最佳Modern Men播客 (2024)

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Special Episode: The Best Books of the 21st Century 41:11

1M ago41:11

41:11

In this special episode, we move the discussion out of the Stardust Lounge and into the soulless void of a podcast studio... mostly to address the first three seasons' alcohol budget imbalance. We share our thoughts about the New York Times "Best Books of the 21st Century." A list which includes works by Alison Bechdel and Cormac McCarthy. (Does Mc…

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The Final Episode?!?... or not (Season 3 Recap) 33:45

10M ago33:45

33:45

We talk about our favorite reads in 2023 and the conversations they inspired. We discuss changes (Gordon in NYC, Zac in lawful marriage) and brainstorm tentative plans for the future of the podcast. We speculate why no one listened to our Death Wish episode (an episode no one asked for and certainly no one wanted), congratulate ourselves on some tr…

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"The Great Gatsby," by F. Scott Fitzgerald 47:34

11M ago47:34

47:34

25+ years of friendship, 3 years of co-hosting a podcast, and we finally reached the pinnacle of the craft when it comes to literary conversation: that is to say, talking about a book without really talking much about the book. We close out our third season with one of the Great American Novels-- and true to Fitzgerald's artistic vision, we use the…

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"The Killer Angels," by Michael Shaara 52:39

12M ago52:39

52:39

As a man, how often do you think about... The Civil War? Well, if you've joined us on this season three book club, the answer is likely often. Join us as we discuss the Pulitzer Prize-winning classic from author Michael Shaara, about the generals of Gettysburg and the brooding, emo moods that define them…

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"The Tell-Tale Heart," by Edgar Allan Poe 32:55

12M ago32:55

32:55

A dramatic reading of a Halloween classic from the father of the short story, the inventory of horror, and the progenitor of the modern mystery! He also married his cousin and died wearing another man's clothes for some mysterious reason... Edgar Allan Poe did it all由Men's Book Club

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The Collected Works of Dashiell Hammett 42:26

1y ago42:26

42:26

The Maltese Falcon! The Thin Man! Nick and Nora Charles, Sam Spade, The Continental Op... even Noir as a genre... so much greatness to come out of one author with such a small, but refined, body of work. Join us as we fanboy more than usual over one of our shared favorite authors. Pour your favorite style of martini into a Nick and Nora glass, and …

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Top 10 Literary Men 41:16

1y ago41:16

41:16

We've caved under our own pressure for content and a few too many boozy Manhattans... here's our contribution to the ubiquitous world of ranked lists on the internet: the literary men we admire most. (It's only 10 because we'd be hard pressed to even name 15... virtue, integrity, and general self-awareness typically don't make for interesting chara…

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"To Kill a Mockingbird" by Harper Lee 46:54

1y ago46:54

46:54

How much can we pack into one episode? Southern race relations? Gender identity? Paragons of masculine virtue? Great literary drinking buddies? *A bonus 90 second rant on "Go Set a Watchman" WITH cursing* This episode is crammed with some of our favorite topics, suitable for our Back to School special as we both revisit this icon of American Litera…

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Death Wish: The Cinematic Universe 29:48

1y ago29:48

29:48

Wherein we discuss Death Wishes 1-5, the remake, Death Hunt, and everyone's favorite Bronson movie, made 15 years after his passing, Death Kiss. What do these dreary, nihilistic films have to say about the role and capacity of violence in the modern man? Whatever the answer, they forgot it halfway through the plot of the original and it only went d…

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"Memories of My Melancholy Whores" by Gabriel García Márquez 46:22

1y ago46:22

46:22

Another listener suggestion, giving us the chance to talk about one of the great South American writers, and indeed, one of the great writers of all-time. Why did he choose to write a Lolita clone as his swan song? Why do men struggle so much with aging? What is the best cream for rear-end itching? These questions will all be talked in one of our m…

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"Heartstopper" by Alice Oseman 27:11

