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How fast do you have to have "IT"? Our culture tells us to find a microwave to speed up the process. C.L. Whiteside, a man who sees and hears multiple perspectives through his life of coaching sports, serving in education, and attempting to conform to Christ, searches for the nonmicrowaved truth. C.L. gets that what’s cool and acceptable now, may not be cool and acceptable tomorrow—and most importantly, may not be what’s best.
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When you go from nothing to something there are outlets the world encourages you to tap into. This episode challenges you to evaluate the outlets you're choosing and figure out the why. Looking at Saul who went from being a man of low status to becoming a powerful king, we share common reasons today for choosing bad outlets. King Saul's life serves…
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Think of a time when someone wronged you or mistreated you. When you've come from nothing to something, this hits especially hard because you don't want to go backward. Is the satisfaction that vengeance brings enough to keep you being "something"? Often, the reasons we want vengeance are rooted in the wrong mindset. David and King Saul give us a s…
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Have you ever thought that you were being overlooked? There may be some truth to this, but if you think that God doesn't see you, then you're mistaken. God has handpicked you for some awesome things. However, sometimes we get in the way of ourselves. In this episode, we look at the contrasting responses to God not overlooking two men who were once …
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Being foolish has consequences. Most people who are fools don't know they're fools, or they are only foolish in some areas. Why be foolish at all though? Proverbs is a book dedicated to wisdom, and Proverbs 3 is C.L.'s favorite chapter. It has principles that can bless anyone who follows them and lives by them. Tune in to this episode and gain wisd…
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You can change lives by uplifting those around you. This episode will assess your ability to awaken the lionheart of others and challenge you to not have walls up. There are common excuses we can fall prey to, and there are common characteristics we can learn from when it comes to uplifting and being uplifted. Check out this episode so you can brin…
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We all have skeletons in our closets (things we're ashamed of, embarrassed about, things we want to bury and act like they never happened). If you think you don't have any skeletons, I can guarantee you that someone close to you does. Our skeletons are disgusting, but how we deal with them shapes our view and walk in life. They may lead you to thin…
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Who doesn’t love a good movie, TV show, or book? It’s entertaining, it keeps our attention, and it oftentimes gets us to place ourselves in a character’s position. The Bible has this same effect (if you actually read it). The book of Judges is one of those books of the Bible you may not be very familiar with, but it contains a collection of histori…
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Are you the type of Christian that the world doesn't mind putting up with and has even come to love? The world is fond of those who hold close the philosophies of the culture around them but still call themselves Christians. This episode highlights when we mix messages and looks at the dangerous characteristics that often accompany trying to play t…
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What do you do when someone you love and are close to proclaims that Jesus is not their Savior? This is tough and can weigh down on us. C.L. has struggled with this and has come up with some non-microwaved truths based on God's Word and God's capabilities. Matthew 28:19 Luke 10:16 Philippians 4:6,7 Ephesians 4:32 1 Corinthians 13:4 Matthew 10:34-39…
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Can people truly change? In this episode, we will reflect on how we often perceive others based on outdated impressions and challenge whether these perceptions are accurate reflections of who they are now. The discussion will revolve around the factors that contribute to both positive and negative changes in individuals, emphasizing the role of fai…
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It is a major struggle to balance personal beliefs with societal expectations, particularly regarding “love is love.” This episode challenges the notion of accepting behaviors that contradict biblical teachings, emphasizing the importance of standing firm in one's faith and adhering to the commandments of God. Followers of Christ have to question t…
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On a scale of 1 to 100, 100 being the best, how would you rate yourself in goodness? The phrase "He/she is such a good person" is pretty common, and there is usually a common understanding when it is said about someone. But what makes someone "good" in God's eyes? Sometimes we blame the devil for tempting us into not being good when we should be lo…
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God's Old Testament people, the Israelites, chose to create an idol in the form of a golden calf and worship it. This may sound stupid to us, but at times we are just like the Israelites. History repeats itself all too often. Our culture has made an idol out of having fun and getting lit; the Israelites could relate. Is getting lit the new golden c…
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People are told to be self-aware of their thoughts and feelings. There is an even deeper self-analyzation that can take place though: self-analyzing one's spirit. Never underestimate the importance of regular self-examination, questioning one's motives, sins, and being real on where your relationship with God is. Through Scripture and personal refl…
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What’s the deepest connection that can be forged that can unite us across cultures and continents? Let’s challenge the narratives of division perpetuated by the media and society. In a world seemingly torn apart by race, gender, geographical boundaries, and superficial affiliations, this episode explores the profound unity that can be found through…
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Are followers of Jesus and those who call themselves Christians arrogant to believe Jesus is the only way? Should Christians be tolerant of other religions and alternate paths? This episode looks at how the enemy may be using these insults and philosophies to lead us to the wrong path and ultimately destroy us. Followers of Christ should be unapolo…
