Why Would You Show Me This? is a podcast where hosts Will and Dani show each other films that they would not otherwise watch to get an outsider prospective and also, to torture each other a little bit. Each new episode will feature a different film to discuss and dissect. You can expect Will to pick more arthouse type films while Dani sticks with the more mainstream fare. As the podcast goes on, there will be guests coming on to talk about the films chosen or even bring films on to watch! Ei ...
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A HOLY MESS - CHRISTIAN, ANXIOUS, REGRET, SHAME, GRIEF, AA
Dani Sumner - Christian Life Transformation Coach & Faith Led Motivational Speaker, Spiritual Director, Mentor, Christian Life Coach
**A Holy Mess Podcast is ranked in the top 1.5% globally** Welcome to A HOLY MESS, a safe place for you! Great at taking care of business but struggle taking care of you? You’re in the right place! Does your life look pretty good on the outside, but inside, you’re struggling? I’m here to help. If you’ve been feeling stuck, lost, exhausted, tired, or just drowning in a life that seems unfulfilling, broken, or like something is missing, THIS is the podcast for you. I’m bringing you the absolut ...
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So, I had this weird morning where I wore my shirt backward (don't ask 😅). But you know what? It got me thinking about how we sometimes feel in life - like everything's just... off. So today, I'm briefly talking about: Feeling stuck or out of place (been there!) Getting through the tough stuff without losing hope Why we seriously need our people fo…
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160. A Christian's Journey of Faith and Resilience Through The Hardest Days and Biggest Struggles. Inspiration from Guest Deborah Schultz
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Not many of us would choose our struggles or the paths of hardship we have to walk out in this life. So when you meet someone walking through hell, and they say, "I wouldn't trade or give up all I've gained walking this hard road." --I think it's 100% worth listening to what they say! And that's our guest today. My dear friend Deb Schultz is with u…
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159. One Of The Real Reasons You're Feeling Distant From God--Bridging the Gap: Reconnecting with God Despite Past Hurts
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159. One Of The Real Reasons You're Feeling Distant From God--Bridging the Gap: Reconnecting with God Despite Past Hurts One of the Real Reasons You're Feeling Distant from God—Bridging the Gap: Reconnecting with God Despite Past Hurts Feeling distant from God? You're not alone, friend. In this episode, we explore how our earthly relationships, esp…
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158. Turning Grief into Purpose: The Heart Behind the non-profit 17 Strong with Guest Holly Teixeira
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*To learn more about 17 Strong or get involved in this amazing ministry please visit: https://www.17strong.org/ Episode 158. Turning Grief into Purpose: The Heart Behind the non-profit 17 Strong with Guest Holly Teixeira Hi friends! I'm so excited to share today's episode with you for many reasons. First and foremost, I know deep in my bones that h…
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157. Finding Relief and Inner Peace: A Christian's helpful guide and tool to Inside-Out Living (Inspired by Psalm 16)
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Episode 157: Finding Relief and Inner Peace - Your Christian Guide to Inside-Out Living--when external situations, circumstances, and people are taking your peace away. Hey there, beautiful souls! Let's get real for a second – are you feeling like life's got you in a chokehold sometimes? Maybe you're crushing it on the outside, but inside? That's a…
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156. The Language & Journey of Grace. Walking with a Limp: Beyond Condemnation & Unlearning Judgment. A Conversation on Compassion, Healing, and Faith
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Hey friend! This episode is a deep dive into the messy, beautiful reality of our faith journey. I struggled for sooo long with judgment and condemnation. It's sometimes easier to live there, rather than to embrace Grace... such a paradox I know! Today, we have Jim Beebe with us--he's a licensed marriage and family therapist with over 40 years of mi…
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155. Adjusting When Parts of Life Feel Unmanageable & Navigating The Frustrating Situations We Don't Control: A Christian Perspective on Life's Challenges: Learning To Surrender
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Ever feel like some part of your life's spinning out of control? You're not alone! In this episode, we dive into those frustrating moments when our best efforts just aren't cutting it. Using a hilarious (and slightly embarrassing) story about my dog Coco, who has taught me so much about surrender and life through my dog training struggles--we explo…
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154. Anxiety, Worry, Grace, and Jesus: Rewriting Our Inner Dialogue. Using Scripture To Help Us, Not Shame Us. 2 Corinthians 10:5
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Ever struggle with obsessive worry or anxiety and feel bad about it?! I hope this perspective helps. Much love, Dani 🌟To learn more about Dani & to join the newsletter list-> www.danisumner.com ✅ 🎉 Learn more about Dani's Coaching program--"The Feel Better Journey." 🙏🏽Interested in one-on-one coaching or to get in touch? Contact Us At—> hello@danis…
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Life can often feel like a wild river, full of unexpected twists and turns. Last week, we went on a whitewater rafting adventure. I'm not super adventurous anymore, so it was definitely a stretch. I'm more hotelsy, than outdoorsy. And I willingly signed up for this! But I learned so much! The first thing I learned was-- I will neverrrrr do level 4 …
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152. The Serenity Prayer: Struggle with surrender? Christian recovery techniques and this simple prayer can help. One day at a time.
