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On this episode of Advances in Care , host Erin Welsh and Dr. Craig Smith, Chair of the Department of Surgery and Surgeon-in-Chief at NewYork-Presbyterian and Columbia discuss the highlights of Dr. Smith’s 40+ year career as a cardiac surgeon and how the culture of Columbia has been a catalyst for innovation in cardiac care. Dr. Smith describes the excitement of helping to pioneer the institution’s heart transplant program in the 1980s, when it was just one of only three hospitals in the country practicing heart transplantation. Dr. Smith also explains how a unique collaboration with Columbia’s cardiology team led to the first of several groundbreaking trials, called PARTNER (Placement of AoRTic TraNscatheteR Valve), which paved the way for a monumental treatment for aortic stenosis — the most common heart valve disease that is lethal if left untreated. During the trial, Dr. Smith worked closely with Dr. Martin B. Leon, Professor of Medicine at Columbia University Irving Medical Center and Chief Innovation Officer and the Director of the Cardiovascular Data Science Center for the Division of Cardiology. Their findings elevated TAVR, or transcatheter aortic valve replacement, to eventually become the gold-standard for aortic stenosis patients at all levels of illness severity and surgical risk. Today, an experienced team of specialists at Columbia treat TAVR patients with a combination of advancements including advanced replacement valve materials, three-dimensional and ECG imaging, and a personalized approach to cardiac care. Finally, Dr. Smith shares his thoughts on new frontiers of cardiac surgery, like the challenge of repairing the mitral and tricuspid valves, and the promising application of robotic surgery for complex, high-risk operations. He reflects on life after he retires from operating, and shares his observations of how NewYork-Presbyterian and Columbia have evolved in the decades since he began his residency. For more information visit nyp.org/Advances…
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×While the world has indeed shifted since Ginger and Ryan recorded this meandering conversation about plans for 2020, the commitment to personal growth is as important as ever. Enjoy this second half of their deep and optimistic musings on one lovely Sunday afternoon.
Ginger and Ryan take you for another sail while they reflect on communication in relationships. Healthy and unhealthy, effective and ineffective, and strategies for moving through the simultaneity of emotion and challenging communication. In this longer episode the first fifteen minutes of the journey are breezier than usual, but hang with it, dear listeners, sailing season has come to an end. They play together with the concepts of intimacy and vulnerability and how to celebrate both in communication. Ginger and Ryan tell stories from life as examples of how to move toward the most loving and effective relationship communication and reflect on their meditation practice and how it relates.…
Ginger and Ryan get frisky and talk orgasms while sailing. While orgasms obtained by any method are delightful, some climaxes create a little more toe curlin' than others. Ginger puts Ryan on the spot to name his top five ways to orgasm and she returns the favor. Come aboard! (Heh.)
If there's one thing Ari Astor has demonstrated to us is that he's a master of creating films that demand to be talked about. Midsommer, one of the most fascinating and debateable films of the year continues the somewhat obscure genre of folk horror. Tonight we discuss it's double-feature worthy connection to one of the grand daddy's of folk horror, The Wicker Man. Tonight's discussion features Cooper S. Beckett , Terry Mesnard , and Lara Unnerstall.…
Ginger and Ryan invite you onto the deck in the sunshine as they opine about one of their favorite sex positions! Eventually they get to talking about different apps, media, and technology that cultivate intimacy between the two of them and also among their whole polycule. One part saucy storytelling, one part tech discussion, and one part exploring what creates intimacy; shaken, not stirred, then sipped while listening to the city and seascape in the background.…
In the first ever episode with guests, Ginger and Ryan are joined by Dr. Dave and Dylan in a bedcast from our trip to Naughty in N'awlins after a stellar dinner and then a creative round one of sexy time. All manner of New Orleans reflection including delicious food, drinks, and desserts parlay back into round two of sexy time for the evening. Prepare to find yourselves hot and bothered not only by the spicy conversation, but also the incidental pleasure sounds from the stage bed in that Naughty in N’awlins penthouse. While this episode may still be considered intellectual, it is heavy on the foreplay, sapiosexuals. Prepare yourselves accordingly.…
Ginger and Ryan dig deep into their own relationship, as well as their current and past poly relationships and explore what's worked for them and where they've fallen short. They call this process 'holding up the mirror' for each other to reflect back to each other the real thoughts and emotions they've experienced in their own relationship, as well as with their poly partners. Ginger courageously owns her own past mistakes around "re-entry" from when Ryan had sexual experiences that didn't include her.…
Ginger and Ryan pickup from the story of his multiple strokes in Episode 14 and discuss how it's impacted their relationship and life perspectives. (Part 2 of 2)
Ginger and Ryan (aka Prof) reveal the story of Prof’s multiple strokes and the myriad ways that this near death experience has shifted both their perspectives and impacted their relationship. (Part 1 of 2)
Consultant in sexual health for the UN and free Union Square Park sex advisor, Francisco Ramirez, and online Domme and burlesque performer, Lulu Kramer, join Lola onstage at Otto’s Shrunken Head on March 31st, 2018 for another installment of Sex Ed A Go-Go. On this episode of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Lola and the crew talk about the Walmart nude photo ban, eating Tide Pods, Medieval Times, SESTA/FOSTA, the fucked-up economy, threesomes, the Craigslist personals shutdown, banana dick, white privilege and polyamory, whipping jealousy in the butt, favorite sex toys, sex playlists, and first vibrators. You can find Francisco Ramirez on Twitter @fransisconyc , and on his website Franciscoramirez.com . You can also find him giving out free sex advice in Union Square Park every weekend. You can find Lulu Kramer on Twitter @lulukramersays , and on her Tumblr lulukramerkitten. You can also find her work under Lulu Kramer on Pornhub. You can follow Lola on Instagram and Twitter @sexedagogo or @dirtylola and visit her website, sexedagogo.com Also a shout-out to the Effing Foundation for giving SEAGG a grant! You can find out more about the foundation on Twitter @effingfound , or on their website effing.org.…
The trembling flower of submission and BDSM educator, Mollena Williams-Haas , and the beast of burlesque and sex worker rights advocate, Motherfuckin Akynos , join Lola onstage at Otto’s Shrunken Head on October 28th, 2017 for another installment of Sex Ed A Go-Go. On this episode of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Lola and the crew talk about sex worker rights, libido changes, The Artist and The Pervert, fucking to forget assholes, healing dick, nutcrackers, stopping mediocre dick from ruining your life, Postmates, titen, merkins, the Condoms as Evidence bill, racism, beginning kink, pet play, and MDMA therapy. You can find Mollena Williams-Hass on Twitter @mollena , or on her website mollena.com . Also check out her documentary The Artist and the Pervert. You can find Akynos on Twitter @akynos , and on her website akynos.com . Also check out her webseries Whore Logic on Youtube, as well as the following sex worker rights groups she endorses: Desiree Alliance , Sex Worker Film and Arts Festival , SWOP NYC , Best Practices Policies Project , We are Dancers , and the New Jersey Red Umbrella Alliance. You can follow Lola on Instagram and Twitter @sexedagogo or @dirtylola and visit her website, sexedagogo.com…
Expert bra fitter and body positive media content creator, Kimmay Caldwell , and the human tornado of burlesque and Switch and Play Drag collective member, Divina Gransparkle , joined Lola onstage for the first time at Otto’s Shrunken Head on September 30th, 2017 for another installment of Sex Ed A Go-Go. On this episode of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Lola and the crew talk about popping cherries, Lola’s potential as a dominatrix coach, rollerblade blowjobs, the shits, prison, Martha Stewart porn, Lola’s first wax play experience, awkward makeout sessions, sexual report cards, Trump dick pillows, pussy sweat, measuring period blood, Dom dirty talk, the power of lipstick, peeing with Kegel balls in, nipple play, and beginner strap-on tips. You can learn more about Kimmay Caldwell and her work by going to www.morethanmynumbers.com , or Hooraykimmay.com You can find Divina Gransparkle on Instagram @divinagransparkle . You can follow Lola on Instagram and Twitter @sexedagogo or @dirtylola and visit her website, sexedagogo.com . You can also find this episode’s sponsor, Njoy , at njoytoys.com…
Dr. Liz Powell and Dylan Thomas , got together in Toronto, Ontario, CA for Playground 2018 and put together a panel on Mortality. They talk about their experiences losing intimate partners... and how unprepared they were. Outro Music: Tails - Ghosted (feat. Pauline Herr) Dylan Thomas Dr. Liz Powell
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1 GPSC 018: The Blackout Takes Over for Spike Lee’s She’s Gotta Have It – The Gentleperverts’ Social Club 1:19:19
Tonight the social club hosts our second takeover by Sex Educator and Host of Sex Ed A Go-Go , Dirty Lola , and by the creator of Poly Role Models and author of Love’s Not Color Blind , Kevin Patterson . They are black by popular demand and they’re creating a space where your lived experiences are front and center, a space where you don’t need to code switch or watch your tone, a space where you can be unequivocally and magically black. A space, they call, The Blackout.…
Sex educator of “Bex Talks Sex”, Bex Caputo , and go-go dancer and stage kitten, Vera Safire , join Lola onstage at Otto’s Shrunken Head on June 24th for another installment of Sex Ed A Go-Go. On this special episode of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Lola and the crew celebrate NYC Pride. The Pussy Posse talks about using the word “queer”, roleplay for beginners, keeping it sexy in a long-term relationship, Lola’s experience fucking in an igloo, afternoon delights, self-care, chipwiches, sexual identity, sexy punishments, and sex hangovers. You can find Bex Caputo’s blog online, bextalkssex.com and listen to them online at The Dildorks Podcast . You can Vera Safire on Twitter and Instagram , @verasafire. You can follow Lola on Instagram and Twitter @sexedagogo or @dirtylola and visit her website, sexedagogo.com . You can visit this episode’s sponsor, Shag, on 108 Roebling St. in Brooklyn, or visit them online at weloveshag.com .…
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1 Playground 2018 - Mortality in Nonmonogamous Relationships - with Dr. Liz Powell and Dylan Thomas 1:13:05
Recorded Live at Playground 2018: Come Together Dr. Liz Powell and Dylan Thomas discuss mortality: an issue no one cares to address, but everyone eventually must face. Over the course of the discussion they discuss the stories of their loss, the things they weren't prepared for, the emotions death brought up, the things they wish they'd known, the things they wished they'd done, what they did to cope, and they offer tips on how to prepare for death; both yours and others'. You can find discussion and the panel live tweets at #PGConfMortality. You can find the resources referenced in this panel at Bit.ly/pgconfmortality.…
Shira B. Katz has a brand new podcast called Cosmic Crush ! Cosmic Crush is about all sorts of existential stuff - meditation, philosophy, magic, psychedelics, and all the stuff Shira promised never to talk to you about on Pedestrian Polyamory! Wanna Join Shira during her existential freakout? Subscribe today on iTunes or whatever app you listen to podcasts on.…
Sex educators Luna Matatas of Peg the Patriarchy fame and Taylor J. Mace of Feisty Fox Films and burlesque performer / producer, Zyra Lee Vanity , join Lola onstage at the Playground Conference on February 24th for another installment of Sex Ed A Go-Go. This episode was so good that it skipped the line so excuse us for bringing things to you out of order. On this special episode of Sex Ed A Go-Go, WE’RE IN CANADA!!!!!!!! Lola and her all Canadian crew brought the magic to the Playground Conference in Toronto. They chat about international Tinder adventures, conference sexy times, funniest oral sex moments, making that queer femme for femme connection, cute mugs, finding your sex positive self in a sex negative environment and how to deal with unwanted amorous attention. You can find out more about Luna on Twitter @LunaMatatas and on LunaMatatas.com. You can find Taylor J Mace on Twitter @TaylorJMac e and TaylorJMace.com . You can find Zyra Lee Vanity on Twitter @ZyraLeeVanity You can follow Lola on Instagram and Twitter @sexedagogo or @dirtylola and visit her website, sexedagogo.com.…
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1 GPSC 017: Kindness, Intimacy, and Reflection with a Divorcée - The Gentleperverts' Social Club 1:01:32
Today, the club's taken over by none other than its host, Dylan Thomas , as he tells a story about a wonderful, intense, and surprisingly complex surprise experience he had recently with someone he never expected to connect with on an intimate level again. He talks dating, divorce, disappointment, reclamation, redemption, self-reflection, self-worth, the enormous value of both giving and taking true gratitude. All this was recorded at the Gentleperverts’ Social Club. You can find more Gentleperverts’ Social Club podcasts every month at www.gentleperverts.com and discuss our latest episodes and topics on twitter with @GentlePerverts and with Dylan at @DylanTheThomas on Twitter, or on Facebook or Fetlife . If you have a submission, a story, a signal boost request, or an idea for a topic send that over to dylan@lifeontheswingset.com . If you enjoy listening, toss a dollar into the tip jar at tip.gentleperverts.com . Outro Music: Mr. FijiWiji & Direct - Tomorrow (feat. Mat Van & Holly Drummond)…
Freelance writer and cohost of podcast “ The Jheri Curl Chronicles ”, Mike Joseph, and the tiny dancer of burlesque and creator of YouTube series “Superboob”, Tiny D , join Lola onstage at Otto’s Shrunken Head on May 27th for another installment of Sex Ed A Go-Go. On this episode of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Lola and the crew talk about poly love, the next sexual revolution, poly rights, front closed bras for big boobs, Lola’s teenage Greyhound adventures, Grandma’s bra pockets, sexual fantasies, being a responsible and respectful confidant, outsourcing blowjobs, singing to dicks, penis top hats, deep-throating tips, rimming for days, pampered period sex, Lola’s first prostate massage, fisting at the movie theater, and balancing kinks in the bedroom. You can listen to Mike Joseph’s “ The Jheri Curl Chronicles ” on Radio Free Brooklyn Wednesday 10PM-12AM and online at Blerd Radio. You can find Tiny D on Twitter and Instagram , @tinydburlesque and her web series “Superboob” on YouTube . You can follow Lola on Instagram and Twitter @sexedagogo or @dirtylola and visit her website, sexedagogo.com . You can find this episode’s sponsor, Jerome Stuart Nichols and the Butters, online at jeromestuartnichols.com/thebutters for handmade vegan and organic products.…
This one's for you y'all. - Dylan
Using a predictive text bot, Botnik Studios created a brand new, and VERY compelling chapter in the Harry Potter Saga. Cooper puts his unique spin on it here. We didn't create this text, we hold no claim, JK Rowling is the queen, of course.
