The War and Treaty’s Michael and Tanya Trotter grew up in Cleveland, Ohio, and Washington, DC, respectively, but both have family roots in the South. They also grew up in the musical traditions of their churches – Tanya in the Black Baptist Church and Michael in the Seventh Day Adventist Church – where they learned the power of song to move people. After becoming a father at a very young age, Michael eventually joined the armed forces and served in Iraq and Germany, where he took up songwriting as a way of dealing with his experiences there. Meanwhile Tanya embarked on a singing and acting career after a breakthrough appearance in Sister Act 2 alongside Whoopi Goldberg and Lauryn Hill. Now, after a long and sometimes traumatic journey, Michael and Tanya are married, touring, winning all sorts of awards, and set to release their fifth album together, and their fourth as The War and Treaty. Sid talks to Michael and Tanya about the new record, Plus One , as well as their collaboration with Miranda Lambert, what it was like to record at FAME studios in Muscle Shoals, and how they’re blending country, soul, gospel, and R&B. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices…
Dads face unique issues during and after divorce. We identify and address the issues relevant to divorced/divorcing dads and create an action plan to survive and thrive! *Become a community member and access full episodes and additional MEMBERS ONLY content: https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-tiers/* DISCLAIMER: The purpose of this podcast is to inform not influence. It is not a substitute for professional care or advice by a qualified professional. The host as well as guests who sp ...
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Broken to Blessed | Addiction Recovery, Marriage + Divorce, Anxiety, Depression for Christians, Mental Health Support
Randi Tisdall— Christian Mental Health Support, Addiction Recovery, Overcome Divorce, Self Improvement
Do you feel completely broken? Are you facing obstacles like addiction, depression, anxiety, divorce, grief, or all of the above? And you’re awake at night, wondering how you’re going to overcome it all? Hi there, I’m Randi, a work in progress. My battles have been many, from addiction to depression and most recently: divorce. I’ve felt lost and broken, and wondered how I was going to survive. But God is bigger than our problems, and if you’re walking a dark season, know that there is peace ...
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Do you ever feel stuck in the pain? Stuck in the feelings, stuck in the circumstances, stuck in the addiction, whatever the pain is. We feel like we're running around in circles, doing the same thing over and over again but there's no healing in sight. But there's one thing we can (and need to) do when life gets too painful to cope. And by doing th…
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In today's parenting landscape, we often hear about the importance of involved parents. But did you know that fathers bring a unique set of parenting skills to the table? In his book "The Boy Crisis," Dr. Warren Farrell explores how dads parent differently from moms, and why these differences are crucial for child development, especially for boys. …
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The Bible tells us in John 16:33 that in this world, we will have trouble. Even as Christians, there will be tribulation, and we will experience at least one crisis, if not multiple in a lifetime. But there are really only 2 options when it comes to how we handle the crisis. Today we're going to discuss what a crisis is + those 2 options. And more …
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In this episode, we share valuable strategies to support children through the turbulent waters of divorce. Discover how consistency and openness can anchor a child’s world, from recognizing emotional and behavioral changes to fostering a stable environment. We introduce the engaging "Rose Thorn Bud" dinner-time game as a tool to nurture open commun…
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Today I'm going to walk you through 3 types of POWERFUL prayers that you absolutely should be incorporating into your prayer life. Prayer is powerful! And if we're not utilizing our prayers, building our prayer life and our relationship with God, we are missing out on so many blessings and the opportunity for God to really move in our lives, and th…
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This episode addresses the pressing concerns of divorced fathers regarding their children's safety in the wake of a mother’s new romantic partner. It explores the psychological and biological underpinnings that explain why women often move on quickly after divorce and the increased risks associated with introducing a non-biological male figure into…
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Having your heart broken is one of the most painful experiences we can have as humans. To be brokenhearted is to have a crushed spirit, which the Bible says, "who can bear?" Today we're going to talk about heartbreak, and the ways our hearts can be broken in relationships. But before you have a panic attack, know this: if our hearts have been broke…
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You've probably heard the saying "when God closes a door, he opens a window." True. But what if you're standing in the hallway? What if all the doors are closed, you don't even see any windows. You don't see a way out at ALL. You're just stuck? Well, today we're going to talk about dark seasons, how God has ALREADY provided a way out, and what you …