1+ y ago27:11

27:11

Our second graphic novel exploration, taking a hard pivot from the action genre by delving into the world of LGBTQIA+ high school romance. What does Alice Oseman get right about the story of two young men falling in love? What has this work meant to the queer community? And why is paving the way for more work like this is so important? Also, Nellie…

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"Road to Perdition" by Max Allan Collins 44:53

1+ y ago44:53

44:53

Revenge! Revolvers! Riverboat Gambling! We read our first graphic novel to learn about the form, experience a new level of storytelling, and indulge our mafia fascination. You can get a copy of the original comic through abebooks.com or you can read it online via a free 7-day trail at dcuniverseinfinite.com OR you can watch the stellar Sam Mendes m…

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A Reading: "If" by Rudyard Kipling 18:29

1+ y ago18:29

18:29

We take a chance on one of the few non-problematic works by Kipling as we read his short poem, "If," and discuss the various "masculine" virtues it extolls. *Disclaimer: this episode was recorded during 50% off scotch night at The Stardust Lounge, so we do go off track... from Theranos's Elizabeth Holmes to Hunter S. Thompson's daily drinking sched…

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DANYL JOHNSON - Childhood Idols, The X Factor & The Beauty of Connection 55:24

1+ y ago55:24

55:24

On this episode, I'm thrilled to be joined by singer, presenter and mental health advocate Danyl Johnson. Danyl tells me his childhood idols, the beauty of connecting with others and his media journey from the X Factor to the present day. Loads to be taken from this one - a great finale for Season 1! If you think someone could take something positi…

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"Predator: A Memoir" by Ander Monson 51:54

1+ y ago51:54

51:54

Get to the chopaaaaah!!! We return to the 'roid-biceped, greased-gun, day-glo fantasia of violence that was our 1980s action movie childhood... specifically this memoir about how the movie Predator has affected one American man, and in turn, so many of us. Join us for a discussion that includes gay poets, gay rock n' roll singers, and totally strai…

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Season 1 Favourite Moments 9:48

1+ y ago9:48

9:48

This week, I've put together a short episode of my favourite guest moments from Modern Men, Season 1. The clips come from my episodes with Alex Holmes, Aron Bretman, Ahmad Jooma, Matt O'Neill and Lewis Wedlock. A huge thanks to everybody involved in Season 1 - it's not over yet! Find each of the episodes below this one on your favourite podcast app…

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AHMAD JOOMA - Emotional Awareness & The Story Behind 'Shook Man' 30:23

1+ y ago30:23

30:23

On this episode, I'm delighted to be joined by speaker, artist and coach Ahmad Jooma. Ahmad shares his mental health experiences, how he built a higher level of emotional awareness and intelligence and the story behind his concept and book 'Shook Man'. Plus, he shares the importance of being yourself and reframing our ideas of dating. If you think …

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Anxiety & Mental Health Awareness Week 17:19

1+ y ago17:19

17:19

Anxiety - it's tough to define it. It can mean so many different things to so many people. It can be debilitating, or it can be a minor inconvenience. But one thing's clear. However we experience anxiety, it's not a positive feeling! This year's theme for Mental Health Awareness Week is anxiety so, for this solo episode, I share my experiences, tip…

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The White Lotus: Season 2 24:27

1+ y ago24:27

24:27

We're drinking Aperol Spritzes out of comically oversized wine glasses by the beach club for this second episode on Mike White's HBO series. Join us for an examination of father-son dynamics, toxic male friendships, and whether or not the gay mafia really is trying to murder Jennifer Coolidge. And we finally answer the question: is Quentin really T…

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JACK WALTON - My PTSD Experiences & Why You Should Own Your Journey 43:50

1+ y ago43:50

43:50

Do you take enough time for self-care? It's more than just a mental health buzzword. Self-care is something to be taken super seriously and one person doing just that is this week's guest. On this episode, I'm delighted to be joined by podcaster, writer, speaker and mental health advocate Jack Walton. Jack shares his experiences with PTSD and anxie…

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Let's Be Less Reactive 13:17