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If you memorize one prayer all year, let it be this one! This simple yet profound prayer has saved me from myself and my struggles more than I can count. I hope this short episode blesses you! You are not alone, and I'm cheering for you. The Serenity Prayer: "God grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change, The courage to change the…
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Today, we're diving deep into something that's been heavy on my heart—those complicated, often painful relationships in our lives. You know, the ones I'm talking about—the ones that ache deep within you and keep you up at night. Our nearest and dearest struggles either with our spouses, children, parents, siblings, churches or even colleagues- can …
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Hi friend! I'm sharing a short story, verse, quote, and song in today's short episode. I hope it blesses you! Remember, no matter how lonely you feel, you're not alone. Quote: "We are all born into this world looking for someone looking for us." --Psychiatrist Curt Thompson, read that again. 👆🏽 Song: I am not alone by Kari Job iTunes // YouTube // …
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Hey friends, Get ready to dive into the messy, beautiful reality of being human with Therapist Jim Beebe. Jim's such a gift to our community! We're talking about the loneliness and incompleteness so many of us feel, and guess what? It's not just you, and it doesn't mean you're failing at life or doing anything wrong! I know in some Christian circle…
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Hi friend! Life is full of ups and downs. And I'm feeling all the feelings and emotions that come along with the rollercoaster. :) In today's episode, I'm sharing a bit of what I've been wrestling through lately and some encouragement--if you're wrestling through a part of your life or this season of life--I hope you're encouraged! References: Quot…
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147. This, too, shall pass. It may pass like a kidney stone, but it will pass! Finding Faith in Hard Seasons.
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In today's episode, I share a personal struggle we're going through that's teaching me a ton about life. In this short encouragement episode, I also share a quote, a verse, and a song. I hope it encourages you! Quote: "Be not angry that you cannot make others as you wish them to be, since you cannot make yourself as you wish to be."-- Thomas a Kemp…
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146. Two Tools To Heal Your Self-image- Build Confidence, Recognize And Embrace Your Unique Strengths And Qualities, And Learn The Art Of Receiving Compliments
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“Our greatest strengths can also be our deepest vulnerabilities.”-Dani In today’s episode, I’m sharing two tools to help build self-confidence. One of the tools I share about is a practical exercise that you can incorporate into your daily routine. By practicing this tool, you will boost your self-confidence and gain valuable insights about yoursel…
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145. How To Heal Regret and Shame Through Radical Acceptance. Conquering Comparison And Navigating Judgment to Rewrite Your Life Story Through Redemption & Building Resiliency w/ Counselor Jim Beebe.
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Are you struggling with regret, shame, or feeling like you've missed out on the life you were supposed to have? Well then, you're in for a treat today! My counselor, Jim Beebe, is with us, AND holy moly, do we dive deep today! Jim's amazing, and you're going to love him. We're diving deep into the human experience of the "shoulda, coulda, woulda," …
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144. Healing our self-image and accepting Jesus' love for us can help us get through life's challenges with grace and faith. Quick encouragement.