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What if you could become the CEO of your own divorce, steering your life towards a future that truly aligns with your values and desires? Join us for a compelling conversation with Bill Miles co-founder of Best Self Magazine and the Best Self Intuitive Divorce Coaching program, as he shares his transformative journey through difficult divorces. Lea…
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Have you escaped something in your life? An addiction, toxic circumstances, a relationship, a mindset? Or do you continue to go back to the same things over and over again, even if it's bad for you? Even if it hurts you? On today's episode, we're going to talk about the 3 reasons why you would return and why we can't turn back. Subscribe on Youtube…
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Did God make a promise to you? Have you been praying for something specific, and you wonder if God is going to answer your prayer? Did He promise He would? In today's episode, we're going to talk about how you can recognize if God made a promise, and ease your mind about the process itself. I believe that there are 5 steps to a promise fulfilled, a…
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Divorced dads often face an uphill battle—not just in the courtroom, but in the court of public opinion. The narrative surrounding fathers post-divorce is frequently negative, portraying them as absent, irresponsible, or unfit parents. Society, fueled by media, Hollywood, advertising, sitcoms, and corporate policies, often reinforces the notion tha…
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Today we're going to answer the question: what is love? Particularly in marriage and what does that look like with your spouse? I want to explore the answer, because I honestly believe we get it wrong most of the time, myself included. And if we can't answer the question, what is love, then how do we expect to fully give it OR receive it? Subscribe…
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Divorce. It ain't pretty. And if you're going through one, you know first hand that it's one of the toughest battles we can face. However, just because it's hard, that doesn't mean we can't walk through it in a healthy way. On this episode, we're gonna talk about 3 truths when it comes to surviving divorce and this season of your life. So you can m…
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Navigating divorce can be overwhelming, but with clear priorities and manageable steps, it's possible to regain clarity and purpose. In this episode, we explore practical strategies to handle the emotional storms and daunting tasks that accompany divorce, emphasizing the importance of support systems and self-care. • Understanding the multi-faceted…
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Today we're gonna talk about standing for your marriage. All marriages go through tough times, but for some of you, your marriage is in crisis. And you may have asked yourself, and God, what do I do? So in today's episode, we're going to answer the question: Should you stand for your marriage or should you file for divorce? Does filing for divorce …
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Have you been afflicted? Do you feel like you're just going through it right now? Well, I have good news: if you've been afflicted, and you're a Christian, the Bible tells us that you WILL be comforted. That's a promise. To live on this earth means that we will face many trials, some fiery trials, that hurt us and break us and make us feel like we'…
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Dads navigating back-to-school chaos find valuable insights on meal planning and preparation in this episode. We discuss practical strategies, involve kids in cooking, and offer tips to make grocery shopping easier and more enjoyable. • Importance of meal planning for divorced dads • Overcoming challenges in meal preparation • Tips for effective me…
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What are the chances for successful recovery? Are you faking your recovery? After years of witnessing and experiencing addiction, I have come to the conclusion that it really comes down to the heart behind the addiction and your response to it. Godly sorrow vs. worldly sorrow. In this episode, we're going to talk about the key differences between t…
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Are you sick and tired of being sick and tired of your addiction? What are you trading for it? Can you have your cake and eat it too? On today's episode, I'm simply going to present you with some questions, some food for thought. My hopes is that through this, you'll start to ask yourself: when is enough enough? and more importantly, when will I le…
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Divorce can feel like navigating uncharted waters, especially when you're a father striving to maintain a healthy relationship with your children while managing interactions with your ex. Setting clear boundaries is essential—not only for your well-being but also for fostering healthy relationships. Boundaries ensure that you remain a consistent an…
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Today we're going to talk about something reaaaaallly important. And that is understanding Satan's tactics to destroy you. A tactic is a plan to maneuver you into a certain end. We know that Satan's plan is to steal, kill, and destroy. And how will we know how to overcome and defeat him if we don't know how he's going to present himself? So on toda…
