What I've Done About The Fear of "Losing Myself" in Intimacy & What That Taught Me About My Needs

Commitment Phobe

In this solo episode, I talk about how in the past, the fear of losing myself made opening my heart and leaning into intimacy seem impossible. Join me as I explore the delicate balance between being there for another and self-preservation, and how prioritizing our own needs is essential to feel safe when we're opening ourself to connection or to be there for someone else.

If you've been working on your avoidant tendencies in your relationships like me, you might be probably familiar with feeling like you're going to "lose yourself" in a relationship when people need you, or when you percieve that they need you. Tune in for some practical tips on what to do to help you come back to your heart and connection when you're triggered and want to run away.