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Hi friend, I'm reminded how much the harm the hard things we've walked through in this life affect us. They leave their mark on us at times, so to speak... So, if you're walking "through it," I'm sorry for the pain... but keep walking... you will get through this. You've survived all of your worst days so far. ;) Glad you're here, and I hope today'…
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143. Feeling Stressed Or Emotional? You're Not Alone – The Fruit of the Spirit is Here to Bless, Not Shame You
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Hey friend! Okay, let's get real for a second. Today, we're diving into the nitty-gritty of stress management and how to give shame the boot when we're struggling. Because let's face it, we're all beautifully complex humans, and guess what? That's exactly how God designed us! Now, I know there's this pesky little misconception that tends to float a…
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142. Navigating Emotional Healing: A Journey Through Grace, Self- Acceptance, and Personal Growth —A Peak Inside The Feel Better Journey
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Hi friend! Here's a sneak peek inside my coaching program, The Feel Better Journey. This short episode covers a few subjects, and I hope it encourages you! Also, if you have little ones, please put them on your headset. My language is a little 'colorful' in a few spots. Also, in case no one has mentioned it lately, while you still have breath in yo…
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141. Life Is ‘Brutiful’: Embracing The Mess, Navigating The Ups & Downs Of Life And How To Feel Better & Find Your Purpose
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Hey, my friend! Let's get real for a minute. Life is hard. It's messy, it's complicated, and sometimes it feels like we're drowning in a sea of grief, shame, and anxiety. But here's the thing: life is also beautiful. It's a crazy, wonderful, "brutiful" journey—as I once heard it said, and we're all in this together. I know what it's like to feel li…
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140. Do You Ever Feel Like You Don't Belong? Or Is Your Childhood Stuff Still Affecting You? "From Struggles to Strength"- Teri Shares Her Path to More Freedom, Faith & Healing From Past Hurts
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🎉 You're invited to sign up for The Feel Better Journey now. Remember to use code "EARLYBIRD24" for all the bonuses! 🎉 Bonuses: The first ten people who sign up will get $100 off, and the first five will ALSO get a free 30-minute one-on-one coaching call with me! ($100 value) Use code EARLYBIRD24 for the bonuses! Here's the link. Hey there, brave s…
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139. Embracing Grace- Navigating Life's Trials With Faith, God's Love, Finding Healthy Friendships and Forgiveness… 1 John 3
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Doors are open to Dani's coaching program, and you're invited to join us in The Feel Better Journey- 8 weeks to get unstuck from the things holding you back! Bonuses: The first ten people who sign up will get $100 off, and the first five will ALSO get a free 30 one-on-one coaching call with me! ($100 value) Use code EARLYBIRD24 for the bonuses! Her…
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138. Unlocking Inner Strength and Confidence: How to Overcome The Past & Begin Rewriting Your Story & Find Hope / Quote & Quick Encouragement
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Doors are open to Dani's coaching program, and you're invited to join us in The Feel Better Journey- 8 weeks to get unstuck from the things holding you back! Bonuses: The first ten people who sign up will get $100 off, and the first five will ALSO get a free 30 one-on-one coaching call with me! ($100 value) Use code EARLYBIRD24 for the bonuses! Her…
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Doors are open to Dani's coaching program, and you're invited to join us in The Feel Better Journey- 8 weeks to get unstuck from the things holding you back! Bonuses: The first ten people who sign up will get $100 off, and the first five will ALSO get a free 30 one-on-one coaching call with me! ($100 value) Use code EARLYBIRD24 for the bonuses! Her…
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136. Loneliness Doesn't Mean Something Is Wrong with You, It Means You're Human: Vulnerability & Grace
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Doors are open to Dani's coaching program, and you're invited to join us in The Feel Better Journey- 8 weeks to get unstuck from the things holding you back! Bonuses: The first ten people who sign up will get $100 off, and the first five will ALSO get a free 30 one-on-one coaching call with me! ($100 value) Use code EARLYBIRD24 for the bonuses! Her…
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135. In A Tough Season? 1 Daily Strategy That Will Help You Move Forward With Resilience When You’re Dealing With Difficult Emotions Or Overwhelming Thoughts That Keep You From Being Productive...
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Doors are open to Dani's coaching program, and you're invited to join us in The Feel Better Journey- 8 weeks to get unstuck from the things holding you back! Bonuses: The first ten people who sign up will get $100 off, and the first five will ALSO get a free 30 one-on-one coaching call with me! ($100 value) Use code EARLYBIRD24 for the bonuses! Her…
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134. How To Know When To Put Up Boundaries And When To Help In Difficult Friendships. Quote by Frederick Buechner, Brennan Manning & Fruit Of The Spirit Wisdom
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Doors are open to Dani's coaching program, and you're invited to join us in The Feel Better Journey- 8 weeks to get unstuck from the things holding you back! Bonuses: The first ten people who sign up will get $100 off, and the first five will ALSO get a free 30 one-on-one coaching call with me! ($100 value) Use code EARLYBIRD24 for the bonuses! Her…
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Doors are open to Dani's coaching program, and you're invited to join us in The Feel Better Journey- 8 weeks to get unstuck from the things holding you back! Bonuses: The first ten people who sign up will get $100 off, and the first five will ALSO get a free 30 one-on-one coaching call with me! ($100 value) Use code EARLYBIRD24 for the bonuses! Her…
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132. Faith Struggles Or Feeling Distant From God? How Childhood Experiences And Past Wounds Shape And Impact Our View of God's Love
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Doors are open to Dani's coaching program, and you're invited to join us in The Feel Better Journey- 8 weeks to get unstuck from the things holding you back! Bonuses: The first ten people who sign up will get $100 off, and the first five will ALSO get a free 30 one-on-one coaching call with me! ($100 value) Use code EARLYBIRD24 for the bonuses! Her…
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Doors are open, and you're invited to join us for The Feel Better Journey—eight weeks of working with Dani to get unstuck from the things holding you back! Hello friend, "The goal of life is not to NOT be triggered."—I know that sentence is not the best grammar, but that's the theme and message of today's episode! I hope the episode encourages and …
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130. Conversation w/ Therapist Jim Beebe. Learning Radical Acceptance. 🚨Also, Last Call For This Round Of The Feel Better Journey!
