007|How to Avoid Conflict in Your Marriage By Asking This One Question First
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When conflict arises in your marriage, the words you choose can either help or hurt your relationship. In this episode of Better Husband, I explore the crucial question you must ask yourself during conflicts: Is what I'm about to say going to help or hurt my marriage? I'll share a simple four-step framework, CALM (Clarify, Acknowledge, Look, Manage), designed to help you handle conflicts in a way that strengthens your relationship. Using real-life examples, including my own experiences, I'll demonstrate how to communicate clearly, empathize with your partner, focus on what’s best for the marriage, and manage outcomes without resentment.
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00:00 Introduction: The Key Question During Conflict
01:22 A Quick Story About Marital Conflict
02:52 The CALM Method
03:10 Step 1: Clarify What You Want
05:59 Step 2: Acknowledge Your Wife's Wants
07:05 Step 3: Look at What's Best for the Marriage
08:25 Step 4: Manage the Outcome and Let Go of Control
10:01 Personal Story: Navigating Christmas Conflict
13:28 Practical Exercise: Applying the CALM Method
15:54 Conclusion: Building Connection Through CALM
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