1+ y ago13:17

13:17

Ever see red? Ever catch yourself jumping to conclusions before properly understanding a situation? On this episode, I explain how we can be less reactive, both to people we encounter every day and to our own negative thoughts and ideas. If you think someone could take something positive from this episode, why not share it? Plus, remember to like a…

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"Sharks in the Time of Saviors," by Kawai Strong Washburn 56:23

1+ y ago56:23

56:23

Join us for a special episode recorded in Hawai'i! We'll be discussing one of the best novels of the decade, learning from its perspective on native Hawaiian culture, and exploring its unique relationship to "The Big Island." Did we take this opportunity to record from white sand beaches over-looking clear-turquoise bays where sea turtles glide and…

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The Truth About Mental Health Sick Days 15:05

1+ y ago15:05

15:05

Ever contacted work, unable to come in because of your mental health? If you're anything like me, you're overcome with guilt, embarrassment and a fear of not being taken seriously. On this solo episode, I discuss mental health sick days, sharing my own personal experiences and explaining why I believe they should be considered just as significant a…

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WILL ARMSTRONG - My Journey with Alcohol & Helping Others with Addiction 53:14

1+ y ago53:14

53:14

Have you ever thought deeply about your relationship with alcohol? I'm thrilled to welcome Will Armstrong, aka The Teetotal Trainer, onto this episode of Modern Men. Will shares his personal journey of alcohol addiction and drug abuse, stemming from anxiety, confidence and social pressures. During our chat, he explores how his eyes were opened to t…

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"The Man with the Beautiful Eyes," by Charles Bukowski 19:50

1+ y ago19:50

19:50

Love him or... more than likely hate him, it cannot be denied that Charles Bukowski has left this mark on the literary landscape with his singular approach to masculinity. We present a dramatic reading of one of his best known prose poems, a surprisingly sensitive and nuanced piece, and discuss it in the context of his greater oeuvre.It's a podcast…

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Panic/Anxiety Attacks: My Experiences & Advice 16:09

1+ y ago16:09

16:09

Rapid breathing, shaking and racing thoughts are just some of the harrowing symptoms of panic and anxiety attacks. In this week's solo episode, I explore the topic of panic attacks. I share my experiences with them and what helped me get through. Plus, I touch on some of the unlikely symptoms that could be signs of an impending panic attack. If you…

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MATT O'NEILL - The Mental Health Pandemic & Making Time to Talk 59:22

1+ y ago59:22

59:22

Opening up - it's one thing we've all struggled with. Not only that, it's a struggle particularly associated by men. One man on a mission to change that is Matt O'Neill, my guest on Modern Men this week. Matt is the host of an incredible mental health podcast, Make Time to Talk, which I featured on in March. On this episode, he talks about his earl…

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"Less" by Andrew Sean Greer 49:36

1+ y ago49:36

49:36

We thoroughly enjoyed our read of this recent, Pulitzer-prize winning novel celebrating the ennui and folly of an American abroad. Join us table-side at the Stardust Lounge as we talk about Arthur Less: a man of many facets, all of them semi-tragic.由Men's Book Club

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Individuality & Self-Expression As a Man 14:16

1+ y ago14:16

14:16

Ask yourself this... are you being your truest self? If you shy away from pursuing certain interests, wearing certain clothes or embracing certain lifestyle choices due to your masculinity, this one's for you. On this solo episode of Modern Men, I explore how men can embrace individuality and self-expression. I dive into my own experiences of true …

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The White Lotus-- What season 1 has to say about modern masculinity 23:08

1+ y ago23:08

23:08

The Guys are binge-watching The White Lotus season 1 while getting Tiki drunk (if only to honor the season's themes of colonization and appropriation). We'll be sharing our thoughts on Armond's best dinner service ever, debating whether or not Shane did, in fact, book the Pineapple Suite; and sharing what we learned from Quinn once he stopped viewi…

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What's the difference between a villain, antagonist, shadow archetype, and tragic hero? 51:12