Boudoir photographer and costar of “ Sex Talk with Kenyon and Chris ”, Chris Comfort, and the Grace Jones of burlesque, Sweet Lorraine , joined Lola on stage at Otto’s Shrunken Head on July 22nd for another installment of Sex Ed A Go-Go. On this episode of special birthday edition of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Lola and the crew talk about sexy birthday presents, erotic photography, Lorraine’s encounters with fake Doms, Chris’ sexy lessons with a virgin, ass play, Lola getting geeky and freaky in the woods, being topless in NYC, Sara Karola’s pussy mugs, face fucking, sex toys, kegels, and Lola peeing on Trump. Again. You can find Chris Comfort’s photography online chriscomfortphotography.com and stolensexuality.com , and his web series online kenyonandchris.com . You can find Sweet Lorraine on Twitter and Instagram , @sweetlorraineny and online sweetlorraineny.com . You can also find Sara Karola’s sexy dishes on Etsy at HerDirtyDishes, and on Instagram @herdirtydishes .…
Tonight the social club hosts a takeover by Sex Educator, and Host of Sex Ed A Go-Go , Dirty Lola , and creator of Poly Role Models , Kevin Patterson . They are black by popular demand and they’re creating a space where your lived experiences are front and center, a space where you don’t need to code switch or watch your tone, a space where you can be unequivocally and magically black. A space, they call... The BlackOut. Remember, you can always find and discuss episodes of the gentleperverts social club at www.gentleperverts.com , and you can find me on all social media @dylanthethomas. If you want to take over the club, even for a few minutes, drop me a line at dylan@lifeontheswingset.com , and remember… We’re all perverts here. Today's outro music was a track by Televisor titled Break Loose (Volant Remix) , featuring Splitbreed .…
Manic Panic is a short, dramatically produced story that takes place between A Life Less Monogamous and Approaching the Swingularity.
Burlesque MC and gad about, Bastard Keith and the glamorous performer and sexual rights advocate, Zyra Lee Vanity , joined Lola on stage at Otto’s Shrunken Head on April 22nd for another installment of Sex Ed A Go-Go. Hey loves! Due to technical difficulties beyond our control the audio for this podcast is a bit wonky. We cleaned it up as best we could, and we hope you still enjoy the show! When you get a Canadian burlesque sensation together with a cheeky MC to talk about sex you’re guaranteed a night filled with laughter and strange conversations. Exactly how we like it. On this episode of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Lola and the crew chat about Toronto’s one and only sex club, Lola’s super polyamorous week, Keith’s connection to the Pokémon universe, internet haters, why most toys for men suck, Prince, blow job tips, ethical porn, pillow lovers, kink shame, and how to gracefully apologize. You can find Bastard Keith on Twitter, @ BastardKeith and online Bastardkeith.com You can find Zyra Lee Vanity on Twitter, @ Zyraleevanity…
This week we're talking about lots of stuff including Sophie's upcoming appearance at the Guelph Sexuality Conference, sex on the internet, and plenty more. Plus, we have a fantastic guest with Kate Sloan of Girly Juice who was an absolute delight to chat with. Kate Sloan is a Canadian sex blogger, sex toy reviewer and freelance journalist in her mid-twenties. Her mission is to infuse discussions of sexuality with whimsy, positivity and joy, because sex is fun and she enjoys celebrating that. In addition to sexuality, Kate also loves to write about fashion, beauty, self-improvement and mental health, because she believes that sex is holistic – it informs, and is informed by, so many other parts of our lives. On this episode Kate shares a hilarious tale of a sex toy review gone wrong and we also chat about life as a sex blogger, the value of pseudonyms, and plenty of other lively sexy stuff you are sure to enjoy! You can find her on Twitter as @girlyjuice and on her fantastic site girlyjuice.net . Have feedback, thoughts, or praise about the episode? Send us an email at TMSGpodcast@gmail.com or catch us on Twitter @TMSGpodcast , Samantha @nympsam , and Sophie @sophiedelancey…
It is happening again...It is happening again... A Damn Good Podcast About Twin Peaks returns, with hosts Cooper, Miko, and Ophilia discussing the Lynchiest Lynchian season premiere that ever Lynched. In a double-length episode that uses its excess time for recapping season one, we get some moments that're truly wonderful, with the peak, of course, being Major Briggs telling Bobby about his vision (not a dream). We're thrilled to be back, and will be coming to you every other week with…
Dearly Beloved, due to technicial difficulties and life in general, Sex Ed A.Go-Go's Prince tribute episode will be delayed. In its place, we've chosen to run Dirty Lola's favorite fracking episode of all time... so far! Hey it's the Birthday Show!!! This was the birthday to end all birthdays. The Pussy Posse ( Francisco Ramirez and Sweet Lorraine ) and Lola discuss puppy play, lube and the merits of spit. Sexy crazy fun!! This show originally aired 7/24/2014 and took place at The Parkside Lounge !…
For our very special second anniversary live show at the Gladstone in February, we decided to try something different. After podcasting for a year-ish (with some obvious breaks in between) we wanted to unite our podcasting and live event worlds and did so by (consensually) recording the stories told at our very special anniversary show. While we usually have a theme for our live events, this month we let storytellers share sexy tales on any topic. As we had so many great tales and so much funny input from our judges, Tynan Rhea and Bethany Daniels, we've had to split this great live episode into two parts. We hope you enjoy our final portion of this event, part 3! We also chatted this episode about our recent adventures in planning a porn conference and gala, SMUT in the 6ix. You'll hear all about what goes into planning a mini porn conference and can learn all about it at www.smutinthe6ix.com . In related news: We are currently looking for a new home for our live events as our time at the Gladstone has come to a close. We are still taking a brief breakbut hope to return as soon as possible for more live sexy storytelling! Have feedback, thoughts, or praise about the episode? Send us an email at TMSGpodcast@gmail.com or catch us on Twitter @TMSGpodcast , Samantha @nympsam , and Sophie @sophiedelancey…
The creator and editor of the indie porn mag MATH, Mackenzie, and the sensational self-proclaimed weirdo Vada James joined Lola on stage at Otto’s Shrunken Head in New York City on June 2nd for another installment of Sex Ed A Go-Go. Not every Sex Ed A Go-Go can be filled with YASSSS and high energy excitement. Sometimes we’re kinda quiet, but we’re still hilariously sexy and giving good show. I promise you’ll enjoy this sleepy NPR –esq version of the Pussy Posse. We had a great time whispering into our mics and professing our love to one another. On this episode of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Lola and the crew chat about play party shenanigans, their favorite porn stars, how third wheels are really just the meat in your love sandwich, the weird magic that is the Womanizer, nerdy spots for sex geeks in NYC, Lola’s dream porn theater, naming your clit, and what types of porn we’d like to see on the small screen. Burger porn was pretty popular. You can find Mackenzie on Twitter, @Math_Magazine , and at www.math-mag.com . You can find Vada James on Twitter as @VadaJames…
For our very special second anniversary live show at the Gladstone in February, we decided to try something different. After podcasting for a year-ish (with some obvious breaks in between) we wanted to unite our podcasting and live event worlds and did so by (consensually) recording the stories told at our very special anniversary show. While we usually have a theme for our live events, this month we let storytellers share sexy tales on any topic. As we had so many great tales and so much funny input from our judges, Tynan Rhea and Bethany Daniels, we've had to split this great live episode into two parts. We hope you enjoy part 2! In related news: We are currently looking for a new home for our live events as our time at the Gladstone has come to a close. We are taking a brief break in April but hope to return as soon as possible for more live sexy storytelling! Have feedback, thoughts, or praise about the episode? Send us an email at TMSGpodcast@gmail.com or catch us on Twitter @TMSGpodcast , Samantha @nympsam , and Sophie @sophiedelancey…
For our very special second anniversary live show at the Gladstone in February, we decided to try something different. After podcasting for a year-ish (with some obvious breaks in between) we wanted to unite our podcasting and live event worlds and did so by (consensually) recording the stories told at our very special anniversary show.While we usually have a theme for our live events, this month we let storytellers share sexy tales on any topic. As we had so many great tales and so much funny input from our judges, Tynan Rhea and Bethany Daniels, we've had to split this great live episode into two parts. We hope you enjoy part 1!In related news: We are currently looking for a new home for our live events as our time at the Gladstone has come to a close. We are most likely taking a brief break in April but hope to return as soon as possible for more live sexy storytelling!Have feedback, thoughts, or praise about the episode? Send us an emailat TMSGpodcast@gmail.com or catch us on Twitter @TMSGpodcast , Samantha @nympsam , and Sophie @sophiedelancey…
This is the first two chapters from my novel A Life Less Monogamous in audiobook form, read by myself, Cooper S. Beckett, and Kat Stark. Buy through the buttons below to SAVE 10% with promo code SWINGSET! We all come to a point in our lives where we finally ask the ever-looming question, “Is this all there is?” And most of us coast along afterwards, just accepting that the answer to that question is probably, “Yes, this is it.” Sometimes, though, we’re lucky. Sometimes we run into the right people at the right time. Ryan and Jennifer are at that point in their marriage, asking that question. Luckily, tonight at a friend’s holiday party, they’re about to run into those very right people at exactly the right time. Bruce and Paige have successfully crossed the Rubicon into the realm of “what else there is.” They’ve discovered delights and a way of living that Ryan and Jennifer have only ever dreamed about. Their secret? Bruce and Paige are swingers. And very soon now, thanks to a chance meeting and a new friendship, Ryan and Jennifer will close their eyes, clasp hands, and jump into the deep end of life, exploring the untold wonders of sexuality. Hedonistic pleasures that they can’t even fathom yet, threesomes and sex parties and a deep connection with friends and with each other. The swinging lifestyle. Today is the day they proclaim: “There is more.” Today is the day they change their lives.…
Sex positive actor and ex porn star, Master Avery and “Classic Burlesque’s Quiet Storm, Genie Adagio joined Lola on stage at Otto’s Shrunken Head in New York City on March 3rd for another installment of Sex Ed A Go-Go. Spring hasn't quite sprung in New York, but Lola along with two newly minted members of the Double P definitely made a few things spring to action last night. On this episode of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Lola and the crew chat about their safer sex practices, double penetration tips, the Magic Wand….again, monogamy and why we think it’s just not natural, weird sex movies on Netflix, business tits and squirting, squirting, SQUIRTING!! Note: There’s a LOT of talking off mic in this episode. We had a group of randy poly folks in one corner having a grand old time and we love that sort of thing, but it doesn’t always make for a great podcast. Our apologies! You can find Master Avery on Twitter as @MasterAvery and at MasterAvery.com . You find Genie Adagio on Twitter as @GenieAdagio…
Prof and Ginger sip tequila and espresso Martinis while reliving all the sexiness of Desire with the Swingsetters. Flirting, playing, and maybe a cheese plate or two later, Prof and Ginger resolve to come again and again...back to paradise. Interested in traveling to Desire with Ginger and Prof in April 2016? Email Ginger for details at ginger@lifeontheswingset.com . Review Intellectual Foreplay on iTunes! Connect with Ginger and Prof on Twitter @gingerntheprof @intelforeplay . Also follow @ontheswingset and @swingsetFM for all the Swingsetty goodness!…
This week we're talking about lots of fun things including our upcoming porn conference, @SmutInThe6ix , Sophie's cohabitationniversary and new workshops, Samantha's upcoming birthday cuddle party plans, and more! Plus, we have a fantastic guest with Dirty Lola of Sex-Ed A Go-Go. Dirty Lola is a naughty storyteller, sex encourager, sex toy peddler, and the creator and host of the live sex-positive Q&A go-go show and podcast Sex Ed A Go-Go . During the last five years, she has shared her distinctive brand of kickass body and sex-positivity and her personal journey into the kink and polyamorous lifestyles with the masses. Lola has presented at Catalyst Con East and during sex week at Baruch College. She is also co-emissary of Sex Geekdom NY.She shares a great story with us about kink, non-monogamy, and how time can bring interesting and wonderful things to your life.You can find her on Twitter as @DirtyLola , Facebook as Lola DirtyLola, and behind the counter at Shag Brooklyn. To book Lola or her infamously funny and educational Sex Ed A Go-Go send requests to Lola@SexEdAGoGo.com .…
Prof and Ginger experiment with the nuance of their Dominant/submissive dynamic. Within a solid, long-term, equitable relationship, Prof and Ginger demonstrate that Dominance and submission have a functional effect on keeping a relationship fun and stimulating. As more of the culture is exposed to Fifty Shades of Grey , realistic expression of kink dynamics are informative and necessary to balance the superficial representations of BDSM that have become ubiquitous. See kink in the mainstream in the New York Times: http://www.nytimes.com/2016/02/24/arts/music/a-composer-and-his-wife-creativity-through-kink.html?_r=0 Rock on, @mollena! Interested in traveling to Desire with Ginger and Prof in April 2016? Email Ginger For details at ginger@lifeontheswingset.com . Review Intellectual Foreplay on iTunes! Connect with Ginger and Prof on Twitter @gingerntheprof @intelforeplay . Also follow @ontheswingset and @swingsetFM for all the Swingsetty goodness!…
The co-host of the Body Poscast, Lillian Bustle and the small but might Tiny D, joined Lola on stage at Otto’s Shrunken Head in New York City on February 4th for Sex Ed. A Go-Go’s first live show of 2016! After a short winter hiatus Sex Ed A Go-go returned to its home stage on the lower east side ready to pump up the crowd and get back into the sexy swing of things. With two newly minted members of the Double P at her side Lola was ready to go! On this episode of Sex Ed A Go-Go, Lola and the crew chat about traveling for orgies, a plan for your Plan B, magical unicorn dating site dreams, body love and acceptance, flavored condoms and where you can stick’em, things that get lost in your bra, chub rub remedies and why Bandelettes are a gift from the goddess. You can find Lillian Bustle on Twitter, @LillianBustle, and the Body Poscast on iTunes. You find Tiny D on Twitter as @TinyDBurlesque…
Prof and Ginger are completely smitten. This is the genesis story of a fresh, new polyamorous triad. Listen to the classy kiss and tell of how Eli, Prof, and Ginger start to fall for each other. Discussions of communication, synchronicities, and the rarity of connecting with a vanilla unicorn in the wild are here for your entertainment. The honesty between GIn and Prof is tangible as they examine how this new relationship affects the relationship they have together. Read Esther Perel’s Mating in Captivity . We have! http://www.estherperel.com/book/mating-in-captivity/translations/us-edition/ Read Tristan Taormino’s Opening Up. We have! And you must. http://www.puckerup.com/cgi/commerce.cgi?preadd=action&key=B59-OU http://www.amazon.com/Opening-Up-Creating-Sustaining-Relationships/dp/157344295X?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1204133813&sr=8-10 Interested in traveling to Desire with Ginger and Prof in April 2016? Email Ginger for details at ginger@lifeontheswingset.com . Review Intellectual Foreplay on iTunes! Connect with Ginger and Prof on Twitter @gingerntheprof @intelforeplay . Also follow @ontheswingset and @swingsetFM for all the Swingsetty goodness!…
