Navigating Life Beyond Standard Advice

How Far Can You Go?

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大约1年之前 17:46

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We discuss the balance between following standard advice in areas like investing, where minimizing risk is crucial, and recognizing opportunities where taking a different route can result in unique and fulfilling experiences. Through stories of career shifts and bold decisions, our host illustrates how evaluating the risks and rewards of unconventional choices can shape a richer, more meaningful life.

Join us as we encourage you to identify where you want to be average and where you aspire to achieve something extraordinary. Learn how to critically assess advice, understand the potential downsides, and make informed decisions that align with your personal goals and aspirations.

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Navigating Life Beyond Standard Advice

How Far Can You Go?

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#Podcasting Education #Self-Improvement #Art Harrison

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