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Hi friend, I'm so grateful for our time with Jim today. If you're new around here, welcome! Jim is a regular on the show, and he's been a Therapist for over 40 years. I'm so grateful for the insight and wisdom he shares with us. We're continuing the conversation about learning to be okay when everything's not okay. And last call for this round of T…
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129. ⏰1 Quick Tip For Bringing Serenity In A Hard Moment: Box Or Square Breathing. Christian Meditation, Breathwork W/ Jesus
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Hi friend, I used to think meditation was so "woo-hoo" or "new agey" until I started doing it and realized what a holy and fantastic practice it could be! It doesn't have to be intimidating or be 20 minutes a day. You can do a short one in 30 seconds. The more I practice, the more it helps. It's funny how things work that way. Also, doors are open …
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128. 3 Simple Tools & Strategies To Help w/ Your Evening Routine. Learning To Habit Stack, Especially If You Struggle w/ ADHD, Seasonal Depression, Or Are Going Through A Tough Season
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Hi there! I've struggled with simple routines for years...until recently! And I have to say, routines and systems in place can be a gift and lifesaver, especially if you're in a struggling season (or a struggling lifetime, haha. More on that another day. Rome wasn't built in day! ;) Simple tools, like an evening routine, are a simple way to thrive …
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127. Are You Overwhelmed, Stressed, Or Frustrated? Join Grace In The Community To Learn About Tools And Practices To Help You Feel Better
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Hi friend, Today, we're talking with Grace from our community. She's such a wonderful woman, and I can't wait for you to meet her! She's the real deal and such an inspiration. Grace's sharing her experience in The Feel Better Journey Group Mentoring and Coaching Program—and doors are open now! ✅🌟 Take the leap, set aside this short season, and focu…
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126. Encouragement For When You're Feeling Distant From God, Struggling With Faith, Frustrated With Yourself, Or Feeling Lost Or Stuck. Psalm 139
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Hi friend, ➡️First, I'd LOVE for you to join me on Sunday, January 21st, for a FREE live virtual workshop called Thrive Under Pressure! Sign up here! 🎯I will talk about a few different strategies on how to move forward when you’re feeling stuck, exhausted by life, or struggling with anxiety. Come if you can; I'd love to have you there! There will b…
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125. Quick Encouragement. Struggle w/ Caring and Loving Yourself? How To Have A Healthier Relationship w/ Yourself, The Way Jesus Intended For Us All
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Hi friend, If you sometimes struggle to prioritize yourself, I hope this episode blesses you. Sometimes, when we try to care for ourselves, we feel guilty or selfish. I know many of us were never taught to care for ourselves in a soul-nourishing way. But I have found that when we learn this skill, we become a better help for the people in our lives…
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124. Thrive Under Pressure. Learning To Accept God’s Grace. A Blessing And Poem For Your Year
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Hello friends! Sign up for my Free workshop coming soon: Thrive Under Pressure It's next January 21st @ 2 pm (PST). Come live if you can! But there will be a replay if you can't make it live. Sign up here! I can't wait to see you there! Thanks for being here today and being part of our community. Enjoy today's episode and the beautiful poem by Mari…
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123. Codependent Blues: ➡️ When You’re Overwhelmed, Anxious Or Frustrated With The People In Your Life That You Want To Help, But Can’t. One Mindset Tip That Can Turn Your Day Around
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🎉*Here’s the WAITLIST link I mentioned in the episode! Hello friend! Holy moly, can the humans we love drive us nutty at times? In today’s episode, I’m sharing a quick story from my life and a turnaround tactic I use when I’m on the struggle bus. I talk briefly about my struggle with codependency—a very human struggle that most of us sensitive bein…
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122. 4 Steps To Learning To Thrive Through The Process of T.H.A.W. If You’re Feeling Stuck, Numb, Or Frustrated w/ Life, This Process Can Help!