Episode 8 is a particularly intimate discussion talking desire in the bath. It’s like you are right there with them as they enjoy their coffee post a Sunday morning tryst. Explore how desire affects how you relate and ask for what you want. Hear about ebbs and flows in who wants what sex when. And learn strategies for how to navigate finding everyone’s way to satisfaction. Read Emily Nagoski’s book Come as You Are . We are! http://www.emilynagoski.com/books/ How about some delicious sexy visuals to pique your desire? Follow our Tumblr: gingerntheprof.tumblr.com Interested in traveling to Desire with Ginger and Prof in April 2016? Email Ginger for details at ginger@lifeontheswingset.com . Review Intellectual Foreplay on iTunes! Connect with Ginger and Prof on Twitter @gingerntheprof @intelforeplay . Also follow @ontheswingset and @swingsetFM for all the Swingsetty goodness!…
Happy Podcastaversary! Tell Me Something Good has been coming to you for a full year, and it's been a live monthly event in Toronto for 2 years. Despite a major hiccup (stroke, actually) and a few months of intermittent episodes, we're so proud of this year's output. We celebrate our anniversary and move along to an interview with Strap-On Jo. Strap-On Jo is an anal sex educator who tells a story of paying a sex worker as someone with sex work experience. After that, we discuss the ins and outs (pun very much intended) of pegging and anal play, which is very much Strap-On Jo's forte. By the end of this interview, you'll be curious.…
Hello Perverts! We discuss online dating while femme with Flick , Kat , and Lola . We also fielded a light bulb filled response to our episode on Trigger Warnings from Nobilis Reed . Online Dating While Femme We discuss why men behave badly while trying to date women, including name calling, shaming, negging, as we try to figure out... what the hell is the expected return on messages like that? Are men just trying to keep women in line for the next man? Why can't men take rejection gracefully? What do you do with "nice guys" when they just don't know any better, can they be socialized into changing? While we briefly consider that public shaming can sometimes be a powerful tool we approach online discussions and how men can back women up when discussions start to go wrong. You can find WetCoastCat at www.lifeontheswingset.com/author/kat/ and on twitter @wetcoastkat . You can find Flick on twitter @seriousFLICK . You can find DirtyLola and her podcast, Sex Ed A. Go Go at www.sexedagogo.com and find her on twitter @DirtyLola . Trigger Warnings and Spoilers Nobilis Reed and D Dog discuss trigger warnings after making a connection between the the function of trigger warnings and the effort to limit movie spoilers. Nobilis Reed is the creator and host of the best speculative fiction erotica podcast in the known universe . He's also an author, anthology editor, and self-avowed social justice cleric. His podcast can be found at nobilis.libsyn.com and you can find him on twitter @nobilis . All this was recorded at the Gentleperverts’ Social Club. You can find more Gentleperverts’ Social Club podcasts every month at www.gentleperverts.com and discuss our latest episodes and topics on twitter with @GentlePerverts and me @DylanTheThomas . You can find me, Dylan Thomas, on Facebook , Spotify and Fetlife as DylanTheThomas. If you have a submission, a story, a signal boost request, or an idea for a topic send that over to me at dylan@lifeontheswingset.com . If you like having this podcast, throw me a buck or two per episode at tip.gentleperverts.com .…
Welcome to our first episode of 2016! We've got a treat for you this episode as we are joined for some fantastic brain sex by non other than America's favourite sex geek, Reid Mihalko. Reid told us about his beautiful birthday orgies, how he deals with shame, and some fantastic tips on what it means to be a sex educator. You'll most likely find yourself engaged all the way through as he shares his sex geek expertise, sure to inspire, educate, and make you laugh occasionally too! Sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko teaches adults how to create more self-esteem, self-confidence and greater health and satisfaction in and out of the bedroom. Using humor, insight and solid information, Reid appeals to audiences of all orientations, backgrounds, ages and identities. He’s one of the only male sex and relationship experts touring the country today who can speak pragmatically to nearly all areas of sexual self-expression, intimacy, dating and relating. Reid has appeared on CBS’ The Doctors, Oprah’s Our America with Lisa Ling on OWN, Bravo’s Miss Advised, the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Fox News, VH1,Showtime’s Penn & Teller’s Bulls**t!, on NPR, Sirius’ Maxim Radio and Cosmo Radio, and in Marie Claire, GQ, Details, Seventeen, People, Newsweek, The Washington Post and The National Enquirer, as well as media across the globe in twenty-seven countries and at least fourteen languages. Follow Reid on Twitter at @ReidAboutSex and LIKE Reid on Facebook !Check out the links: www.reidaboutsex.com / Elevator Speech…
The owner of Self Serve Toys, Matie Fricker, and not one but TWO awe inspiring dancers, Honey Grinder and Eve, joined Lola on stage at the Guild Cinema in Albuquerque, New Mexico for Pornotopia’s opening night event on November 12, 2015. Sex Ed A Go-Go journeyed to the Land of Enchantment to kick off the Pornotopia Film Festival in Albuquerque; New Mexico. It was a night none of us would forget. Lola and her enchanted crew chat about what they’d like to see more of in porn (like you do at a porn festival), giant dildos, a long tangent about sex cats, fisting, so much fisting, getting your mojo back, coming out kinky and being kind to yourself. We also watched Honey Grinder and Eve own the stage, but sadly you don’t get to see that bit. We just like to tease ya’ll. If you would like to learn more about the awesomeness that is the Pornotopia Film Festival check out the blog! : http://selfservetoys.com/pornotopia/ While you’re at it check out Self Serve too! : http://www.selfservetoys.com/…
We all know that as non-monogamous perverts, we’re completely above jealousy. It’s 100% full-time compersion up in here! Except we’re not, and it’s not. Jealousy affects all our relationships for so many different reasons. Different people and situations trigger jealousy bombs in sometimes unexpected ways. @wetcoastkat and @seriousFLICK discuss jealousy in many of its iterations, what it means, what it doesn’t mean, why some people cause you to Hulk out while others might inspire giddy compersion rainbows and why rules don’t always work in the shadow of their coming out and their trip to Desire. They also discuss what they have done to decrease the harm jealousy can do in their open relationship. You can find WetCoastCat at www.lifeontheswingset.com/author/kat/ and on twitter @wetcoastkat. You can find Flick on twitter @seriousFLICK. Hey Perverts, Dylan here… I had this insane conversation with a dude, just earlier today, someone who was complaining that women get to do men don’t do. “It’s just like reverse racism!” “See? Women have it better.” And the thing is… I get it. I get where that might come from, sometimes things seem unfair, especially to men, men who have been taught they need to earn a woman’s affection meaning, if they just show enough devotion, put in enough effort, and demonstrate they can provide, and any woman out there worth anything should want to be with them. Men have been taught to worship women and to work themselves to the bone for someone so they don’t have to. I get it. We’ve been setup to sacrifice ourselves for someone else, someone else who wants us to sacrifice for them and who will show us their eternal appreciation by opening their hearts, their minds and yes… their legs. Get. It. But that’s the thing, we’ve been setup, by the men and women in our lives, by our parents, by our cultures, by the people we’ve cared about our entire lives because they didn’t know any better. We’ve been set-up to feel like if someone doesn’t want that they’re ungrateful. It’s insidious, and it does us nothing but harm and it sets us up to get left at the doorstep when we walk someone home or get left without a drinking partner when we buy someone a few drinks or don’t get a thank you when we hold a door open or when we don’t get brought home when we buy someone dinner, because we –expect something- based on what we put out. We’ve been set up. Thing is, women have been setup too, we’ve all been setup, and the more people figure it out, the more the people who haven’t figured it out get angry because we’re not getting what we’re supposed to, because the world has changed and women faster than men are changing meaning we’re getting left behind. But it doesn’t have to be like that. If you’re listening to this and connecting to any of the frustrations I laid out above then know there’s a better way. Many women don’t need or want us to lay down our lives for them, they don’t want to be put on a pedestal and worshipped, they don’t want to be provided for… they just want to be people, and move with people that understand no one owes anyone anything… and that means us. If we want to be with someone, be with women, and be listened to, friends with, cared for, and loved by women, it needs to be a meeting of equals and a mutual meeting of minds, meeting of hearts, and yes… a mutual meeting of bodies. And if you don’t get that, know this. Women don’t give a fuck what you think or what you want, because they don’t have to, because giving a fuck… That… is something you have to earn. Check out these articles by Rafaella Gunz about her experiences seeking support in STI communities and… being hit with men feeling like she’s open for business, and being hit with men and women hitting her with “it’s just benign, it’s just harassment, deal with it”. Take a few minutes to read, even if you decide not to agree with all of us, understand where she’s coming from and where women come from every day. http://www.guerrillafeminism.org/male-entitlement-lives-even-in-sti-support-communities-rafaella-gunz http://www.guerrillafeminism.org/internalized-misogyny-lives-even-in-sti-support-communities-rafaella-gunz/ Thanks for letting me rant a little, and to honor the fact that this will be my very last rant of 2015 I’ll close out by telling you that all of this was recorded at The Gentleperverts’ Social club, population, all of us. You can find more Gentleperverts’ Social Club podcasts every month at www.gentleperverts.com and discuss our latest episodes and topics on twitter with @GentlePerverts and me @DylanTheThomas . You can find me, Dylan Thomas, on Facebook , Spotify and Fetlife as DylanTheThomas. If you have a submission, a story, a signal boost request, or an idea for a topic send that over to me at dylan@lifeontheswingset.com . If you like having me record live and on location, throw me a buck or two at tip.gentleperverts.com . See you all next time, and stay warm. Tonight we featured tracks by Stephen Walking and Tristam, titled: Too Simple , and by Muzzy & Day One titled: Black Magic .…
Perverts! Stand at attention and lend me your ears, for tonight… we once again dive into language, we dive into our common vocabulary because sometimes we throw words around without regard to their roots and their original meaning. Words are understood and misunderstood, used and misused, and in the process words lose meaning. Words that lose their meaning can still useful. We can discuss, reexamine, and reclaim the words we’ve lost and in this spirit today, with Crista Anne and with Erin Kennedy , we spend our time discussing… Trigger warnings. We also touch on helicopter parenting generating “adults” who expect the world to adjust to them, and how shielding children from the reality that trauma exists in the world renders them unprepared to deal with the real world and we talk about storytelling and touch on Orange is the new Black and Jessica Jones Choice Quotes: Crista Anne: For people who are thrown into flashbacks or full blown panic attacks (don’t know who you are, lose touch with reality, lose touch with time), they are just absolutely invaluable, to me, and as they have become more popular over time I have found navigating the internet to be so much easier. Erin Kennedy: There’s an inherent privilege as to what gets trigger warnings. …I think it’s a balance between protecting people and protecting ourselves and making sure that we have the stuff that empathy is created out of…. Balancing between keeping yourself safe emotionally and also doing the work of empathy, however painful that is, is a tough balance to create. You can find Erin Kennedy at www.sexfortherest.com and on twitter @erinstwitsexual and on facebook at facebook.com/sexfortherest and… and because she’s awesome, on Tumblr at sexfortherestofus.tumblr.com . Crista Anne is mighty and she will… eventually run the world! You can find her on twitter at @Pinkness and at www.cristaanne.com and everywhere else as CristaAnne. You can find Savoy – Your Time (feat Kiely) on Youtube and iTunes .…
Hey gang! It looks like we're getting back to a regular schedule maybe? We're aiming for every two weeks on Fridays and are starting our return with an interview we recorded many months ago at CatalystCon in Virginia in March of 2015. This episode features an interview and story with Dylan Thomas, who just so happens to be our Swingset.FM buddy / pal / tech guy / helper dude, and we apologize to him for holding onto it for so long! We also blah blah blah for a long while about our latest projects, health stuff, and maybe not so good life things, because we like to mix in the good with the ... well, realistic? Anyway, back to our guest! Dylan Thomas is a sex-positive non-monogamous proselytizer from the suburban wastelands of Chicago. Dylan believes that there’s a larger non-normative sexuality community that all wants the same things; the freedom to be who they are, love who they want, and the choice to keep their sexual preferences as private or as public as they choose. Dylan sees the need for a more open discussion about why we, no matter where we exist on the identity, sexuality, or lifestyle spectrum, all have much more in common than we realize and that we’re all natural allies of each other. Find Dylan on Twitter @DylanTheThomas or all over the Swingset network. Have feedback, thoughts, or praise about the episode? Send us an email at TMSGpodcast@gmail.com or catch us on Twitter @TMSGpodcast , Samantha @nympsam , and Sophie @sophiedelancey…
Sex Ed A Go-Go made its very first appearance at Jeff Mach’s Geeky Kink Event Classic on November 6th. Lola and the Double P managed to make the kinksters blush with a little help from a well-placed Njoy Eleven. Lola and the crew chat about prostate fun (Ass tug of war anyone?), the virtues of all things Njoy, weird places they’ve fucked, getting their genitals high on Foria, dental damn cock ghosts, having the kind of sex that sends you to the hospital, and dick showers, burlesque name or sex act or both? You’ll have to listen to find out!! You can find Rebecca Hiles AKA The Frisky Fairy online: Twitter: @TheFriskyFairy Facebook: TheFriskyFairy Website: FriskyFairy.com You can find Lucas Brooks AKA Lucky Charming online: Twitter: @IntellectHomo Website: IntellectualHomosexual.com…
In this special episode we sit down to talk about the recent abuse allegations against (retired?) porn star, James Deen. We share our personal reactions to the news and discuss how it has been handled both in mainstream and social media. We talk about what happens when we label someone a feminist because we want them to fit our own fantasy's narrative and how we can take that power back. We also talk about the porn industry and how challenging things can be for sex workers who find themselves in abusive situations. Outside of speaking up for sex workers and women who so often are not believed when they go public with their stories of rape and sexual assault, we're not trying to solve anything with this discussion. We did, however, feel the need to have it and will continue to interrupt our standard format occasionally whenever important news items like this occur. Have feedback, thoughts, or praise about the episode? Send us an email at TMSGpodcast@gmail.com or catch us on Twitter @TMSGpodcast , Samantha @nympsam , and Sophie @sophiedelancey…