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Divorce is one of the most challenging decisions a dad can face. It’s not just a legal process; it’s an emotional, financial, and logistical shift that will impact every aspect of your life. Before you move forward, it’s essential to approach this situation with careful planning and a strong support system. One of the best ways to navigate this jou…
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What's expired in your life that you need to toss in the trash? What's gotta go? Because if we hold on to the past and the pain, it's going to eat us alive, keep us stuck, and prevent us from moving forward. Life is constantly changing and we need to be prepared to move on when necessary. Let's dive into 3 points we need to focus on, even when we'r…
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The start of a new year brings a chance for a fresh start—an opportunity to refocus on your priorities, heal from past challenges, and build a positive future. For divorced or divorcing dads, this time of renewal is especially powerful. It’s a chance to reassess your role as a father, prioritize self-care, and create a solid foundation for the year…
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Do you fear change? Are you a creature of comfort? Or do you want things to change but you just feel overwhelmed? In this episode we're going to talk about how great change brings great results. Specifically, how the Bible teaches us to FEAR NOT when presented with a new plan. Not only that, but God is going to teach us and grow us through the proc…
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For most divorced or divorcing dads navigating the holidays can be challenging especially if all you ever dreamed of was that idyllic holiday season with your family. Listen in as I share specific tips for co-parenting after divorce during the holidays. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops…
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Here's a hard truth: in life, people we love will hurt us. The betrayal can run deep, sometimes sending us into a downward spiral, backsliding into addiction or plunging us into depression. But is it possible to overcome the hurt? We're gonna talk about this today + how we can use this as opportunities for growth and positive change. Subscribe on Y…
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The holiday season, often a time for joy and togetherness, can feel vastly different for divorced dads. Balancing the desire to create meaningful moments with their children while managing emotional and logistical hurdles can make Christmas and New Year’s uniquely challenging. However, with thoughtful planning and intentional strategies, divorced d…
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Forget new years goals and resolutions. Let's talk recovery. How do you plan on recovering successfully in the new year? Like, really taking charge of your life, beyond the new years routine that's just plain stale and outdated. How can we heal and move forward? Subscribe on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@randitisdall For more help to build your…
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Divorce can reshape many aspects of life, and for dads, one of the most emotionally charged changes often involves navigating the holiday season. It can be tough adjusting to a new reality, especially when you’re used to spending holidays a certain way with your kids. But this is also an opportunity - a chance to create new traditions that are mean…
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The holiday season is upon us and the change in our circumstances as a divorced/divorcing dad can cause significant stress. Listen in as Jude shares ways in which you can manage this stress and create a healthy and happy holiday season. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Priv…
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Divorce is an emotional upheaval, but for many dads, it becomes a transformative journey filled with opportunities for growth, connection, and newfound purpose. Let’s delve deeper into each reason with examples that resonate with divorced or divorcing dads. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Works…
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Divorce can be one of the most challenging and life-changing decisions a father may face. Beyond the emotional toll, it requires thoughtful planning and preparation to ensure a smooth transition for yourself and your children. In this episode, we’ll explore the critical steps a dad should take when considering divorce, offering practical advice and…
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The holiday season can be a bittersweet time for many divorced dads. On one hand, it’s a chance to share special moments with your children, filled with joy and wonder. On the other, it might bring up reminders of the traditions you once shared as a family, now forever changed. Your first holiday season after a divorce is bound to be a time of mixe…
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Intimacy, style and makeover expert Karina Solomon (https://successappeal.com) joins Jude to discuss why it is important to cultivate your own style and how remaking your image during divorce is beneficial. Grab her free tips here: https://successappeal.com/style-tips-for-men Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Me…