1+ y ago51:12

51:12

In this video, Josh explains the difference between villains, antagonists, shadow archetypes, and tragic heroes 00:00 Intro 02:00 Background 04:52 Definitions 06:40 Hypothetical examples 13:47 Cersei & Daenerys 20:09 Snape 22:45 Joker & Twoface 31:43 Avengers: Civil War 41:20 Hybrid examples 48:31 Tragic hero 50:45 Outro Check out the blog on this …

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SEAN RUANE - Elevating Therapy Through Data & Dealing with Suicidal Depression 48:03

1+ y ago48:03

48:03

*TRIGGER WARNING - This episode features detailed discussions around suicide and suicidal depression* It was a pleasure to invite Sean Ruane to this episode of Modern Men. Sean is the founder of Mind Data, an innovative platform that simplifies the way therapists run their businesses whilst transforming the therapy experience for their clients. Sea…

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A Q&A Episode With Host George Hartley 30:26

1+ y ago30:26

30:26

I'm ringing the changes on Modern Men this week! On this episode, I sit down to answer four questions from people in the mental health space. I explore the backstory behind the podcast, how we can help people who feel stuck in life and how men can deal with isolation. A huge thanks to Thomas Tierney, Christopher Waller, James Lindsay and Ahmad Joom…

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"Bright Lights, Big City" by Jay McInerney 53:13

1+ y ago53:13

53:13

Season 3* kicks off with full book episodes released on the first Monday of every month. First up, we return to the cocaine novels of the 1980s and one of the literary brat pack's brightest works. This novel has everything: Cocaine, Bolivian Marching Powder, Peruvian Pink (and also some really salient things to say about masculinity within the meat…

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JAMES LINDSAY - Experiencing Psychosis & How I Befriended My Brain 45:23

1+ y ago45:23

45:23

*TRIGGER WARNING - This episode features detailed discussions around schizoaffective disorder, psychosis and sectioning under the Mental Health Act* The NHS reports that, between 2021 and 2022, there were a staggering 53,337 new detentions under the Mental Health Act. For those who haven't experienced being sectioned, it's difficult to imagine. On …

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Unboxing: with Rob Nelson 40:28

1+ y ago40:28

40:28

Rob Nelson and I share more than dashing good looks, southern charm, quick wit and a Great Grandfather. We've both faced our fair share of up and downs (he wins) and disappointed faith. Even then, as Rob explains it, Jesus is there to carry us through. Join us as we begin the unboxing phase of digging into our darkness and shedding light on the wou…

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LEWIS WEDLOCK - My Perspective On Masculinity & Why I Became an Educator 56:07

1+ y ago56:07

56:07

We all have different views on masculinity but, in this space, we all agree it needs a revamp. This guest has taken his views to the TEDx stage and explained why traditional masculinity and its power in society is nothing short of a crisis. On episode 5 of Modern Men, I am joined by Lewis Wedlock, an activist, academic and social psychologist based…

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The Moment with Alfred Garr 1:00:48

1+ y ago1:00:48

1:00:48

I'm joined this time by another brother of mine, Alfred Garr. He and I are both 'creative types' and it shows from the beginning. Who knew that a menthol product could burn your eyes? We discuss that and far more in this episode. Alfred shares his overcoming journey and his ultimate healing story. Don't miss this amazing conversation! Alfred's Stor…

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ALEX HOLMES - Dealing With Male Shame & Social Expectations 1:05:31

1+ y ago1:05:31

1:05:31

Because of how society puts men in boxes, they often feel shame when they can't live up to the expectations of what it means to be a "real man". On episode 4 of Modern Men, I am delighted to be joined by podcaster, author, therapist and coach Alex Holmes. We discuss what first made Alex become vocal about mental health and masculinity, the problem …

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Win Today! with Marc Stephens 35:04

1+ y ago35:04

35:04

I'm so happy to have Marc Stephens join me today on the show! Marc is my brother (from another mother) that instructed me to turn the spigot off to the anxiety I had been battling last year. Beyond that, he's a near constant source of encouragement in my life as well as a mentor. Marc is the kind of guy you need in your life, and that one of the pr…