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1 GPSC 009: Spaces, Places, and Behind Enemy Lines, Live at Desire Resort & Spa – The Gentleperverts’ Social Club 59:15
Hello and many Greetings to all you perverts, I’m recording live from Desire Resort & Spa in Cancun, Mexico! Earlier today I sat down with upwards of thirty, and likely many less than two hundred perverts for a discussion about spaces. What makes a space special? What helps make people feel safe? What makes a space a focal point for a community? As we moved through a “how do we find other perverts” discussion, we stumbled on the question of what it means to stay closeted and to come out these days, drawing parallels and differences between the nonmonogamous and queer communities, and examining how it’s possible to win the hearts and minds of others when engaging them “behind enemy lines”. Usually I’d have a little more to say, but I’m all talked out… and kissed out, and blissed out… I mean, really, if you’ve never made out with a tequila flavored shotglass…. You should give it a try. But before you search for a shotglass with a flared base, this has been… quite literally, been a recording taken at the Gentleperverts’ Social Club, on location, in Mexico. You can find more Gentleperverts’ Social Club podcasts every month at www.gentleperverts.com and discuss our latest episodes and topics on twitter with @GentlePerverts and me @DylanTheThomas . You can find me, Dylan Thomas, on Facebook , Spotify and Fetlife as DylanTheThomas. If you have a submission, a story, a signal boost request, or an idea for a topic send that over to me at dylan@lifeontheswingset.com . If you like having me record live, on location, throw me a buck or two at tip.gentleperverts.com . Thanks for listening, and I hope to hear from you all soon.…
inky stuff ahead! Prof and Ginger discuss their kinks, how they discovered their kinks, and what they do with their kinks in the world of open relationships. Dominance, submission, sadism, masochism, and mashups of everything kinky can trigger both guilt and shame as well as be a catalyst for letting go of hang ups that keep us all from our pleasure. Embracing your kinky side leads to your full sexual fulfillment. Friends of Intellectual Foreplay and the Swingset, J.V. and Shara make smart, sexy things! Listen here: http://www.sexualdarkage.com Tristan Taormino’s rough sex resources are amazing. Buy them here at SheVibe.com: http://www.shevibe.com/movies-and-books.aspx Interested in traveling to Desire with Ginger and Prof in April 2016? Email Ginger for details at ginger@lifeontheswingset.com . Review Intellectual Foreplay on iTunes! Connect with Ginger and Prof on Twitter @gingerntheprof @intelforeplay . Also follow @ontheswingset and @swingsetFM for all the Swingsetty goodness!…
Aaaaaaand we're back! It's been a long and busy break, but we're back to our regularly scheduled programming here on the Tell Me Something Good Podcast. While we had a brief interlude to explain just what was going on during our uneventful absence, we've been more or less out of the game for half a year. We missed you all and we're finally feeling ready to get back to spreading sexy stories again. To celebrate our relaunch, we had a live recording at Samantha's own Playground Conference. We set up in a suite (all the conference rooms were booked up with fabulous talks, panels and workshops) and got into bed to record with renewed vigour. Sophie shares some updates on her recovery, some new sexual exploits and some BIG NEWS. Samantha shares her desires for some post-conference sex, which is also very valuable. Sex educator, podcaster and cannasexual Ashley Manta joined us in bed (no, not like that) to discuss her podcast Carnalcopia, her amazing work around cannabis and sexuality and then a story involving a hot cop and why it's always important to carry lube with you. We laugh, we learn and we all revel in our love of a man in uniform. Find Ashley on Twitter @ashleymanta or on her sites: http://www.ashleymanta.com , http://thecarnalcopia.com and https://www.leafly.com/news/authors/ashley-manta Have feedback, thoughts, or praise about the episode? Send us an email at TMSGpodcast@gmail.com or catch us on Twitter @TMSGpodcast , Samantha @nympsam , and Sophie @sophiedelancey .…
Force of nature, sex educator, and Whitney Houston enthusiast, Ericka Hart, and the bubbling brown sugar of burlesque, Essence Revealed, joined Lola on stage this month! We almost let it slip by, but Lola and the Double P managed to put on a worthy anniversary show at Otto’s Shrunken Head on November 5th. Fabulous ladies and penis balloons, how could we go wrong? Lola and the crew chat and sing about the awesomeness of lube (bring it Ronda Rousey!), negotiating threesomes and being a good third wheel, the virtues of the new rechargeable Magic Wand, and the best masturbation toys on the market. Did I mention there's singing?? You can find Ericka on Twitter: @iHartEricka You can find Essence online: http://theessencerevealed.com/…
Hi all, Dylan here, It's been a while since I convened the club, and on the eve of my trip to Mexico after a long... long time without a break, I decided to put out a half-length show to whet your whistle and get you ready for the -seriously- biting episode we have in the pressure cooker. For now, enjoy some music, enjoy a story, and enjoy my wife and I having a bit of a chat. Segment 1, Dylan's Feels I've had an exceptionally rough year and I'm getting past it but for some reason a particular song made me sit and feel everything all at once because, disregarding lyrics (words? who listens to music for words?!), this song felt like my life. Enjoy Varien - Valkyrie III: Atonement (feat. Laura Brehm) and thanks for sticking with me during the rough times. Segment 2, Storytime With Kat Wetcoast Kat is back with a story of a date and a little... under the table action. You can find her on twitter and on her own blog at lifeontheswingset.com/author/kat ! Segment 3, Dylan's Feels ..... again? A chance encounter at the store on the way to a party sparks a conversation between Dylan and Tonia . It touches on a little paternalism, a little ownership, a little creepy dude ... and maybe a little oversensitive Dylan. You can find more Gentleperverts podcasts every few weeks on Friday at www.gentleperverts.com and discuss our latest episodes and topics on the site or by pinging us on twitter at #GPSC or @GentlePerverts . You can find me, Dylan Thomas, on twitter , Facebook , Spotify and Fetlife as DylanTheThomas and you can support me and the club at tip.gentleperverts.com . If you have a submission, a story, a signal boost request, or an idea for a topic send that to dylan@lifeontheswingset.com . Thanks, and I'll pour an alcoholic smoothie down my wife's throat in all your honors. This episode featured music from: Varien - Valkyrie III: Atonement (feat. Laura Brehm) Video Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3g34ZSm8PqI iTunes Download Link: https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/valkyrie-iii-atonement-feat./id1048219775 Deon Custom - Aloha Video Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tTAf5h_t3KY iTunes Download Link: https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/aloha-single/id1049816302 Televisor - Break Loose (feat. Splitbreed ) ( Volant Remix) Video Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PgZPwsNHRIk iTunes Download Link: https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/monstercat-024-vanguard/id1052327587 Pegboard Nerds - Emoji Video Link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PgZPwsNHRIk iTunes Download Link: https://itunes.apple.com/us/album/monstercat-024-vanguard/id1052327587…
Crista Anne is filling in for Katie this week, and she and Ashley tackle the sex and depression. They share their experiences living with depression and the effects of stress, medication, and fatigue on arousal and orgasm.
Everyone is capable of being a fantastic lover. Prof and Ginger chat about what being a fantastic lover means to them. They are on a boat! (Again!) Join them for a saucy sail where they explore the beauty of seduction as well as the intensity of a honed sexual repertoire. Interested in traveling to Desire with Ginger and Prof in April 2016? Email Ginger for details at ginger@lifeontheswingset.com . Review Intellectual Foreplay on iTunes! Connect with Ginger and Prof on Twitter @gingerntheprof @intelforeplay . Also follow @ontheswingset and @swingsetFM for all the Swingsetty goodness!…
Well, we pretty much hate on Hannibal Rising for about 90 minutes here. Thankfully this is not the last episode of Eat The Rudecast. Miko has read Hannibal Rising as a novel, and fills in how poorly Thomas Harris adapted his own poorly written novel that he was blackmailed by Dino Di Laurentiis into creating. [...]…
Fantasy is a useful tool and a beautiful way to play together. Exploring through fantasy is worthy of consideration when you are embarking into the world of ethical non-monogamy and multi-partnering because it is a risk-free way to discuss what works, and what doesn’t. Ginger and Prof give you permission to enjoy your fantasies together [...]…
Sexual empowerment coach and co-hostess of the Sex Gets Real podcast, Dawn Serra, and the Intellectual Homosexual himself, Lucas Brooks AKA Lucky Charming, joined Lola on stage this month. As Joaquin threatened to drench NY Lola and the Double P rallied to put on an awesome show at Otto’s Shrunken Head. The crowd may have [...]…
We’re joined by frequent guest and friend of the show Kate Kulzick, contributor to The AV Club and PopOptiq, and host of our favorite Hannibal podcast This is Our Design and wide ranging TV podcast The Televerse to discuss Ridley Scott’s 2001 film Hannibal, the final film in the Anthony Hopkins Lecter trilogy. We all [...]…
Prof and Ginger take you for a sail and discuss their introduction and experience with compersion. No worries, the boat isn’t the S.S. Minnow. You’ll make it through this half-hour tour with just a bit of breeze blowing in your ears. Asking each other tough questions about how they each cope when compersion is harder [...]…
After the decent Manhunter and the unacceptably mediocre Red Dragon, we tackle Silence of the Lambs, and are quick to point out that we all adore this film. It’s one of the greatest horror movies, and certainly the greatest serial killer film of all time. With such pedigree we find it difficult not to wax [...]…
Ahhhh… it’s good to see my people again. Welcome back perverts. Many of you travel and have taken the time record a little bit of yourselves. Today I reward your efforts! This is truly a milestone, truly a day worthy of song and drink. It is the day I release a Gentleperverts Social Club where [...]
We begin the Anthony Hopkins Lecter Trilogy with arguably the worst of the three of them, Red Dragon, an ill advised eleven years later prequel that finds us with an incredibly uninteresting Will Graham in Edward Norton, serviceable at best Dolarhyde and Reba (Ralph Fiennes & Emily Watson), but a more restrained performance from Anthony Hopkins, [...]…
Prof and Ginger tackle the conundrum that often in heterosexual relationships cross-gender friendships are considered odd, suspect, or even forbidden. Reflecting on their own experiences with sexy and “platonimous” friendships, they deconstruct the damaging cultural expectations for friendship when in relationships. Their take on open friendships means respecting each human deserves their own meaningful connections [...]…
We’re joined by Sean Colletti, the other half of the This is Our Design team to discuss an epic example of ’80s movie, Michael Mann’s Manhunter, the first filmic adaptation of Red Dragon, as we begin our analysis of the Hannibal Lecter film series. We wade into the Brian Cox VS Anthony Hopkins – Who is [...]…
Lola and the Double P took over the stage at Otto’s Shrunken Head on September 3rd. Co-hostess of the Carnalcopia podcast and all around badass Katie Mack and our favorite giver of go-go goodness Sweet Lorraine joined Lola on stage. Katie and Sweets were officially inducted into the Pussy Posse, (Pussy Tickles Ya’ll!! ) and [...]…
Ginger and Prof spar a bit and share their strategies during an intimate conversation from bed. Finding escape in each other rather than escape from each other is a key component to being your partner’s biggest fan. This relationship philosophy holds compersion and generosity are necessary gifts to give one another through both challenging and [...]…
Lola and the Pussy Posse took over the stage at Otto’s Shrunken Head on August 6th! Double P alumni, Francisco Ramirez and Foxy Squire returned to the show this month, and reminded us why we love having them on as often as we can. We came up with the official greeting of the Pussy Posse [...]
On this inaugural episode of Intellectual Foreplay, Prof and Ginger discuss curiosity. Remaining curious about one another through their 20+ year relationship has cultivated a deep love and a playful vibe. They share their strategies and motivations in getting to know other people, using a beginners mind in exploring new relationships, and how they cultivate [...]…
For the third season running, Bryan Fuller et al have managed to shock us silent with the revelations and twists that bring the season to the close. With this finale possibly being a bit more final than the other two, we discuss whether it’s possible it could’ve ended better, worse, or even differently. We discuss [...]…
Ophilia attended Gen Con 2015, a tabletop gaming con in Indianapolis. She received a suggestion to talk about it on The Kinky Geeks. Along with 5 straight days of boardgaming, she also managed to find kinky card games, sexy art, deviant cosplay and geeky burlesque. We talk about furries, crossplay and sexy afterparties. We also talk about [...]…
We’re joined by an out of town friend, fan of the podcast and the show, Raina, as we discuss the penultimate episode of our season (hopefully not series). Raul Esparza gives his best performance of the series, Richard Armitage creates an otherworldly persona through movement and vocalizations as he truly becomes the dragon. We speculate [...]…
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1 GPSC 006: Heavy – Victims, Blowing Off a Date, This Week in Cats! – The Gentleperverts’ Social Club 1:23:13
Welcome back Perverts! So I’ve settled on twice a month instead of every two weeks. DEAL WITH IT. If you want more, contribute more! Put me out of podcast word talking business! Ignore my reality and substitute your own by sending your thoughts, your clips, your, to quote Donald Trump, your whatever, to dylan@lifeontheswingset.com and [...]…
Formerly NBC’s Hannibal goes far off-book with this episode, taking us to a place where we smug book readers are just as uncertain about what is to come in the final two episodes of the season. The Red Dragon is thrown at Will’s family in a tense scene of stalking, Hannibal spends as much time [...]
The double P gained three new members this month when the owners of Shag Brooklyn, Sam and Ashley AKA the Shag Gals, and go-go goddess Ooh LaLoba joined us on stage. We kicked off the Fourth of July weekend with a kinky tiki party. We discussed getting your groove back after your long term relationship [...]…
We’re halfway through the Red Dragon arc on Hannibal, and are being given both stunning beauty in the scenes between Dolarhyde and Reba, and stunning acts of CGI crappery (see the below CGI teeth). We go off on several tangents, Cooper calls some fans hipster douchebags and spends a good four minutes angrily ranting about [...]…
It’s been a long time, dear listeners. We’re not sure how often we’ll be coming back, but for now we bring you an explanation for our absence. At the end of May, Sophie suffered a series of strokes. She has been recovering ever since and this episode is a very personal, deep look at what [...]