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In this episode Jude discusses the reality that many friends will struggle with navigating your divorce and how you can skillfully address the issue with them. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Groups & MORE! - https://thedivorceddadvocate.com/membership-t…
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Divorce is a life-altering event that can leave you emotionally and mentally drained. For dads, balancing parenthood and personal recovery is often even more challenging. However, there may come a time when you feel ready to dip your toes back into the dating pool. But how do you know if it’s the right time? The decision to date again after divorce…
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226 - Why Dads Need a Spiritual Practice During Divorce: Finding Strength in a Time of Chaos
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Divorce is often one of the most emotionally and mentally taxing experiences a person can go through. For dads, it brings unique challenges—navigating custody, finances, personal healing, and maintaining a sense of normalcy for their children. Amidst this uncertainty, developing and maintaining a spiritual practice can be a powerful way to stay gro…
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In this episode, we’re diving into a sensitive but crucial conversation: discussing divorce with your children. We all know that divorce is challenging for everyone involved, but how you approach it with your kids can make a significant difference in their emotional well-being. Children process divorce differently at each developmental stage—from t…
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Fatherhood has long been recognized as a crucial component in a child’s development, but society often still assumes that mothers are the primary caregivers. This assumption can leave many fathers marginalized in custody battles and parenting time arrangements. However, fathers bring unique and irreplaceable qualities to their children’s lives that…
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When going through a divorce, one of the most significant assets to address is often the marital home. This process can be emotionally and financially challenging, but understanding your options can help you make informed decisions. Here are the main ways couples typically handle dividing the family home during divorce: Join The Divorce Dadvocate M…
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In this episode of Practical Advice, Jude addresses the process of choosing an attorney and gives tips and advice on how to mitigate the legal process in order to garner a beneficial outcome for you and your children. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses – Private Discussion Grou…
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Maintaining a balanced diet and exercise routine with a busy schedule can be challenging, but it's certainly achievable with some planning and commitment. Here are some practical strategies to help you stay healthy despite a hectic lifestyle. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE Workshops & Courses …
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As a divorced or divorcing father, you're facing one of life's most challenging transitions. During this difficult time, it's crucial to remember that your children are looking to you for guidance and stability. In this episode Jude shares a biblical reference that offers valuable wisdom on how to conduct yourself in a healthy manner, even amidst t…
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When life is upside down, it can feel like it will never be right side up again. What do you do when you feel powerless, when outside circumstances or people's choices seem to determine your future, your path, your life, and all we want to do is take control? In this episode, we're going to talk about control. What you can actually control in your …
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When working with fathers entering into a divorce or who have recently divorced, there is a 5-step process through which I assist them in identifying and implementing an action plan for their lives. Throughout this Dads’ Guide to Divorce series, I will be sharing this specific process with detailed ways in which you can utilize it in order to achie…
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Jason Kendrick and Kirk Samuels, The Mad Men of Masculinity, join the show to preview their respective M.E.N. Summit talks Who Do You Thnk You Are, and How is That Working for You? and Sexual Sovereignty. Learn more about the M.E.N. Summit at menempowerment.net. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings – FREE …
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Chris Natzke, 8th Degree Black Belt and 1999 United States National Tae Kwon Do Champion, leadership coach and professional speaker joins Jude to discuss his upcoming talk at the M.E.N. Summit called MENtoring: Creating a Legacy of H.O.P.E. for Future Generations. For more info about the summit go to menempowerment.net. Join The Divorce Dadvocate M…
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Brett "Zach" Zachman, founder of BeMen a non-profit organization focused on male wellness, joins Jude to share parts of his 5 Pillars of Male Wellness talk coming up at the M.E.N. Summit on August 24th in Parker, CO. For more info on the summit go to menempowerment.net. Join The Divorce Dadvocate Membership Community - FULL Episodes - Live Meetings…
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