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DARAGH FLEMING - Dissecting Masculine Emotion & The Story Behind 'Lonely Boy' 52:27

1+ y ago52:27

52:27

*TRIGGER WARNING - This episode features a mention of suicide* Many men find themselves shying away from showing emotion for fear of being seen as weak or inadequate. But, in fact, there’s a clear strength in finding that ability to open up, admit your struggles and embrace the power of talking. On episode 3 of Modern Men, I speak to author, poet a…

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You're Not Fighting Alone! 29:05

1+ y ago29:05

29:05

Kevin Stout has been there and has the torn tee-shirt and healed scars! Like many (if not most) men, Kevin and I have both fought though Oppressions, Depressions and outright Spiritual Warfare. We chat today about our experiences, and how we Overcame (by the Blood of the Lamb and the Words of our Testimony)! For more information visit: https://mode…

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What is the difference between a reader magnet and a lead magnet? | Scifi /Fantasy Reader Magnets 25:49

1+ y ago25:49

25:49

In this episode, Josh discusses the difference between a lead magnet and a reader magnet. He also explains how the independent publishing industry is different from other business models. While this is tailored to science fiction and fantasy self-published authors, it can also apply to any fiction writer. Download Josh’s list of reader magnet ideas…

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ARON BRETMAN - My Journey with Grief & How Journaling Keeps Me on Track 52:49

1+ y ago52:49

52:49

*TRIGGER WARNING - This episode features detailed discussions around death and grief* Grief can impact people in a variety of ways. And today, my mate Aron Bretman shares his personal story. On episode 2 of Modern Men, Aron reveals his journey following the passing of his dad and stepdad. He explains how it shaped his views of mental health, how he…

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JACK MONAGHAN - How Creativity Helps My Mental Health 42:03

1+ y ago42:03

42:03

It’s scientifically proven that being creative can increase positive emotions and reduce anxiety and stress. In episode 1, I speak to my friend Jack Monaghan, an actor, musician and presenter. Jack shares how making songs and short films helps his mental health and explains the story behind his short film, ‘In My Head’, linked down below. Plus, he …

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An Introduction to Modern Men 1:31

2y ago1:31

1:31

Hello and welcome to Modern Men. On this podcast, I aim to expand the conversation around men's mental health and masculinity by having open and honest conversations with men. I'll be sitting down with friends, mental health professionals, content creators and just about anybody else with a story to tell. I'm no expert, but I want to use the experi…

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Season 3 Announcement! 23:43

2y ago23:43

23:43

Announcing the line-up for Literary Guise: Season 3, returning March 6th. We also preview our new format. All our monthly novels will be tackled in one long-form episode on the 1st Monday of the month. The third Monday of the month we will reserve for dramatic readings/discussions of classic short stories, literary field trips, and general tom-fool…

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Season 2 Recap 19:33

2y ago19:33

19:33

Just two guys, in that gray twilight between Christmas and New Year's Eve, sipping Seagrams Escapes in a mostly empty bar.. talking about all the books we've read this year with you, our loyal listeners. We also talk about a book so bad that it's gotten a mention in TWO seasons' worth of recaps. Literary Guise will return in March with all new epis…

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A Reading: "Sticks," by George Saunders 16:42

2y ago16:42

16:42

As an end of the year gift to ourselves and the Literary Guise community, we read one of our favorite short stories and analyze its themes over drinks at the Stardust Lounge.由Men's Book Club

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"No Country for Old Men," by Cormac McCarthy (Episode 21.2) Part 2/2 33:12

2y ago33:12

33:12

One of our favorite episodes: where we get to talk about literary greats like Cormac McCarthy, Annie Proulx, Colson Whitehead, and Amor Towles... along with discussions of masculine nature vs the reality of male nurturing. We also try to get to the bottom of why it is so important for men to navigate ventilation vents with shower rods or why it is …

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