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019: I Let TWO People Down This Week!

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I let TWO people down this week! And while I hate disappointing people, it was instructive and also helped me clarify my thoughts around being disagreeable and what it really means. Being agreeable all the time means you are putting others' before yourself. Nothing wrong with that - in the SHORT TERM. But if you're doing that ALL the time, then you're probably falling short of your potential. Sometimes it's necessary to put yourself first to move forward - just be prepared to disappoint. But knowing that I'm prioritizing myself eases that pain. 00:13 - I'm a disappointment on two fronts 00:35 - Disappointment #1 01:25 - Breaking the news 02:00 - Her perspective vs ours 02:28 - Disappointment #2 03:20 - May not have been an easy way out 04:05 - Unwritten social contract 04:35 - Breaking down disappointment 04:55 - Agreeable people are taking a backseat 05:40 - Letting people down is prioritizing YOU
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I let TWO people down this week! And while I hate disappointing people, it was instructive and also helped me clarify my thoughts around being disagreeable and what it really means. Being agreeable all the time means you are putting others' before yourself. Nothing wrong with that - in the SHORT TERM. But if you're doing that ALL the time, then you're probably falling short of your potential. Sometimes it's necessary to put yourself first to move forward - just be prepared to disappoint. But knowing that I'm prioritizing myself eases that pain. 00:13 - I'm a disappointment on two fronts 00:35 - Disappointment #1 01:25 - Breaking the news 02:00 - Her perspective vs ours 02:28 - Disappointment #2 03:20 - May not have been an easy way out 04:05 - Unwritten social contract 04:35 - Breaking down disappointment 04:55 - Agreeable people are taking a backseat 05:40 - Letting people down is prioritizing YOU
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