The Red Dragon arc reaches the beauty that separates this work of fiction from so many in this genre with the introduction of Reba McClain (Rutina Wesley) and beginning to peel back the story of Francis Dolarhyde. Meanwhile Will and Hannibal begin a dance of working together in their own family, as Hannibal remembers his [...]…
Welcome Back Perverts! There’s been a whirlwind of activity around here and personally I’m damn excited about what we’ve got for you. Today’s show is in five parts; Ginger and the Professor visit a bar with an on-location Intellectual Foreplay to discuss ways of addressing labels and norms within groups, Michelle Renee arranges an Independence [...]…
We’re joined by Kate Kulzick from Sound on Sight‘s Hannibal podcast This is Our Design joins us to discuss the rise of The Great Red Dragon, as Miko completes her summer walkabout in a vacation home with poor wifi. Cooper is a bit jarred by the transition from pretentious seventies foreign film first half of [...]…
We took over Otto’s Shrunken Head on June 11th! Ericka Hart, Sexual Health Educator, Performing Artist, and Photographer joins the Pussy Posse and Mandarin Moon-Fly graces us with her wonderful Go-Go skill! We discuss summertime sex preparedness (and you can never be too prepared, period sex shenanigans, places to have sex in NYC, back rubs [...]…
An episode that could very well be the series finale, as it brings us all the way up to the beginning of the Thomas Harris novels (excluding Hannibal Rising). The Italy portion of this season comes to a close, as does Mason Verger’s story line. This episode brings us some of the most bizarre and [...]…
We took over Otto’s Shrunken Head on May 7th and brought The Frisky Fairy into the Pussy Possy and welcomed back Sweet Lorraine for some extra sweet go-go action! We discuss how Millennials are constantly ruining and complicating things by taking, super simple scissoring, and making it into something called “tribbing”. Millenials. Also, we host [...]…
Everything comes to a head in Florence, as Hannibal’s time there is nearly at an end. Bedilia puts her drug and confusion filled plan into effect, Mason, Margot, & Alana go to plan B, and Will is briefly reunited with Jack, before getting to the reunion we’ve all been waiting for. All on this episode [...]…
The veil is lifting, and Cooper believes that the acceptance of bisexual males is becoming more commonplace. He has his fingers crossed. This is the work-in-progress podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory written by Cooper S. Beckett. Buy the ebook, paperback, or uncut and commercial free [...]…
The tragic hubris of Inspector Pazzi comes to a head in an episode that gave us severe déjà vu from the film version of Hannibal. We lament that his story was rather brief, and a single line change from the text leads Cooper down a complaint path to Watchmen. In the mean time Will and Chiyoh [...]
“I don’t want to swing anymore.” The feeling can come up for everybody. This is how to work your way through that, and reboot. This is the work-in-progress podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory written by Cooper S. Beckett. Buy the ebook, paperback, or uncut and [...]…
Greetings Perverts! Today we have a three part show! TheTrojanKitten finally gives into my wish and tells us her bad OKCupid Date I call, “Don’t start a date by telling someone you’re a pathological Liar”. Dirty Lola tells The Frisky Fairy and me her Sexual Superhero Origin Story, and I get some angst out about [...]…
Sex Ed. A Go-Go once again takes over over Otto’s Shrunken Head and invites The Domster and Wali from the I’m Black He’s White podcast and awesome Bonita Boogie into the Pussy Posse! We have a long and hard conversation about the honest truth about coconut oil, we fall into horrible Marlon Brando impressions, we [...]…
A bang up episode that finds Chilton running his Avengers Initiative, Dead Abigail, and post Red Dinner origins for all of our characters. We meet Joe Anderson’s version of Mason Verger and are quite pleased, as well as find out what happened (in brutally graphic fashion) to Frederick Chilton post Miriam Lass intervention last season. [...]…
Being Dom and being sub in a single night in San Francisco. Cooper takes us back and forth between both scenes. This is the work-in-progress podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory written by Cooper S. Beckett. Buy the ebook, paperback, or uncut and commercial free audiobook [...]…
So, now the question: Did Hannibal kill and eat his younger sister Mischa? Was she his first victim? This is the major overarching discussion of this third episode of Hannibal’s third season. Cooper is a bit exhausted by the slowness and didn’t initially like the episode. Miko & Ophilia are a bit more on board [...]…
Cooper puts on his drunken gonzo journalism hat to talk about a melon ball fueled evening at Desire Resort & Spa in Mexico. This is the work-in-progress podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory written by Cooper S. Beckett. Buy the ebook, paperback, or uncut and commercial [...]…
We took over Otto’s Shrunken Head on March 18th, 2015 and brought Kelly Frost, founder and editor of Whoopee Magazine into our live show to discuss finding random things in our bras, deep dark masturbation secrets, googling possessive doctor porn, how to get your groove back, and of course… to answer our audience’s questions while [...]…
At once an episode full of hallucinations and dream logic, and an episode that follows a very straight forward timeline. Will Graham wakes up after the events of the Red Dinner and heads to Italy himself. There he encounters Inspector Pazzi from the novel Hannibal. Will seeks Hannibal both for closure, and for comfort, to [...]…
Cooper talks about the weird phenomena of his prostate orgasm after effects, the jittery waves of orgasms, which have started appearing after non-prostate orgasms as well. This is the work-in-progress podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory written by Cooper S. Beckett. Buy the ebook, paperback, or [...]…
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1 SEAGG 007: The Anniversary Show! Sticking things in dicks, Sex Prepardness Kits – Sex Ed. A Go-Go 1:39:00
Sex Ed. A Go-Go turns one with a NEW UNRELEASED LIVESHOW with Francisco Ramirez and Foxy Squire! We spoke about pony play…… again, sticking our dicks in things, sticking things in dicks, slaces to fuck outside in NY during the wintertime, sex preparedness kits , refurbishing your long term relationships, learning about sex from HBO, [...]…
For most of us, sex education as teens involved shame, fear, and misinformation coming from the adults in our lives (whether teachers or parents). Katie and Ashley share their sex ed experiences, how they wish they would have been different, and why Adult Sex Ed Month matters. They also provide resources for finding high quality, [...]…
And we’re back! Hannibal roars back onto our screens on a motorcycle in Paris, stalking his prey. This tremendous season opener written by Bryan Fuller & Steve Lightfoot, and directed by Cube director Vincenzo Natali wastes no time in proclaiming Season 3 to be an entirely different beast than seasons 1 and 2. The adventures of [...]…
Cooper tells the story of his vacation crush, the brown-eyed girl he met in San Francisco. This is the work-in-progress podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory written by Cooper S. Beckett. Buy the ebook, paperback, or uncut and commercial free audiobook at MyLifeOnTheSwingset.com…
As we prep season 3 of Eat The Rudecast, which begins early next week, we have an appetizer for you. Miko, Ophilia, and I were thrilled to join Sean Colletti and Kate Kulzick on their show This is Our Design to talk S03E01: Antipasto. We have our own S03E01 episode coming as well, but isn’t [...]
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1 GPSC 003: Bisexual Visibility, Pussy Confidence, Cheeseplate Dates, How to Hide a Sex Swing, and Swinger Complicity – The Gentleperverts’ Social Club 1:40:18
Today we have five opportunities for you to sit down at the social club, relax, listen… and possibly disagree about every damn thing you year, but that’s ok. We’ll start out with a discussion about Bisexual visibility, what it means to be queer, men losing their agency, and writing rules… because boobs. You can safely [...]…
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1 SEAGG 006: The Halloween Show! Prostate Massage, STI real talk and the “Internet” with Lucas Brooks and Sophie Delancey – Sex Ed A Go-Go 1:35:33
Sophie Delancey of the Tell Me Something Good Podcast and the Intellectual Homo himself, Lucas Brooks aka “Lucky Charming” join the Pussy Posse for the first time and they wear costumes! Which you can’t see…. Oh well. Sorry. Lola and the double P talk about Snapchat, Dropbox, prostate massage and STI real talk. After a [...]…
How much do you know about the lube that you’re using? (Are you using lube? Hopefully we’ll convince you!) Katie and Ashley get geeky in this overview of all things lube. From the ideal viscosity of silicone anal lube to an ingredient overview (especially ingredients to avoid!), they pack tons of great information into this [...]…
Cooper details the journey from bright-eyed newbie to someone who’s got at least some of “it” figured out. This is the work-in-progress podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory written by Cooper S. Beckett. Buy the ebook, paperback, or uncut and commercial free audiobook at MyLifeOnTheSwingset.com…
Katie and Ashley caught up with Sunny Megatron and Ken Melvoin-Berg to discuss all things BDSM and kink, from how to make a Yes/No/Maybe list to faux-waterboarding. Katie gets her questions answered, Ashley discovers she may be more of a top than she thought, and Sunny and Ken share the details of a scene they [...]…
Cooper talks about erectile dysfunction and being nervous about swinging. This is the work-in-progress podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory written by Cooper S. Beckett. Buy the ebook, paperback, or uncut and commercial free audiobook at MyLifeOnTheSwingset.com…
For the finale of season one, Twin Peaks borrows a page from Dallas. Mark Frost writes and directs a finale with multiple cliffhangers, uncomfortable moments, great performances from multiple characters, and terrible performances from a few others. This is the last Damn Good Podcast before our hiatus to cover Season 3 of NBC’s Hannibal for [...]…
Daddy issues! Always an interesting topic for the two of us, this week we chat about how fluid sexuality can be when it comes to kink needs, and how Sophie in particular is finding herself leaning towards a direction she’s not used to. We work through some things together but it’s all still a wonderful work in [...]…
Cooper tells a story of a night with newbies that turned into more than planned unexpectedly. This is the work-in-progress podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory written by Cooper S. Beckett. Buy the ebook, paperback, or uncut and commercial free audiobook at MyLifeOnTheSwingset.com…
A beautifully shot and directed penultimate episode of the season from Caleb Deschanel is hampered by an at times underwhelming script by Harley Peyton that seems to take a surprising number of shortcuts. It’s still very solid television, leading up to a “come back next week” style cliffhanger, but it pales in comparison with last [...]…
This week we first chat for a while about how it seems to be the season of exes right now and share a few embarrassing and emotional tales from our past. Because what’s a little podcasting conversation without some trips down memory lane? Then it’s time to sit down with our Swingset.FM sister, Miko Technogeisha [...]…
Usually, when we talk about consent, we’re talking about sex, and most of us have heard the phrase “Consent is Sexy” thrown around before. While consent most certainly can be sexy, Katie and Ashley think there’s more to it than that. This week they’re taking a deeper look at consent and the many different ways [...]…
Cooper posits the concern mitigation of designating a time and place a safe zone from judgement, and thus allowing yourself freedom to make mistakes. This is the work-in-progress podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory written by Cooper S. Beckett. Buy the ebook, paperback, or uncut and [...]…
We shake things up this episode, getting our least favorite storylines out of the way right off. (Hint, they involve Donna, James, and The Bobber.) This is a superb episode top to bottom though, thanks to director Lesli Linka Glatter and writer Mark Frost. At this late point in the abbreviated first season, it really [...]…
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1 SEAGG 005: Keeping It Real: Fapping, Anal Prep, House Boys with Francisco Ramirez and Kristen Lee – Sex Ed A-Go-Go 1:11:15
Show favorite, Francisco Ramirez returns to the Pussy Posse this time with Kristen Lee at his side. Lola and the gang talk about fapping, anal prep AKA cleaning the cat, house boy applications and keeping it real, because that’s the only way to keep it. This show originally aired 9/25/2014 and took place at The Parkside Lounge! We are building [...]…
Before we get to our guest’s storytelling portion of the episode we wax poetic for a while about our sex lives, including our thoughts on “maintenance sex” and how we both feel a little lonely with our partners being away, though Sophie is definitely suffering a little more than Samantha. Then it’s time to get [...]…
May is International Masturbation Month, and Katie and Ashley are celebrating! They discuss how they like to masturbate, what masturbation means to them, as well as personal their histories of shame and masturbatory triumph.
Cooper takes you through how to hide a sex swing. This is the work-in-progress podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory written by Cooper S. Beckett. Buy the ebook, paperback, or uncut and commercial free audiobook at MyLifeOnTheSwingset.com
Writer Robert Engles and director Tim Hunter impress the hell out of us with a dynamic and engaging episode that manages to showcase all the wonderful things about Twin Peaks while sidelining most of the obnoxious elements. That said, this episode does feature the disturbing domino oral fixation and Shelley Johnson trying to sexily rub [...]…
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1 GPSC 002: Consensual Objectification, Kinky Jim, NRE, Navigating Alternative Lifestyles – The Gentleperverts’ Social Club 2:17:52
Tonight, the social club hosts a discussion on consensual objectification vs. tokenization, a story that left the storyteller wondering, “Is he going to kill me, and is he at least going to get me off first?”, an intimate hot-tub side chat about NRE, Passion, and love for our existing partners and how they aren’t mutually [...]…
This episode features the fantastic Kitty Stryker, who we sat down with recently when she was in town during the week of the Feminist Porn Awards. You’ve probably heard about Kitty’s recent boycott of the awards, but if you haven’t, her article on Eros: Earnest Feminism Is All We Have: What I Learned From Boycotting [...]…
We’ve all got fantasies about different things and for different reasons, whether to play out something that isn’t happening in real life, test the waters of things you’d like to try, or to take your sex (with yourself or anyone else!) to new heights. This week, find out what Katie and Ashley fantasize about, what [...]…
It’s Laura Palmer’s funeral, and of course Leland has to ruin this too! Not, of course, before Snake and The Bobber throw down against Broody McBroodsalot. We discuss in this episode how there is a lot of crap in Twin Peaks, but what makes the show great is its ability to put truly transcendent material [...]…
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1 SEAGG 004: The Birthday Show! Puppy Play, Lube, and Spit with Francisco Ramirez and Sweet Lorraine! – Sex Ed A-Go-Go 1:16:39
The Birthday Show!!! This was the birthday to end all birthdays. The Pussy Posse ( Francisco Ramirez and Sweet Lorraine ) and Lola discuss puppy play, lube and the merits of spit. Sexy crazy fun!! This show originally aired 7/24/2014 and took place at The Parkside Lounge! We are building up to the release of [...]…
This episode features the inspiring Lillith Grey, who we sat down with recently at CatalystCon in Arlington, VA. We chatted with Lillith about many things, but in particular she shared the inspiring story of how she got involved in deaf ed and sex ed. As an educator, activist, and artist, most of Lillith’s time is divided between [...]…
This episode features none other than founder of the Toronto sex shop, Good For Her, Carlyle Jansen. She joined us in studio to share her experiences growing up in a conservative household and what that meant for her sexual journey. In addition to being the owner of Good For Her, Carlyle is also the producer [...]…
Rachel Kramer Bussel joins Dirty Lola and the Pussy Posse including Foxy Squire for a discussion about pegging, the 99 cent store kink, fellatio by candlelight, and trying desperately to figure out how to receive pie while giving head. Our raffle was sponsored by SHAG brooklyn!!! This episode originally aired 6/26/14 and took place at The [...]…
Cooper, Miko and Ophilia discuss their disappointment with the recent news that David Lynch will no longer be a part of the upcoming Twin Peaks reboot. They then get into this very exciting episode with some of the most memorable scenes of the series. So much to cover from the uncomfortable silence at the Horne [...]…
Katie and Ashley bring Carnalcopia back to Catalyst, marking a year since Katie’s introduction to the sex-positive community and the birth of the podcast. They reflect on the past year (both personally and professionally), discuss finding your voice and place, and stop to tell a few more sexy stories along the way.…
Cooper discusses the newbie question of “how does this work?” and how it applies to swinging. This is the work-in-progress podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory written by Cooper S. Beckett. Buy the ebook, paperback, or uncut and commercial free audiobook at MyLifeOnTheSwingset.com…
We had a fantastic time this past weekend at CatalystCon East, a sex-education conference based out of Arlington, Virginia. In addition to great panels, parties, and reuniting with some of our nearest and dearest in the sexuality sphere, we were able to record a number of great interviews, including this one with OrgasmQuester, Crista Anne. [...]…
Cooper talks about the fact that we all have wanderlust, a “grass is greener” mentality, and how our society would be so much healthier if we didn’t stigmatize it so hard. This is the podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory written by Cooper S. Beckett. Buy [...]…
The crew tackles the first episode of the series proper, addressing the differences in subtlety when David Lynch is directing vs this episode directed by Dwayne Dunham. They continue to hate on Mike and Bobby, especially now that they know their nicknames: Snake & The Bobber. We catch our first glimpse of BOB and Cooper [...]…
Join us for a very Kinky Q&A with Francisco Ramirez and Bonita Boogie! This episode was recorded live from The Parkside Lounge in NYC on 5/29/14. www.franciscoramirez.org @franciscoNYC www.sexedagogo.com @sexedagogo www.bonitaboogie.com @bonitaboogie
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1 GPSC 001: Gender Politics and Kink, The Man of Inaction, Death and Coming Out – The Gentleperverts’ Social Club 1:06:20
We talk with the Frisky Fairy (friskyfairy.com) and Katie Mack (thecarnalcopia.com) about gaming naked, OKCupid, queer ninjas, confessions, fetlife connections and near misses, bottoms and misnomers, rectifying your kinks with your activism (frothing, rabid feminist v. being into daddy/little girl, age play, submissive / not being equal) and about gender politics getting in the way of [...]…
With fisting on both the girls’ respective sexy bucket lists, who better to stop by and give them a crash course than Allison Moon? Pre-negotiation, how to best give (and receive), what to do, what NOT to do, proper aftercare… school’s in session, and we’re covering it all!