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When we drift off and reminisce about our past, we often go back to moments of peak physicality, excitement, and receiving great praise and honor. At times our blasts to the past have us dwelling on past sins and misremembering. In this episode we will explore the ability to remain present and reminiscent of the right things. 1 Peter 1:3 1 Corinthi…
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In this episode we'll look at leadership, specifically spiritual leadership and what should be prioritized. The apostle Paul confronted a big-time leader and emphasized the importance of holding leaders accountable. There is an urgency to confronting error within leadership, even when it means challenging prominent figures for the sake of certain t…
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In this episode, C.L. dives into the often overlooked but profound reality of spiritual warfare. You've probably heard or been a part of discussions about bad energy and negativity. However, C.L. asks the more pointed and real underlying question: Are we unknowingly welcoming demons into our lives? Find out how to put on the needed armor from God a…
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Where do we go for answers during periods of doubt? Where we look for answers matters, and sometimes we create more doubt by looking to the wrong places for answers. Thomas, one of the 12 apostles, is known for his doubt. However, there are some very practical themes we can highlight and learn from Doubting Thomas and from how God delivered truth t…
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Lessons of life are beyond valuable. In this episode, imagine you can time travel to share lessons with yourself or another loved one. The lessons in this episode will help you appreciate some of the things you have held on to dearly, question some philosophies you are living by, and appreciate the grace you've been covered in. Amos 3:3 Galatians 6…
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Are you constantly chasing career advancements at the expense of your foundational values? In this episode, C.L. will use biblical wisdom to explore the dangers of neglecting certain relationships, faith, and personal integrity in the pursuit of success. Listen in as he uncovers the keys to achieving balance and lasting peace amidst life's demands.…
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This episode dives into the intricate world of coaching through a Christian lens. Whether you're an experienced and confident coach or someone who is considering stepping into a role like this, this episode offers invaluable insights to coaching up people and aiming to win spiritually. Genesis 39:3,4 Daniel 6:10 Galatians 5:22,23 Matthew 5:14 Danie…
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What people feel, perceive, or envision has so much to do with the messages they hear. There are some messages we hear every day that we aren't even conscious of but can be chalked up to the culture we live in. A lot of those messages are questionable. But there is one message you should hear every day because it can change your complete outlook on…
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Think about your relationships. Have you ever wished or wondered why you are not closer with some people even though you've put a lot of energy into the relationships? Some people don't connect deeply because they aren't aligned in certain areas. This episode looks at why some relationships have connection limits and considers what uniquely connect…
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In any and every situation, you can seek to find the good or seek to find the bad. Which do you usually default to seeking? As Christians, we want to make sure our vision is not obstructed. If you are on edge or find yourself worrying or anxious about anything, there is a great chance you need to check your vision in life. 2 Samuel 11 Proverbs 11:2…
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God uses some interesting people and circumstances to share the gospel. Have you ever thought about how he wants to use you to share the Good News? Do you think you're capable of spreading God's Word? Whether or not you think you or someone else is capable of sharing God's Word, this episode looks at how God can take the unlikely and make them vess…
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The social media activity and presence of a Christian should look different from the average person's. What made you like or love that post on social media? Are you conscious of what you're showing others through what you favor on social media? Although the Bible never mentions the most popular social media outlets by name, it definitely gives us g…
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Do you get annoyed when you hear about someone wasting a second or third chance? The Bible is full of second-chance stories. How many chances have you been given? Do you ever worry that you might run out of chances? This episode shows that when God gives second chances, it's different from when we do the same thing. 2 Samuel 12:2-7 Ephesians 1:4,5 …
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Parents love their children so much that at times it becomes a form of worship. If you have a child, plan on having children, or are a son or daughter, then this is a great episode for you. C.L. examines what forms of child worship you may be participating in and helps you understand how to guard against them. (And if you didn't catch it, this epis…
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If you had the fate of someone's life in your hands or had to make a decision that went against what everyone wanted, could you do it? Making decisions can be draining. Making tough decisions is even more draining. There are some people in the Bible we can definitely learn from when it comes to making decisions. This episode looks at the good, the …
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Have you ever heard the phrase "live in the world but don't be of the world"? What does that mean for a Christian? Does this mean you can't celebrate any holidays? Can a Christian still represent God if culture or traditions are mixed in? There are a few things you always need to keep in mind so you can be aware of what the world's intention is. C.…
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Do you "stand on business" for God? You may be wondering what that even means. But whether you know what it means or not, you are standing for a number of things you may not even be aware of. C.L. discusses why you might want to make sure you are standing for God and what standing for God can do for you. Proverbs 1:32,33 Acts 5 Romans 5:8 Mark 10:4…
