Walking Through Tensions: Navigating Polarization with Dr. Borbala Fellegi

Restorative Works!

Claire de Mézerville López welcomes Borbala Fellegi, Ph.D., to the Restorative Works! Podcast. In this series of episodes, we explore what it means to “walk through tensions” - how we exist, find, and build community and forge a path forward through times of extreme polarization. Dr. Fellegi joins us to explore the intricate dynamics of polarization in today’s world. With decades of experience in conflict resolution across Europe, Dr. Fellegi shares insights on the importance of acknowledging multiple narratives in a conflict and the critical role of compassion in bridging divides. She delves into the challenges of maintaining neutrality in the face of abuse and power imbalances, and the necessity for those in privileged positions to take the first steps toward reconciliation. Listen to gain a deeper understanding of how restorative practices can help build relationships and communities in even the most polarized environments. Dr. Fellegi reflects on the human need for compassion and active listening to offer a hopeful path forward in a world increasingly divided by ideology and power. Dr. Fellegi is a researcher, mediator, conference and peace-making circle facilitator, trainer and lecturer. In 2008 she became founder and executive director of the Foresee Research Group. There, she oversees the Hungarian and EU programs researching the potential application of mediation and peace-making circles in community conflicts, in prison settings, and employs different conflict resolution community-building, research, and training projects in Hungary. In 2015 she joined the IIRP as an assistant professor. She has been working as a consultant for the Council of Europe, the UNODC, the National Crime Prevention Board and the Office of Justice in Hungary. She gives trainings and lectures at several universities, and she is the co-founder of the nationally accredited Dr. Fellegi & Winkler Mediator Training Programme. Besides numerous articles and book chapters, she is the author of the book Towards Restoration and Peace (Napvilág, 2009), one of the first comprehensive studies on the implementation of restorative justice in Hungary. She holds a master's degree in social policy from Eötvös Loránd University in Hungary and a Master of Philosophy in Criminology from Cambridge University. Her Ph.D. thesis focused on the implementation of restorative justice in Hungary. Tune in to dig deeper in a conversation that challenges us to look beyond our own stories and embrace the complexity of others. Walking Through Tensions is a special series of the Restorative Works! Podcast. Through this series, we aim to generate reflection, hope, and wisdom about how to strengthen relationships and community in situations of unrest, dissent, polarization, and concern. Its title, far from literal, represents a metaphor that poses a question: how can we exist and collaborate while surrounded by complex and tense environments? Our guests are doing impactful work in these areas: please be mindful that they may mention specific sensitive topics of situations taking place around the world. Their positioning may or may not be aligned or reflective of the IIRP’s. We invite you to listen and to reflect with us while also taking care of your mental and emotional wellbeing. We hope to guide you in finding the learning tools that will help you and your community to walk through tensions in the best way possible.