001: Welcome to Our Nightmare

How To Be a Terrible Daughter

In this first episode, Megan and Elizabeth introduce themselves, talk about growing up in a narcissistic family, and explain why they embraced being terrible daughters. If you’ve been struggling with making sense of your childhood or you want to know more about what emotional abuse looks like, this is the place for you. And if you know that you grew up in a toxic family and want to find community, know that you belong here, too.

We’re so happy to be here together with each other and with you. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite podcast app to automatically get all of the new episodes as soon as they drop, and we would love for you to connect with us on Instagram, @terribledaughterpod!

What We Cover In This Episode:

• A look at what this podcast is all about, and who it is and isn’t for [2:02]
• What functional loss is and how we will be exponentially expanding the definition of grief [20:12]
• A breakdown of narcissism and personality disorders, plus how they differ from one another [27:15]

• Why we’re using narcissism as catch-all term for narcissism, borderline personality, and anti-social personality disorders [44:43]

• A big realization that Elizabeth recently made from what the clients they work with have told them [55:06]

• How to tell if you have a narcissistic parent and the resource that Megan used which brought so much clarity to her own relationship with mother [56:32]

• What our “Crazy Mom Off” segment will be and some stories from both of our lives that we want to share [64:17]
• Additional tools that we both use to get through difficult times on our own journeys [55:24]

Links & Resources:

https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2017-23099-001

https://theawarenesscentre.com/narcissistic-parent/

https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fo/3ay1zfrv72snm0pn8koie/ANamvpZWLJ2tpn1ulH92ogc?rlkey=bjev5zkpvo1qhmqwsxpxqnv71&st=kyq7yqmx&dl=0

https://www.taramohr.com/the-playing-big-book/