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Hello friend! In my program, The Feel Better Journey, we unpack several concepts to find meaning and purpose in our lives and ultimately feel better! We don't just talk about these concepts in the program; we apply and practice them. That's why it works. The program aims to help empower us all to thrive through life, not just 'survive' life. In tod…
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121. You Deserve Healthy Relationships: Permission For Boundaries To Protect Yourself From Bitterness
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Hi friend! Life can be so tiring at times, ESPECIALLY when we have to deal with people who constantly find fault or nitpick and drain our energy. I feel your pain if you have some Dracula-like people in your life—thankfully, they don't suck your blood, but they do have a way of sucking the life right out of you! In today's episode, I share a quote …
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Hi friend! I heard this quote a few weeks ago—and I can't stop thinking about it— "Life's a concert, not a museum." For so long, I suffered under the 'museum' belief about my life—don't get me wrong, I love some museums, but if I had a choice between going to a concert OR a museum, I'd probably choose a concert. Actually, I'd probably skip both, st…
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119. Struggling With The Holiday Doom & Gloom? Here’s How To Survive The Painful Part Of The Holidays And A Couple Of Tips For A More Peaceful Filled Season. Conversation w/ Counselor Jim Beebe
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Hi friends! We have Therapist Jim Beebe with us today, and I'm sharing a bit about my struggle with the holiday season. I share a bit about my childhood experience with Christmas time and how it still affects me now. I'm committed to thriving this holiday season! And I hope this episode and my conversation with Jim will encourage and help you thriv…
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118. Those That Hurt You Can’t Heal You. It Sounds Hopeless, But There’s Hope—The Gift Of A Healthy Community
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Hi friends! I know for so long, I waited, and waiteddddd for an apology from those that hurt me. I thought, "If only _____ apologizes and sees the error in their way and how deeply they hurt me, THEN I would feel better!" And the reality is most of us are still waiting for that heartfelt apology most of the time. And what a journey that can be! But…
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Hi friend! I know a lot of us struggle with feeling distant from God. And even worse, we blame ourselves for it because, after all, "God never leaves us"—so we think thoughts like, "It must be me! I must be doing something wrong." In today's episode, I share three other possible reasons you could be feeling distant from God. And it may have nothing…
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116. Quick Encouragement. Dealing w/ The Wreckage Of Hardship Or Regret? Holding On To Transformation Through The Gift Of Compassion
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Hi friends! Quick encouragement episodes are back! I've found that no matter how 'pretty and put together' our life looks on the outside--We all deal with internal angst about the difficult things in life. I hope this episode encourages you a bit as you continue showing up the best you can in your life. Quote: "Ruin is the road of transformation."—…
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115. Take Care Of Yourself. Overwhelmed And Struggling By The News? Talking About Stewarding Our Sensitive Soul and Permission For Boundaries & Self-Care
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Hi friends! If you're struggling w/ the news and current events—I hope today's episode encourages you. Especially if you're a sensitive human used to 'pulling up by your bootstraps.' We all have permission to take care of ourselves. Sometimes, it's not easy to navigate how actually to take care of ourselves. I hope this short episode blesses you, a…
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Hi friends! This is a short episode where I share a recent story of when I was hit by rejection. Rejection and I have a long and complicated relationship, and it's a soft spot in me, that's for sure. I know so many of us are affected by our history, and I think being aware of our 'soft spots' is half the battle. I hope this episode encourages you. …
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Hi friends! Song—"Joy" by Andy Grammar. Spotify // YouTube // iTunes As someone who feels alll the feels daily, I've realized the need to 'practice joy', and lately, I've actually been obsessed with it. And this song, called JOY, that I've been dancing to for days brings me joy! I hope it blesses you! Psalm 34:18 "The Lord is close to the brokenhea…
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112. I See You. Are You Struggling In Ways You Can’t Even Put Words To? Or In Ways You Aren’t Ready To Share Yet? You’re Not Alone
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Hi friends! I know so many of us are struggling in ways that are difficult to even talk about or share. Today, well, actually every day, I want YOU to know you're not alone, and you're welcome here. I hope today's short episode blesses you. :) Also, are you on social media?— me too! And we just started posting on social media! We can connect here: …
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