Cooper talks about how to take your sex toys on vacation, and what that means for airport security. This is the podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory written by Cooper S. Beckett. Buy the ebook, paperback, or uncut and commercial free audiobook at MyLifeOnTheSwingset.com…
Cooper, Miko, and Ophilia scramble to keep up with the veritable smorgasbord of character introductions in the feature length pilot to Twin Peaks. Entitled Northwest Passage, this first episode of Twin Peaks has the unenviable task of introducing the plot, the style, and the town, all at once. We all love on Special Agent Dale [...]…
Join us for our pre Valentine’s Day 2014 bash! Come out and celebrate your love of all things sex!! All kinds of sex!! Yes…..even sex with yourself. This episode was recorded live from The Parkside Lounge in NYC on 4/23/14. www.sexedagogo.com @sexedagogo www.bonitaboogie.com @bonitaboogie
After 5 episodes of Tell Me Something Good where we feature other people’s stories, we decided to have Episode 6 be a little extra special and feature just the two of us. (This was definitely a grand idea when it came to both recording and editing!) When we do our monthly live show in Toronto, we always [...]…
Charlotte York may have been afraid of being Mrs. Up The Butt, but Katie and Ashley are diving in this week to get down and dirty with butt stuff. What happens when potentially good anal goes wrong? Why is Ashley’s ass a no-entry zone? What finally won Katie over? Knock on our back doors for [...]
Cooper gives you the whys and hows of oral sex with a barrier. He also gets silly. This is the podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory written by Cooper S. Beckett. Buy the ebook, paperback, or uncut and commercial free audiobook at MyLifeOnTheSwingset.com…
Pussy eating, labia licking, snatch snacking… Katie and Ashley are talking all things cunnilingus this week with Sophie Delancey! Find out why Katie would rather give than receive, why Ashley loves dental dams so much, and everyone’s secrets for better giving and receiving.
Cooper reminds us all how awesome making out is, and how we should do it far more. This is the podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory written by Cooper S. Beckett. Buy the ebook, paperback, or uncut and commercial free audiobook at MyLifeOnTheSwingset.com…
Welcome to the very first episode of A Damn Good Podcast about Twin Peaks. Cooper, Miko, and Ophilia, hosts of Swingset.FM‘s Hannibal podcast Eat The Rudecast, partnered with Sound On Sight to crawl through the archives and watch Twin Peaks from the very beginning. This first episode introduces the show and the crew, through a [...]…
This episode is filled with a lot more Samantha and Sophie banter than usual. Before we even get to our guest, we talk about a whole heap of sex related topics like Tinder’s new features, cohabitation, reading the comments, sleeping your way to fame, polyamory hiatuses, and anal sex. Just when you think that’s enough, [...]…
Condoms, the pill, IUDs… Birth control comes in many forms, and Katie and Ashley have tried most of them. Despite their ease and availability, though, sometimes the method you’ve chosen to use fails. This week, the girls share their experiences with unintended pregnancy, from protestors to personal shame, and what to expect when you weren’t [...]…
The Kinky Geeks decided to check out the recently release movie adaptation of the book “Fifty Shade of Grey.” To put it mildly, they were not pleased. Miko and Ophilia talk about the things they thought the movie did right (yes, there were a few) and the things they did wrong. This episode is nothing [...]…
Gather round for sexy story time as Katie and Ashley share their best and worst sex location experiences. On the beach under the moonlight, in the back of a car in a parking lot, even in a waterbed! Ashley shares her road head history and how she became such a blowjob pro, and Katie discusses [...]
Cooper reflects on how vital touch is to our human experience, and how it’s sidelined in vanilla culture. This is the podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory written by Cooper S. Beckett. Buy the ebook, paperback, or uncut and commercial free audiobook at MyLifeOnTheSwingset.com…
On this Tell Me Something Good episode, we chat via Skype with recent Tell Me Something Good live show judge, comedian, actor, and host Aisha Alfa. Aisha’s story is a funny tale of a fantasy that goes a little off the rails but comes back together for a grand finale, of sorts. Then we got lost in [...]…
For something as critical to enjoying healthy, happy relationships as boundaries, having them isn’t as easy as it looks. Katie and Ashley are joined this week by their friend and personal boundaries ninja, Hilary Nunes, to discuss the importance and logistics of effective boundary placement and enforcement, reflecting on their own struggles and triumphs along [...]…
The exciting phenomena of a first date with swingers recharging your primary relationship, as Cooper continues his origin story. This is the podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory written by Cooper S. Beckett. Buy the ebook, paperback, or uncut and commercial free audiobook at MyLifeOnTheSwingset.com…
On this Tell Me Something Good episode, we sit down in person with Toronto sexuality empowerment coach, Heather Elizabeth. Heather’s story is a short, but intimate tale, of how romance doesn’t always look the way we’re used to, but that doesn’t make it any less special. As a Sexuality Agitator, Educator and Empowerment Coach Heather is all about helping [...]…
On this Tell Me Something Good episode, we sit down via Skype with Billy Procida of the Manwhore Podcast – A Sex Positive Quest For Love, based out of New York City. Billy’s story tells the tale of the deep dark places that Craigslist can take us and how we don’t always get what we expect on the internet. [...]…
Katie and Ashley get to the bottom of all the things they swore they could never be into, from phone sex and dirty talk to strap-on sex and anal. They discuss what helped their opinions change, where they came from to begin with, and the difference between knowing your limits and knocking something before you [...]…
Cooper and Marilyn go on their first date with a swinging couple.
Welcome everyone to our very first episode of Tell Me Something Good the podcast. On this week’s episode, we sit down with our first ever Toronto live-show guest, Leon Weinstein, and we learn more about playing house, frozen yogurt, and public sex. Leon is a New Zealand native, now living in Toronto, exploring his sex-positive [...]…
There are a million different ways that a person can identify, from sexual orientation to relationship style to the beliefs we all hold that shape our sense of self. This week, Katie and Ashley discuss their personal journeys of discovery and self-identity, sharing what boxes they fit into (or don’t!), the experiences they’ve had along [...]…
Cooper reflects on the fact that he isn’t now, nor ever was cool, but that in non-monogamy, he gets to do something that the cool kids he knew in high school could only dream of. This is the podcast version of the audiobook My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory written by [...]…
Katie and Ashley share their experiences with getting tested and disclosing to partners and prospective partners.
We are joined at the table once again by Kate Kulzick from Sound On Sight, The Televerse Podcast, and our progenitor the This is Our Design Hannibal podcast. The reason for our expanded table is that we have arrived at the finale! Tonight, the throw down happens, and we get resolution that is both beautiful [...]…
With Katie on vacation, Crista Anne returns to explain her new mission, born on the Carnalcopia Sex and Depression episode: #OrgasmQuest. She is on a crusade to regain her ability to experience universe creating orgasms and she shares her progress, what has worked and failed so far, and her deep appreciation for her #OrgasmQuest sponsors [...]…
Mason Verger is disturbed to find himself not the star of a show called Verger, but merely the “little-bad” on a show called Hannibal. The final pieces are put in place for the epic season finale, and a guest star returns. All on this episode of Eat The Rudecast, an unauthorized podcast about NBC’s Hannibal, [...]…
We can barely contain our excitement as Hannibal has multiple sessions with Mason Verger, the reveal and deveal of Freddie Lounds fate occurs, the windego morphs into Shiva, and the game changes significantly for Will and Hannibal when it comes to Mason Verger. All on this episode of Eat The Rudecast, an unauthorized podcast about [...]…
We’re thrilled to meet Mason Verger, played by Michael Pitt, as our story kicks over into end game and mini-series blasts its way toward the fight conclusion. This episode offers one of the most unnerving tableaus in the sabertooth Randal Tier display, and a thrilling climax that involves Will cutting the ginger. All on this [...]…
Did you know that Cooper Beckett is publishing a book? We scored the exclusive first interview with this budding author and heard all of the dirty details of his creative process. We also learned what happens when Katie Mack is away. Spoiler alert: it involves face sitting, njoy eleven wielding, orgy having, and many pop [...]…
Slut-shaming is something that most people experience at some point in their lives. Katie and Ashley share their tales of slut shaming, from the same boyfriend, and Emily shares her origin story and her vision for the future of The UnSlut Project. The UnSlut Project is a collaborative effort to reach out to girls who [...]…
Ophilia and Miko went and enjoyed the Swingset Takes Desire 2014. The best part of their vacation… so many sexy kinky geeks! The Desire trip seemed to bring together geeks, swingers and kinksters all in one place in paradise. These Kinky Geeks found so much they loved from the Wild West night makeover to steampunk, [...]…
Aida Manduley, sex educator and author of “When the Professional Is Personal: Calling Out the Whitewashing of the Sexuality Field” and “The Ferguson Masterpost: How To Argue Eloquently & Back Yourself Up With Facts” joins Ashley and Katie for a discussion on social justice. Aida also shares her history in LGBTQ activism and how she [...]…
From the opening fantasy sequence where Will uses his ravenstag to kill Hannibal/Wendigo, through the expansion of the Margot Verger subplot, to the most raw KOW (killer of the week) in Randall Tier, the beast, the mechanical cave bear, we adore this episode. Even if it does have one of the most unusual and abrupt [...]…
Have you ever wondered what happens at sex parties? How they work? Who organizes them? What the rules entail? Polly Superstar shares all of her sexy secrets of her creation, the world-renowned Kinky Salon. Katie and Ashley geek out with Polly about vulnerability and community building (a la Brené Brown) and learn all about the [...]…
A treat of an episode filled with guest stars Katherine Isabelle, Jeremy Davies, and Chris Diamantopoulos. We spend the first ten minutes discussing the character of Margot Verger and the differences between the books, movies, and this series, and Bryan Fuller’s versions of a character that was a bit of a stereotype in Thomas Harris’ [...]…
Poor Frederick Chilton. After Will gets released and a severely damaged Miriam Lass returns to the FBI, Hannibal figures now is the time to pull the trigger on his “fall guy,” setting up Chilton. All on this episode of Eat The Rudecast, an unauthorized podcast about NBC’s Hannibal, and the works of Thomas Harris.…
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1 CC 012: Crowdsourcing Blowjobs: Carnalcopia Gives Road Head with Alex Morgan and Reid Mihalko! 48:18
Four heads in one episode leads to a group blowjob of epic proportions! While Katie was freezing in the late-November snow, Ashley traveled to Oakland to visit sex educator and coach Alex Morgan. The three share their tips for giving great blowjobs to both factory-installed and strap-on cocks. Like Batman to the Bat Signal, sex [...]…
A hell of an episode advances all the plotlines while taking a significant turn to the beautiful surreal of experimental films. We discuss the validity of the Hannibal/Alana storyline, the reality of the cages in the BSHCI, and the beauty of the food at Hannibal’s dinner party. All on this episode of Eat The Rudecast, [...]…
We return from weeks of illness and vacation and illness again to a really cracking puzzle box of an episode that unfolds and unfolds with more plot points than we can even be prepared for. We bid a farewell to Beverly Katz as she has been deconstructed by Hannibal. Cooper feels that this is the [...]…
Talking about sex with prospective partners is vital. Conversations about STI status, barrier requirements, and boundaries are essential pre-sex talking points—not to mention telling your partner what you actually enjoy! Katie and Ashley explore these conversations as well as messages they received growing up in sex-negative households. Ashley shares how early childhood trauma impacted her [...]…
The Kinky Geeks discuss how kink IRL (“in real life” to the non-geeky) can often have painful consequences. Whether it’s being outed and doxed, being fired for personal details found online, slut shaming, or the Dr. McJudgersons we meet when showing up for appointments with bruises or asking for testing. We believe that what goes [...]…
Have you ever felt like an impostor? Have you ever had the phrase “why would anyone ever listen to me?” go through your mind? You’re not alone. Katie and Ashley, along with special guest Crista Anne, explore the “impostor syndrome” phenomenon and trace its manifestations through career, personal life, and parenting.…
Ashley and Katie are joined by Crista Anne, foundress of Dildology and self professed body hair enthusiast. Together they explore why even in no shave November feminine body hair is stigmatized and how we can push back against societal norms. We stand together in hirsute solidarity!
We marvel at the dichotomy that a very strong episode with a slammin’ finale could have so many clunky scenes. Beverly behaving as a greatly dumbed down version of herself is a red flag. We all fawn over the naivety of Chilton and I put forth that Hannibal doing a Punch and Judy style hand-puppet [...]…
Well, we’re back and definitely doing much better than ever. The Kinky Geeks return after a lengthy hiatus. Let’s just say life got in the way but we’ve made it through the worst of it. We’ve decided to fire up the engines and start off with an episode about gender and identity. Ophilia is asked [...]…
Katie and Ashley record their first “in bed” episode and dish about a wedding they attended together. Ashley explains why wedding receptions make her feel like hooking up and shares an embarrassing story.
