Ep. 115: 5 Clear Indicators It’s Time to Quit and Start Fresh

Authentic Online Marketing with Ruthie Gray

Knowing when it’s time to quit can be hard, right? Today, I’m sharing how I said goodbye to a season and how this decision unfolded over time. If you’re contemplating a pivotal shift or quitting something to start something new, this episode is for you.

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Finding Peace in Letting Go

Have you ever felt a persistent nudge and ignored it because it seemed too difficult? That’s exactly what happened to me. It started six months ago, like my grandson’s forgotten basketball rolling around in the back of my trunk. God brought me to this moment, and I almost ignored it. If you’re on the brink of a tough decision and you’re wondering if it’s time to quit, let me offer you some peace. Stop everything, get off the hamster wheel of doing, doing, doing. Focus on what you want to achieve in the next five years. What would accomplishing that look like, and what do you need to quit to make it happen?

10X vs. 2X: Doing Less to Achieve More

One of my favorite business books, 10X is Easier than 2X by Dan Sullivan, emphasizes doing less to achieve more. Zero in on your main calling and perfect it, which often involves quitting. Sullivan warns that committing to the 10X process inevitably requires letting go of your current identity, circumstances, and comfort zone. Going 10X means excelling in one thing rather than doing more of the same just faster and harder, which is unsustainable.

5 Steps to Take When It’s Time to Quit

1. Prayer and Scripture

Meet the Lord daily in prayer and search His Word to gain clarity on your calling.

2. Wise Sounding Boards

Share your thoughts with trusted friends, a mastermind group, or a coach. My coach helped me immensely.

3. Journaling or Typing to Process:

Writing out your thoughts helps you process and figure out your next steps.

4. Trust Your Gut

If you’ve felt the nudge for 6-9 months, it’s time to trust your instincts.

5. Take the Step

Make your decision public and see how it feels.

Personal Breakthroughs and Decisions

I made several 10X decisions in November: I quit coaching Instagram, announced a podcast rebrand, attended a retreat, and secured a venue for our September Empty Nest Entrepreneur retreat. I found a writer’s mastermind and committed to pursuing writing and traditional publishing. The book of Daniel inspired me to help guide people wisely. Dan Sullivan encourages us to expand emotionally, living a more committed life even when it’s tough. My grandson verbalizes his emotions clearly – it’s hard, he says. Indeed, change is hard but necessary for growth.

Planning for the Future

The pivot allows someone else to pick up where you left off. I’m focusing on family and writing books, aligned with my long-term goals. I’ve had to decide what I’m unwilling to give up, realizing that time with family and writing are non-negotiable for me.

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Final Thoughts

As we wrap up our last episode in this format, I encourage you to consider what the nudge means for you. What does the master call a butterfly at the end of its world? Until next time, share your message your way, in your own authentic voice.

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