it. You're dealing with a jealous co-worker.

Nobody likes to deal with office politics but they exist & not much can be done about it. So how do you handle it?

Have you ever wondered about dating a co-worker? Is it worth the risk?

Sexual harassment is not just limited to physical touch. What else is defined as sexual harassment? Find out more!