As Season 2 of Hannibal moves into the courtroom drama phase, the girls both really like what’s being offered up, while Cooper grumps about the show not feeling enough like itself. We talk of the gory murders, guest star defense attorney, the return of Dr Chilton and Freddie Lounds, and more gloriously gory tableaus. All [...]…
We revel in a Killer of the Week (2 weeks) that we actually enjoy. After a tremendous bit of gore and intensity in the open, Episode 2 of Season 2 has dramatically upped the game, stripping away every bit of fat and introducing a lean story on all fronts. This episode is also an outstanding [...]
Join Ashley, Katie, and special guest Alex S. Morgan as we unpack the ethical implications of hands on sex education, sexological bodywork, and in person sex coaching. We also geek out about our experiences at CatalystCon, the joys of fisting, and other random awesome things
It’s a new season, and we start it with an ultimate throw down between Jack Crawford and Hannibal Lecter. The killer of the week is extended and creepy, Will is behind bars, and there’s lots of wonderful and horrible all around. We are joined by Kate Kulzick, from our favorite Hannibal Podcast This is Our [...]…
We discuss a listener’s thoughts on Will’s hallucination during his time at the cabin with Abigail in S01E12, then dovetail into a greater discussion of the season as a whole before we take our time deconstructing the use of unreliable narrators, the beauty and the horror of the finale for Season 1 of Hannibal. Miko [...]…
We praise the acting in this episode where the wheels come off, Will takes Abigail back to the cabin, and Hannibal begins to throw absolutely everyone and anyone under the bus as possibly being the copycat.
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1 CC 006: An interview with Carol Queen & Dr. Robert Morgan Lawrence – Live at CatalystCon West 1:09:29
You never know what will happen when you take Ashley and Katie, a bottle of Malbec, and two sex positive rockstars like Carol Queen and Robert Morgan Lawrence. Carnalcopia records and interviews live from CatalystCon West and discusses sluttus interruptus, flaccid fun, which Game of Thrones character is Robert’s type, and much more!…
The primary storyline is building speed as Will is becoming unhinged, Dr Chilton and Dr Gideon are back, and there is no killer of the week. Ahhh. Take it in. Then stick around for a crazy discussion of our HannibalLand Theme Park idea. And if you, for fun, wanted to buy a shirt for [...]
We’re so excited to find an episode where the KOW (Killer of the Week) actually feels essential to the episode in perhaps the scariest episode of the entire series. We also invent a hashtag to describe Jack Crawford’s interaction with Will: #angricerned. We get a bit silly and sidetracked with serial killer statistics, American Psycho, [...]…
Few things are better than really great sex. Unfortunately while sometimes you have the best sex, it doesn’t always work out that way. In this episode, Ashley and Katie share the stories of some of the best (and worst) sex they’ve ever had, and what can make or break an encounter.
We completely dismiss the KOW (Killer of the week) as pointless, despite an amazing tableau in the totem pole and the presence of Lance Henriksen. We also debate the ethics of good and evil in a really great episode of Hannibal.
Squirting seems to be the holy grail for many G-spot enthusiasts. Katie and Ashley unpack why we’re so focused on squirting (and orgasms in general) and share their experiences in learning to love their G-spots.
Our episode about dueling killers is thrown into a bit of relief after the fabulousness of our Sorbet course last week. There’s a lot to enjoy here as will begins auditory hallucinations. A romance between Alana and Will is shoehorned into the script. And that whole Franklin problem is taken care of. We like the [...]…
The key question, is it better to know more or less about our villains is a key discussion tonight as we revel in our favorite episode of the series thus far. Chock full of guest stars, humor, brilliant dialog, and shocking food preparation, we dig in deep to this wonderful episode.
“Am I enough?” is a question we all ask ourselves at one point or another as we deal with sexual shame, insecurity, and body confidence. Katie puts on her psych hat, Ashley shares her love of Brene Brown, and both get vulnerable about their insecurities.
In a conceptually awesome episode, we meet Anthony Hopkins AS Hannibal Lecter simulacrum Dr Abel Gideon played by the awesome Eddie Izzard. I defend my love of Dr Frederic Chilton to Ophilia. We also get a Clarice Starling proxy. There’s a lot to like about this episode, unfortunately it’s marred by poor writing, poor CGI, [...]…
Personal pleasure is our prime focus in this episode! Katie and Ashley have wildly different tastes in sex toys and masturbation styles, but one thing they have in common is their goal – enjoying every single moment! Ashley also goes on an evangelical mission to spread the good news about lube.
The first killer of the week that intrigues us also leads to the most implausible and hacky ending we’ve yet seen, but an entirely metaphorical killer plot introduces so many new and interesting threads.
In this difficult to pronounce episode, we finally stray from our scene by scene deconstruction in an attempt at brevity, and wind up with almost twice as much content. We disparage the KOW (Killer of the Week) but praise the familial theme of the episode as well as guest star Molly Shannon.
Are you mystified by phone sex? Do you find dirty talk intimidating? You’re not alone! Katie shares her fears about getting vocal and Ashley offers some insights based on her experience as a professional phone sex operator. Read A Feminist’s Guide to Phone Sex here!
We return stylistically to the first episode, with returning director David Slade, and spend the entire episode with Abigail Hobbes, resolving her feelings (and possible connection to) her father’s murders.
Katie and Ashley share their origin story and discuss how two people can become friends even in the most unlikely of circumstances. Luckily, this reality show scenario has a happy ending!
We gripe about the “killer of the week” CSI aspects of this episode, while praising the dialog exchanges developing between our main characters.
We launch, headlong, into the breach and discuss our first encounters with Hannibal Lecter, and then take on the first episode of NBC’s Hannibal.
Obligatory introductory sentence about how long it’s been goes here! Well Gavin is back in this mini-ep to tell you about what’s been going on in his love life, his happiness level, his long distance relationships, and his search for the ‘Face of Polyamory’.
Gavin and Shira are back for the 50th episode of Pedestrian Polyamory (don’t worry about the 49th episode). Gavin and Shira discuss how to have a smooth transition out of a long-term relationship. Share some hallucinogen stories. Talk about how they have grown in the past two years. They also discuss their current date life [...]…
Miko and Ophilia, The Kinky Geeks love their technology! We cannot say enough about the influence technology and the internet has had on sexuality. Electronic devices are even arguably replacing and/or supplementing IRL human interactions. Kissing machines and analingus, video chat orgies, teledildonics, Second Life Furries, Lovotics, Hugvies, virtual sex…the topics keep on streaming! Subscribe [...]…
This is the second panel that Shira hosted from Atlanta Poly Weekend. Since she is a co-dependent host, she enlisted the help of Wes Fenza to replace Gavin in this episode. The two discuss how to deal with dealing with. What determines a successful relationship? Shira smashes some cups. Also details on Gavin’s return to [...]…
The Girls are heavily influenced by technology, hear them wax ecstatic about electo-stimulation, Violet Wands with some safety information, MeetTheMayhems, remote control vibrators, cell phones as sex devices, music driven vibrators, teledildonics, and so much more. Technology has come a long way from conceptualization to the bedroom. Come find out what The Kinky Geeks have [...]…
The Kinky Geeks continue their discussions of cosplay and convention geekery left over from episode 2, and this time get around to talking about Han Solo in carbonite for real! Subscribe to The Kinky Geeks Podcast on itunes here
It’s been awhile (try not to sing that), but Shira and Gavin have REUNITED!!! Sort of. In this deeply personal episode of Pedestrian Polyamory, Shira and Gavin share their lives with you once again, telling you the good the bad and the ugly of what’s happening in their lives. Sounds like a standard description of [...]…
The Kinky Geeks run the convention circuit from Comic Cons to Bondage Cons and discover the kinks in fan boys and girls. Harley Quinn and The Joker get frisky and anime blurs gender lines. Subscribe to The Kinky Geeks Podcast on itunes here
Ophilia Tesla and Miko Technogeisha begin The Kinky Geeks podcast by discussing their origin stories, involving fetish modeling, discovering their kinks, the crossover in the world of geeks, science, and kink. From Hellraiser’s Cenobites, to Goth Clubs, dungeons, bondage conventions, anime and the duality of the facehugger from Half Life to Alien, the girls run [...]…
WOW! Pedestrians, this one is good. Reid Mihalko joins us this episode. Gavin and Reid talk about confidence, and how the two have opposite polarities on the subject. Gavin also begins the campaign to find Shira (#FindShira). Also, as if Reid Mihalko wasn’t enough, we also have as a bonus: Gavin’s first live stand-up [...]…
Holy cow barries/berries! Such a great show! This episode was recorded LIVE from Atlanta Poly Weekend, and was so much fun. Shira brings up audience members (and hits on them all) to answer some frequently asked questions. She is then joined by Chris CJ Wells, a polyamorous stand-up comedian. Then as a bonus CJ does a [...]…
Nikki Atkins is apart of a team that is putting together the first large scale demographic research of the Polyamorous Community. Gavin sits down with Nikki and they discuss the details and share some of the results of this test. Before that, Shira shares her feelings on the sex education community and her struggle to [...]…
Pedestrians! The super happy and functional Gavin and Shira are back, and are opening up their mail bags once again. Gavin refuses to have Pedestrian Affairs, while Shira talks about the emotional roller coaster that is Gavin Katz. Listener mail topics this week include: WHEN TO TELL A POTENTIAL PARTNER THAT YOU ARE POLY (yes, [...]…
Pedestrians! Gavin gets all nervous as he’s talking to the lovely polyamorous sex worker Sabrina Morgan. Before that, Shira and Gavin share their affairs as usual, including a very sexy offer to Gavin that he can’t pass up (and Shira won’t let him). Then Gavin sits down with with Sabrina and they chat about her entry [...]…
Shira and Gavin are back, and they brought apologies! Episode 40 didn’t go exactly to anyone’s plan. Shira and Gavin explain themselves, and assure the Berries (or is it Barries?) that everything is ok in the Katz house. After apologizing to the Pedestrians, Shira and Gavin set forth to try and anger some other ones. [...]…
Gavin has taken over with Postulant Polyamory! Gavin and Shira are here to talk about how to interact with your metamour, and how to establish the proper boundaries and relationship with your lover's lover. Gavin is also in a bit of a dry spell, so he's a bit grumpy. Shira invites The Transient to come and join the conversation, so that makes Gavin a bit grumpy as well. Listen to the dynamic residing in the Katz household and learn how to treat your metamour... er rather... how NOT to treat your metamour.…
Shira B. Katz takes sits down with Atlanta Poly Weekend co-founder Billy Holder. Prior to that Gavin and Shira share some affairs. Gavin has explains why he has trouble dating poly girls and social activists , while Shira sells her affairs to a corporate sponsor (not really). Billy then gives us a complete rundown of what to expect during Atalanta Poly Weekend, as well talk about Polyamory in the media of 2012. Atlanta Poly Weekend is March 15 - 17, 2013, and all info can be found at atlantapolyweekend.com.…
Pedestrian Polyamory is back again! Gavin and Shira finally have enough voicemails to do a show! Gavin's affairs take us on a journey on a date with three girls (at the same time, our Gav sure is growing up!), meanwhile Shira is dealing with jealousy (!!). The voice mail inbox is a myriad of Pedestrians, those dealing with insecurity, those showing Gavin some love, those dealing with impending fear of cohabitation, those who stroke Gavin's enormous cock (ego), those calling us cause they're drunk, and those who have a preference to Gavin.…
Pedestrian Polyamory is back, and we've brought friends. Gavin and Shira explain the lack of updates to the show, and almost promise to make that not happen anymore. Once we catch up with the Master Banters (trademark pending), Shira and The Transient (#boom) takes us on an interview with a real-life polyamorous quad. They explain how it works for them, and how they handle things when it doesn't work for them. This is a fun episode that features more humans than any other episode of Pedestrian Polyamory ever (weird thing to promote)!! So give it a listen, don't break hearts, and don't make expletives weird.…
Gavin and Shira B. Katz return to rock the mic one more time, and it's time to get all sad 'n stuff. Gavin and Shira have been dealing with depression, and give tips on how to deal with guilt, handle your own personal depression as well as dealing with a partner going through depression. Gavin and Shira try to keep things light and BANTER like they do, but (sh)it's gonna get weird. <3…
Gavin and Shira are back again, after a long spell of not being able to share the same room let alone the same microphone they're back... with a vengeance! Gavin finally lets the Pedestrians know, exactly how did that date go? Shira talks about the personal issues that have been going on in the Katz house, as well as a preview to next weeks Depresissode. Then they once again open up the listener mail bag, and discuss the polyamorous issues of the Pedestri-nation. This episode has a wide range of issues discussed, both for the newly open as well as issues for those with a Black Belt in Polyamory (why the belt gotta be black??).…
The Transient joins Shira B. Katz in this episode of Pedestrian Polyamory so that she can ramble about pheromones for an hour. (Gavin calls this making the New Kid pay his dues.) After the usual Pedestrian Affairs, Shira is off an talking about Pheromones. Do they exist in humans? What kind of pheromones are out there? Just what is a vomeronasal organ? Join Shira and The Transient as they enjoy a big bowl of I*e C***m and get nerdy.…
It's Shira's turn to go solo on Pedestrian Polyamory. Shira is back from Burning Man and won't shut up about it, even though she promised to! Hear Shira talk about her transformation between her first burn and her second and why Burning Man is responsible for Pedestrian Polyamory being a show at all. Shira also talks about.. Burning Man! And hypothetical druggy situat-i-ons, orgy domes, Tu-Tu Rapey Tuesday, and commitment ceremonies. Then she talks about... Shira! Hear about why Shira feels like a weirdo, all about her relationships, and listen to her answer a few listener questions while she's at it.…
Pedestrian Polyamory is back, but this time with a twist. Shira is off to Burning Man leaving Gavin alone to speak on whatever his heart desires. Gavin lets the listeners in on some of the behind the scenes of Pedestrian Polyamory, shares a deeply personal experience that has to be heard, and his thoughts on his polarizing personality. He also, reveals what the future has in store for Gavin Katz.…
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1 PP 31: Listener Mail – Dutch Rudders, Swing Fidelity, Bizzaro Shira, and the Fear of Rejection 53:41
Mail bag time! Shira and Gavin are back once again to answer listener mail. This episode deals with going dutch in polyamorous dating, swingers having metamour drama, when to tell a date that you are poly, and getting over the fear of rejection. The Katz' also dive into their personal lives a bit, Shira's dating a bunch, Gavin's not dating at all... yeah, yeah, I know. You're sick of reading it, I'm sick of writing it, you'd think by know they'd be sick of talking about it. Listen to Pedestrian Polyamory 31, now with 50% more Bane.…
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1 PP 30: Postulant Polyamory – Jealousy, How We Did 29 Episodes on Polyamory Without Talking About It. 50:56
Gavin is taking the reigns once again, and this time he is putting Shira through her worst nightmare: conversations about Jealousy. Before they get into the topic, Gavin and Shira ONCE AGAIN try to make their voice clear on the topic of privilege (last time, I swear... probably... maybe). Gavin then leads us through the topic of jealousy, what it is, what it means, how to deal, and the best cleaning solutions to get the shit off your floor. Shira meanwhile kicks and pouts as she usually does when things get Postulant, but she does it in her usual adorable sassy way. Will Gavin be able to steer this ship? Will Shira call a mutiny and take over half way through the show? Listen and find out? I mean, listen and find out!…
Shira B goes to the San Francisco Pride Parade and regales you with tales of terror in the streets of San Francisco. Pissing, shitting, and domestic violence, oh my. Then the Katz hit the listener mail bag to give the Pedestrians a differing view on privilege and political correctness. Other topics include: more Gavins, disclosing polyamory to casual lovers, and newbie pitfalls in opening up long term relationships. Listen to some uncensored Katz commentary. (Unless they're talking about I#@ Cr*!m.) <3…
Hot off the heels of OpenSF Gavin and Shira are here to decompress all over you. First Shira reveals the details of her next speaking appearance (*hint* CatalystCon ). Then the Katz' share the highs from the entire conference, but you can't have high high's without some eventual low low's. Shira and Gavin have both been experiencing various degree's of over sensitivity surrounding language. Gavin discuss his feelings on the misuse of the word 'Privileged'. Shira tells a story revolving around the racism of Ninja's (yep... Ninja's). It's not all griping and moaning in the Katz household, because in the end they just want to clarify, 'We are ALL on the same team'. <3…
Not much going on in Shira and Gavin-land, but before they dive into the topic of the day, they do have a warm thank you to all the Berries in the world. Shira and Gavin this week dive into the world Voyeurism and Exhibitionism, and share their own personal views on the topics. Our duo [...]
