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Mama gotta have a life, too!
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This episode, Mama Gotta Have a Life, Too is inspired by the chapter, by the same name, in my book Of All the Lives I’ve Lived, This is My Favorite: An Inspirational Memoir.
Our guest, Avanii Inarii, youth development professional and clinical social worker (loading) shares how she has become reborn in her identity by changing her name, and has re-defined her relationship with her mother to accommodate her growth and create a relationship with more ease, grace, love and compassion.
Together, Avanii and host, Lotus Hale Hill unearth a few gems to help you to foster a stronger relationship with your mother:
Remember that your mother is a whole other person, who happened to be your mother along her journey. This is not to absolve accountability, but it does remind us that as children, our mothers are people first before us and they are entitled to put themselves first.
As generations progress, we have the privilege to go against the grain and create new ways of doing things, living lives, and caring for ourselves. Our parents have built their relationships, identities on social constructs that we are brave enough to step outside of.
As children move along their healing journey, it's imperative that we withhold judgment and ease our expectations of our parents as they may not be as far on their journeys. They have yet to master the capacity to be the parent we wished they could be.
The dynamics between mother and child, parent and child can be symbiotic in that you both can parent each other through life’s ups and downs
Though we love our parents, we cannot live their lives for them, we have to let them experience life and support them on the sidelines. It’s also what we’d want them to do for us.
Remember that there is no “perfect” version of what a mother/child relationship should look like. So long as you maintain a relationship that make sense to both of you, that’s all you can ask for.
Mother daughter relationships don’t have to be a power grab, allowing a child to be a child and explore on their own, without parental control, is the easiest way to ensure that they don’t carry shame for speaking their truth, articulating how they feel, and living authentically.
Resources Referenced in this Episode
Connect with me
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Connect with Avanii Inarii instagram.com/avaniiinarii
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