34. AFFAIR'S & INFIDELITY

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In this episode, we delve into the concept of being "qualified" in the workplace, examining who gets labeled as such, who doesn't, and the underlying reasons. We explore "competency checking"—the practice of scrutinizing individuals' abilities—and how it disproportionately affects underrepresented groups, often going unnoticed or unchallenged. Our discussion aims to redefine qualifications in a fair, equitable, and actionable manner. Our guest, Shari Dunn , is an accomplished journalist, former attorney, news anchor, CEO, university professor, and sought-after speaker. She has been recognized as Executive of the Year and a Woman of Influence, with her work appearing in Fortune Magazine, The Wall Street Journal, Ad Age, and more. Her new book, Qualified: How Competency Checking and Race Collide at Work , unpacks what it truly means to be deserving and capable—and why systemic barriers, not personal deficits, are often the real problem. Her insights challenge the narratives that hold so many of us back and offer practical solutions for building a more equitable future. Together, we can build workplaces and communities that don’t just reflect the world we live in, but the one we want to create. A world where being qualified is about recognizing the talent and potential that’s been overlooked for far too long. It’s not just about getting a seat at the table—it’s about building an entirely new table, one designed with space for all of us. Connect with Our Guest Shari Dunn Website& Book - Qualified: https://thesharidunn.com LI: https://www.linkedin.com/today/author/sharidunn TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thesharidunn Related Podcast Episodes: How To Build Emotionally Mature Leaders with Dr. Christie Smith | 272 Holding It Together: Women As America's Safety Net with Jessica Calarco | 215 How To Defy Expectations with Dr. Sunita Sah | 271 Share the Love: If you found this episode insightful, please share it with a friend, tag us on social media, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! 🔗 Subscribe & Review: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music…

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ON THIS PODCAST WE'LL DISCUSS: AFFAIR'S & INFIDELITY

What's the definition of an affair?
Recognizing our societal bias towards the cheater
Learning how to best support not only the cheated but rather choosing to support both the cheated & the cheater at the very same time
Can a violator of trust get to a definitive 'why' of their actions?
What steps can a cheater take to say more than "I'm Sorry"

Dr. Deb Miller is a Licensed Professional Counselor with over 25 years as a therapist working with people of all ages. She has focused on helping couples repair their relationship after an affair in the last decade.
She recently published, More Than Sorry: 5 Steps to Deep Your Apology After You Have Committed Infidelity. Although this publication narrowly targets the cheater, the reminder is that, universally, we all can do a better job of fixing intentional and unintentional slights that wound others.
Deb's goal is to teach, inspire, and encourage self-exploration!
Deb helps us navigate how to help those who wound others, own their transgression, examine their shortcoming, and make repairs - both personally and in their relationship with others.
While our culture shames the adulterer, it is important to accept that healing and forgiveness can happen through empathy, honesty, and self-analysis. One's past shortcomings don't have to define who you are today and in the future.
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SIDEBAR: HELPFUL BREAK-AWAY

How do we best help and support not only the cheated but also the cheater?
Wait, what?

Isn't the cheater the one that needs to be "punished'?
Isn't the cheater the one that deserves to be put on ice for a period of time to show our disdain for the violation?
Aren't these actions of 'punishing' and 'freezing out' helpful because they support humanity's need to value loyalty?

When you consider that we tend to feel best when we show up with beneficial non-harmful behaviors,

what exactly is our responsibility as human beings when we experience an affair and or infidelity inside our world or through the experience of a friend?

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