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123. Sven Erlandson
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You may know Sven as the Badass Counselor as well as a 6-time author including his latest book "There’s a Hole in My Love Cup: The Badass Counseling Method for Healing the Soul & Unleashing Greatness.
Sven joins the heCast and shares his journey from being a fighter pilot hopeful to becoming a counselor, speaker, and writer. He emphasizes the importance of going through hard times and learning from them. Sven's upbringing in a home that prioritized listening and his mother's counseling work influenced his career path. He believes in the power of quitting when something doesn't bring joy or passion. Sven discusses the role of mindfulness in parenting and the need to let children find their own voice and passions. In this conversation, Sven discusses the importance of dewiring and rewiring children, teaching them to hear their own voice and make decisions based on it. He emphasizes the need for awareness and the courage to clean out one's own childhood shit in order to transform parenting. Sven also highlights the role of the parent in pouring love into and meeting the needs of the child, rather than expecting the child to meet their emotional needs. He advises slowing down, listening, and making the child feel heard, as well as encouraging them to trust their own voice and make good decisions. Sven also touches on the difference in coaching female and male athletes and the dynamic of fixing and listening in relationships.
Takeaways
- Hard times can shape and deepen our understanding of ourselves.
- Listening skills are valuable in counseling and personal relationships.
- It's important to follow your passions and not be driven solely by external expectations.
- Parents should allow children to explore and quit activities that don't bring them joy or fulfillment.
- Mindfulness and self-awareness are crucial in decision-making and parenting. Dewiring and rewiring children is essential for teaching them to hear their own voice and make decisions based on it.
- Awareness and the courage to clean out one's own childhood shit are crucial for transforming parenting.
- The role of the parent is to pour love into and meet the needs of the child, rather than expecting the child to meet their emotional needs.
- Slowing down, listening, and making the child feel heard are important in building trust and connection.
- Encouraging the child to trust their own voice and make good decisions is essential for their growth and independence.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Excitement
01:03 The Journey to Counseling
03:22 The Importance of Going Through Hard Times
04:43 Early Influences and Lessons
05:41 Learning Listening Skills and Counseling
06:34 Combining Ministry, Counseling, Speaking, and Writing
07:58 Sacrifices and Living Among the Homeless
09:18 Helping People Find Themselves
10:44 The Impact of Childhood Messages
12:36 The Importance of Mindfulness
14:23 The Balance Between Pushing and Quitting
15:22 The Influence of Parents and Environment
20:28 The Role of Mindfulness in Parenting
22:47 Analyzing Passion and Perseverance
27:56 The Danger of Imposing Parental Agenda
28:26 The Importance of Mindfulness in Decision-Making
30:19 Letting Go of Ego and Allowing Children to Find Their Voice
34:07 Balancing Parental Values and Individuality
35:31 Dewiring and Rewiring Children
38:02 The Importance of Awareness
39:22 Cleaning Out Childhood Shit
40:16 The Parent's Role
41:46 The Deliberateness and Care Required in Parenting
44:09 Changing Course and Apologizing
45:29 Slowing Down and Listening
48:19 The Power of Being Heard
49:44 Trusting Their Own Voice
52:58 Reassurance and Encouragement
56:33 The Difference in Coaching Female and Male Athletes
57:59 The Dynamic of Fixing and Listening
01:05:27 Connecting with Sven and His Work
01:09:10 Taking Action to Make the World Better Learn more about Sven here: https://www.badasscounseling.com/ Or Follow Sven on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/badasscounseling/ Visit https://hechangedit.com to download the app today! Thank you to our heCast Season 2 sponsor Innov8 Digital Solutions. Visit them today https://innov8.ca/
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Manage episode 408900991 series 2806063
You may know Sven as the Badass Counselor as well as a 6-time author including his latest book "There’s a Hole in My Love Cup: The Badass Counseling Method for Healing the Soul & Unleashing Greatness.
Sven joins the heCast and shares his journey from being a fighter pilot hopeful to becoming a counselor, speaker, and writer. He emphasizes the importance of going through hard times and learning from them. Sven's upbringing in a home that prioritized listening and his mother's counseling work influenced his career path. He believes in the power of quitting when something doesn't bring joy or passion. Sven discusses the role of mindfulness in parenting and the need to let children find their own voice and passions. In this conversation, Sven discusses the importance of dewiring and rewiring children, teaching them to hear their own voice and make decisions based on it. He emphasizes the need for awareness and the courage to clean out one's own childhood shit in order to transform parenting. Sven also highlights the role of the parent in pouring love into and meeting the needs of the child, rather than expecting the child to meet their emotional needs. He advises slowing down, listening, and making the child feel heard, as well as encouraging them to trust their own voice and make good decisions. Sven also touches on the difference in coaching female and male athletes and the dynamic of fixing and listening in relationships.
Takeaways
- Hard times can shape and deepen our understanding of ourselves.
- Listening skills are valuable in counseling and personal relationships.
- It's important to follow your passions and not be driven solely by external expectations.
- Parents should allow children to explore and quit activities that don't bring them joy or fulfillment.
- Mindfulness and self-awareness are crucial in decision-making and parenting. Dewiring and rewiring children is essential for teaching them to hear their own voice and make decisions based on it.
- Awareness and the courage to clean out one's own childhood shit are crucial for transforming parenting.
- The role of the parent is to pour love into and meet the needs of the child, rather than expecting the child to meet their emotional needs.
- Slowing down, listening, and making the child feel heard are important in building trust and connection.
- Encouraging the child to trust their own voice and make good decisions is essential for their growth and independence.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Excitement
01:03 The Journey to Counseling
03:22 The Importance of Going Through Hard Times
04:43 Early Influences and Lessons
05:41 Learning Listening Skills and Counseling
06:34 Combining Ministry, Counseling, Speaking, and Writing
07:58 Sacrifices and Living Among the Homeless
09:18 Helping People Find Themselves
10:44 The Impact of Childhood Messages
12:36 The Importance of Mindfulness
14:23 The Balance Between Pushing and Quitting
15:22 The Influence of Parents and Environment
20:28 The Role of Mindfulness in Parenting
22:47 Analyzing Passion and Perseverance
27:56 The Danger of Imposing Parental Agenda
28:26 The Importance of Mindfulness in Decision-Making
30:19 Letting Go of Ego and Allowing Children to Find Their Voice
34:07 Balancing Parental Values and Individuality
35:31 Dewiring and Rewiring Children
38:02 The Importance of Awareness
39:22 Cleaning Out Childhood Shit
40:16 The Parent's Role
41:46 The Deliberateness and Care Required in Parenting
44:09 Changing Course and Apologizing
45:29 Slowing Down and Listening
48:19 The Power of Being Heard
49:44 Trusting Their Own Voice
52:58 Reassurance and Encouragement
56:33 The Difference in Coaching Female and Male Athletes
57:59 The Dynamic of Fixing and Listening
01:05:27 Connecting with Sven and His Work
01:09:10 Taking Action to Make the World Better Learn more about Sven here: https://www.badasscounseling.com/ Or Follow Sven on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/badasscounseling/ Visit https://hechangedit.com to download the app today! Thank you to our heCast Season 2 sponsor Innov8 Digital Solutions. Visit them today https://innov8.ca/
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