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If you're a human being, then there's a great chance you're dealing with some sort of pressure at this moment or will be dealing with pressure in the future. How should you deal with it? Where does it come from? Is there such a thing as "good pressure"? Let's talk about the weird balance that's needed in order to feel the pressure but then LOVE the…
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There are some "harmless fun" philosophies that Christians should beware of—because they try to put us under a spell. Do you know your Zodiac sign? Are you superstitious? Do you know what or whom you're worshiping? Let's make sure we aren't under any spells and know how to avoid them altogether. Ephesians 4:27-29 Proverbs 3:5 Isaiah 2:6 Isaiah 8:19…
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This episode originally ran in January 2022. We'll be back next week with a new episode from C.L.! A new year usually calls for new goals for many people. Don't let your goals just be something that sounds good, but instead allow your goals to be fueled and empowered. There's a method to creating goals that you can control and will help you grow in…
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Here's a personal favorite episode from C.L. that first ran in November 2022. Enjoy while we're on break! Another passage from Galatians 6 that C.L. has a tattoo of is a reminder to stop planting garbage. Destruction comes when we plant the wrongs things and our focus is in the wrong place. Weeds can grow almost anywhere; and especially in our cult…
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While we're on a short break, here's another of C.L.'s memorable episodes! This episode originally ran in December 2021. Being a good friend takes a unique understanding of HOW, especially since some don't even want a friend—they want a person they can control and who allows them to feel more comfortable in being wrong. C.L. breaks down the special…
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We're taking a short break during this Christmas season. But we leave you with some of CL's hand-picked memorable and favorite episodes! Too often those who are deemed as strong get overlooked and don't have many places to turn to when they are dealing with a lot. Who counsels the counselor? If you are often leaned on, you have to know how to recha…
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It's one thing to tell someone you're a Christian; it's another thing when someone notices that you are different (in a positive way). Are you a blessing? What are the signs or symbols of a Christian? There are distinct trademarks that Christians are empowered to display that are often overlooked. This episode explores those distinct trademarks. Pr…
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Chasing happiness can have you bouncing from one thing to another. How strong is your desire to be happy? The book of Philippians has some outstanding lessons and shows us there is something greater than happiness. Believe it or not, we as Christians can see why happiness is overrated and where to find something greater than worldly happiness. Phil…
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Observing different types of conversations is interesting. Sometimes people talk too much, and others want to avoid talking to them. Sometimes people seem as if they don't know what to say at all. How good do you think you are at conversing? This episode analyzes Jesus' conversational approach and considers an exchange that he had with an unlikely …
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Do you have someone you call your mentor? Even if you don't give someone the title of mentor, mentorship plays a role in your life. There are some overlooked components of mentorship that can benefit you greatly. There are also some warnings as well as some encouragements that make being a mentor a double-edged role. Proverbs 27:17 Proverbs 22:6 Pr…
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Life is like a movie, and the main character in your life is none other than you. How much should you focus on yourself and embrace the mentality that you are the main character? And what should that look like? What script are you looking at? Who is the director of your life? However you may answer, don't forget about the actual star character in y…
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Can the devil read minds? The greatest liar, accuser, and fraud is a powerful enemy we should be aware of, but how far does his power extend? There are some weapons and traps he uses that we often overlook but shouldn't. Here's the real question that has to be addressed: Is the devil on the same level as our God? Genesis 5:3 Romans 12:2 1 John 2:15…
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Do you know what qualifies or disqualifies someone from being a pastor? "A pastor is to be above reproach." What does this mean? Is someone disqualified from being a pastor if they've had a crazy past, gotten a divorce, or have a wild family? Our culture has opinions, messages, and feelings on who should be a pastor, but we have to look at God's Wo…
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When do you personally reevaulate your life, calling, and purpose? Maybe you've never given it a lot of thought or time. C.L. examines his life each year around his birthday and comes up with a word for the year to focus on. This year's word has to do with "proving more powerful than opposing forces." Check out why he chose this word and how it rel…
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Who doesn't love good customer service that makes them feel welcome and appreciated? In fact, we often choose a church based on how well it can serve us. But should Christians have the customer service mentality when it comes to church? What other aspects of a good church might we be missing if we only choose based on how it can serve us? What abou…
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The dating world is becoming harder, and it's getting more cutthroat. If your relationship status is single, you may be wondering how to attract Mr. or Ms. Right. If you are in a relationship or even married, you may be wondering if the person you're with is the right one. Whether you are looking for the ideal person, wondering if the person you're…
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What does a God-fearing woman look like? There are some characteristics that seem to be common in God-fearing women and one characteristic ALL should strive to emulate whether you are a woman or a man. This episode examines those characteristics and highlights how Jesus, the perfect man, shared commonality especially with one of these traits. Matth…
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