Yea, I realize that looks like this is an episode about the Capital of Idaho… it’s not, not even a little bit. But if I just wrote ‘Bring the Boys’ you would might miss the whole Old School Rap theme that Shira makes us do. Anyway, in this episode Shira and Gavin (who refers to [...]
Gavin and Shira sit down and talk about the ORE, which stands for Old Relationship Energy, and may or may not be something that Shira completely made up. They also talk about NRE, but more than talking about the energy, they talk about the science and chemicals involved, and what drives humans to act the [...]…
GHere we go, here we go, here we go again. Barry, what's my weakness? (Mail!) Ok, then. Chillin', chillin', mindin' my business. I checked my mail and I couldn't believe this. I swear; I stared, Gavin's my witness, the mailbox had it goin' on with somethin' kinda wicked, wicked - I had to click it. I'm not shy so I podcast the business. The mailbox is packed and it's stacked ('specially in the back). D Barry wanted to thank a lover for mail like that. Can S Barry get some love with that shake-shake boobie? If looks could kill, Gavin would be an uzi. He's a shotgun - bang! What's up with that thang? The swingset wants to know; how does it hang? Straight up, wait up, hol... No really, hold on. Gavin is going to kill me. Stick with us on the show as we answer a bunch of listener mail. We hit the mail for the hell of it, just for the yell we get. Mmm, mmm, mmm.. for the smell of it. Shoop. <3…
Gavin and Shira talk about threesomes of the sexy variety (not the relationshipy vee/triad variety) in this episode of Pedestrian Polyamory. Before diving into the topic, Shira and Gavin talk a bit about enjoying each other's other partners and invite the listeners to improve upon their theme music. Then diving into the subject of threesomes, the Katz talk about protection, preparation, negotiation and execution of awesomely sexy threesomes and share a few stories about their own awesome (and less than awesome) threesomes. Listen up! <3…
PEDESTRIANS! We regulate any drama in polyamory and we're damn good too. But you can't be any geek off the street, gotta be handy with the advice if you know what I mean; earn your keep. Pedestrians! Mount up! It was a clear black night, a clear white moon. Shira B was on the streets trying to consume some email for the eve so she can help some punks. Gavin rollin' his eyes, chillin' all alone. Shira clicks a link from a Barry named Lewis. This Barry's gots problems so she says "Let's do this". Gavin jumped up beside and said "What's up?" Some Barry's queried the Katz, so Gavin knew he's stuck. Gavin's gettin' asked, he can't believe it himself, if all this bullying is good for Shira's health. Shira took his stings, she took his damn hex. Gavin looked at the mail and said "Damn, what's next?" 16 emails in the inbox and only 3 in the show. Gav Dogg is about to turn some Barres down cold. Now the drama' and cryin', it's a tad bit late. Gav Dogg and Shira B had to regulate. Back up back up cause it's on K A T Z and me The Shira to the B <3…
Shira and Gavin are talkin' casual sex. No, not how to get some casual sex, but where it fits into polyamory, and their own personal FEELINGS on the matter. Before that Gavin talks about his Poly Speed Dating adventure followed up with his own regular dating adventure(!!). Shira discusses her own misadventures in dating and analysis paralysis. Shira also introduces a new segment to Pedestrian Polyamory, which Gavin of course adores... er I mean abhors. <3…
Gavin is back in the captain's seat in this episode of POSTULANT Polyamory. Gavin continues his quest to welcome the newbs. First, Shira and Gavin make a BIG announcement about the show! Pedestrian Polyamory will be airing a pilot show on Sirius Radio's Playboy Channel: Spice 103 on Friday, March 16th. After the big announcement, Shira and Gavin break down dating for newbs: What questions should you ask on a first date? Where should you go? How do you prepare? Listen to find out! <3…
With so much drama in PP16, it's kinda hard being a K A T to the Z. But somehow, someway, we gotta keep on answering listener mail like every single day. May we answer a little mail for the B's and make a few jokes as we breeze through two in the morning and the podcast's still goin'. Okay. That was ridiculous. Listen in as Shira and Gavin answer some mail received after Depressisode 16. They cover topics from dating, to depression, to dealing with reluctant partners. <3…
Shira steps out on Gavin and talks about polyamory with another man - Pepper Mint! Shira welcomes Pepper Mint back for his second interview with Pedestrian Polyamory. Shira and Pepper discuss the finer points of secondary relationships, including the difference between low-attachment and low-involvement relationships, the elusive poly folk who are down to fuck, and what really counts as 'polyamory'. Before the interview starts you can enjoy the second installment of Hep Katz Sonnet Corner and, of course, a very bitter Gavin. <3 <3…
Shira and Gavin go off the rails in this episode and start talking buttsex with boys! Shira gives you the low-down on prostate health and pleasure, getting into all the details on how to prepare for anal play, what's you can do, and what her favorite moves are. Before bringing the bottom's up, Shira and Gavin address some standing issues from the previous show including: What's a PINO, do they exist? Is Gavin a cuckhold? Is Shira an unempathetic whore? Listen to find out! <3…
Rules and boundaries! So much fun, right? In this episode of Pedestrian Polyamory Gavin and Shira talk about Gavin's recent struggles with jealousy before charging into a discussion on rules, boundaries, and how they effect polyamorous relationships. It seems like most people in non-monogamous prescribe to a set of rules in their relationship, but could there be a better way? Get some tips on when the Katz' think that rules are good and when they are time-bombs.…
In this episode of Pedestrian Polyamory, we talk about the recent media hype surrounding Newt Gingrich and open marriage. This episode is slightly more political and topical than usual, so we fully accept all of the hate-mail that will transpire as a result. That said! Before we get into the nitty gritty with Mr. Grinch, Gavin got a SONNET from a listener which we read in our new segment - HepKatz Sonnet Corner. Then.. big news about Gavin's dating life! Listen to hear more <3…
In this episode of Pedestrian Polyamory, Shira and Gavin talk about all sorts of great web sites and techie tools that poly folk can use to improve their lives. You'll find suggestions for scheduling and coordination tools, dating sites, and apps and tools to improve your sexytimes. How do you turn sex into data geekery? How do you coordinate all your sweetie's schedules? How do you get down and dirty with a sweetie that you can barely ever see in person? You're the pedestrian, we got the suggestion. Listen to hear more!…
Gavin and Shira hit the mailbag to help keep the listeners pedestrian. First, Gavin talks about progress in his 257 step patented plan to asking a girl out on a date. Shira discusses her new toy from http://www.bndpodcast.com and shares why she think it might be her new favorite. On to listener mail, the Katz Crew answers questions from 'When do I come out to my date?' to 'How does a poly girl find a date who doesn't just think she is an easy lay?". Find out their answers to these questions and many more! <3…
Shira and Gavin talk about breaking up.. don't worry, not with each other. Not yet, anyways. Whether you've gone against Shira's advice and broken some hearts, or if you have a broken heart and want to get over it, give this show a listen because Shira talks about what different types of poly break-ups look like and how to cope with them whether you're a breaker upper, break uppee or an innocent bystander. Before getting into that incredibly uplifting topic, Shira and Gavin talk about how spending the holidays with the in-laws went after having recently come out of the closet and slutty, slutty poly folks. Can the Katz' make it through this episode without breaking up themselves? Listen and find out! <3…
In this episode of Pedestrian Polyamory the Katz' are all business. Wrapping up 2011, Shira and Gavin discuss their big plans and resolutions for the new year. This episode is a shortie and comes before a holiday break.. but the Katz will be back in the first week of January! Until then, Happy Holidays and Merry New Year!…
Gavin is taking a stand in this episode of POSTULANT Polyamory. It's time to welcome the newbs.. apparently. First, Shira talks about dating a swinger and Gavin talks about going to a kinky BDSM rope party and learning about Japanese rope bondage and other fun knotty origami ropey things. Then shit gets basic: What is polyamory? Who is polyamorous and who isn't? How do you prepare yourself for entering the world of polyamory? Where do you find a community of poly peeps to get you started? How much does communication help in a relationship? How do you set boundaries? How do you convince your partner to go on this trip with you? What are the pros and cons of polyamory? Should you have veto power? What about tokens? Find out by listening to this episode of POSTULANT polyamory.…
Shira interviews Franklin Veaux, a poly based activist who describes himself as a tattooed, polyamorous, kinky transhumanist. Before that, Gavin and Shira discuss their trip to Portland and the continuation of the dreaded DROUGHT. So what's a transhumanist? How does a poly relationship sans hierarchy work? How do I make sex toys at home? Where do I go find awesome sex games online? What about the singularity?! Stick around as Shira asks Franklin Veaux all this and more!…
Shira interviews Franklin Veaux, a poly based activist who describes himself as a tattooed, polyamorous, kinky transhumanist. Before that, Gavin and Shira discuss their trip to Portland and the continuation of the dreaded DROUGHT. So what's a transhumanist? How does a poly relationship sans hierarchy work? How do I make sex toys at home? Where do I go find awesome sex games online? What about the singularity?! Stick around as Shira asks Franklin Veaux all this and more!…
Hey, look! Shira found a virgin to interview, but before that starts listen as Shira and Gavin discuss some hate mail they received. Find out where the Katz' stand on the issue of dating people with STI's and figure out what is causing the SEX DROUGHT. (One hint, parents: co-sleeping!) Then off to virgin land. How does one handle themselves before they have the labels of straight, gay, monogamous, or polyamorous? What can we do to facilitate our virginal friend?…
Today, boys and girls, Shira B. Katz cites her sources and teaches you all about the ins and outs of herpes and HPV but first Gavin shares his first public dancing experience and Shira tells us about meeting the inspirational and infamous Kapers from Sex is Fun. Find out why Gavin wants a bowl full of herpes. Listen to Shira whimper about all the lovely, amazing, STI riddled people she's met recently. What will the Katz' do to stay safe from STI's but still make the most of the connections they've made with people who have them? And, most importantly, when will Shira get a freakin' intro jingle for Shira B. Katz cites her sources?…
Do you judge yourself based on your partner's partners? If you're A=B and C=B does A=C in the land of polyamory? Shira and Gavin discuss their experiences with the Polyamorous Transitive Property Fallacy but first they share some thoughts on personal friends listening to the show, try to figure out how they ended up on an astrology website, and take a bit more time to talk about dick. Shira talks about her self-image issues after being with a guy who had only been with BBW's prior to her. Gavin reveals to the listeners that he had some jealousy issues surrounding a partner Shira had whom he called Gavin 2.0. How do you avoid the Polyamorous Transitive Property Fallacy? What do you do when your partner starts dating a jerk? Listen and find out!…
It's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean... right? Shira calls bullshit! Listen to Shira and Gavin talk about why penis size most certainly matters, but first Gavin talks about his first cuddle-pile and Shira talks about meeting Boris and Doris on her trip to Texas. (Check their show out: The Boris and Doris Podcast!) Shira cites her sources and delves into some studies that gives some facts on the average lengths and girths of the human penis. And guess who's a size queen? Shira B. Katz is! And she feels quite guilty about it, it would seem. Can she deal with a small dick? What's an aerodynamic stunt cock? How does Gavin feel about having a big dick? Find out in the show.…
Before getting to the listener mail, Shira and Gavin talk about Gavin's introduction to the SF Bay poly community and Shira takes a vow of travel-based celibacy. Listeners ask: What's the difference between open relationships and polyamory and polyfidelity? What's in this for Gavin? Why does Shira have a filthy whore mouth? Do the Katz have religious guilt? How do you flirt with someone when their partner is around? Is Shira using up all her sex on other people? Listen as the Katz Crew answers these questions and more!…
Shira sits down with the second-generation polyamorous Pepper Mint. Pepper is a polyamorous activist and educator who is a staple in the San Francisco Bay Area polyamorous community. In this interview they discuss how Pepper's upbringing with non-monogamous parents shaped his views on relationships, his struggles with dating in college at MIT, his goals of bringing Polyamorous people together, tips on making long- term relationships (and short-term) with multiple partners work, and Shira also gets Pepper to share his fascination with Sadomasochism.…
Shira introduces the world to Gavin Katz. Shira interviews Gavin as he reveals his personal and completely honest views about polyamory and the polyamorous lifestyle. In this introductory episode they reveal: turning vanillas to polyamory, dealing with a partner who dates more than you, gender inadequacies in online dating, and being an introvert in an extroverted lifestyle.…
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