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Send us a text RamIn Fatehi, Commonwealth Attorney for the city of Norfolk in Virginia, shares his unique journey from a privileged upbringing as the son of Iranian-American parents to becoming a prosecutor dedicated to reforming a flawed system. His contrarian nature and experiences with prejudice from both sides led him to pursue a career where he could address the inequality he witnessed firsthand. • Son of a neurosurgeon and nurse who emphasized service as a family value • Left a high-paying civil law career to become a public defender because he felt he was "increasing human misery" • Witnessed firsthand how wealth and connections create two different justice systems • Openly acknowledges historical issues including slave patrol origins of policing and prosecutor misconduct • Uses data rather than fear to drive prosecution decisions • Reduced Norfolk homicides from 63 to 37 and cut jail population by nearly half • Views successful criminal justice reform as addressing root causes through education, jobs, and neighborhood investment • Concerns about potential crime increases if social investment decreases and mass incarceration returns Vote in the primary election on June 17th, with early voting beginning on May 2nd. The work of progressive prosecution is too important to go backwards to the old ways. Support the show Do us a favor and like, comment, share, and subscribe so you don't miss any future episodes. Reach out to us on our socials and hit us up with any questions! Email: Info@listenup.biz Instagram: ListenUp4U Facebook: Let's Talk About It - Listen Up Twitter: ListenUp@Listenup4U Website: listenup.biz…

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Sexual Addiction, Trauma, and Finding Grace: One Man's Story 48:44

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Send us a text Support the show Do us a favor and like, comment, share, and subscribe so you don't miss any future episodes. Reach out to us on our socials and hit us up with any questions! Email: Info@listenup.biz Instagram: ListenUp4U Facebook: Let's Talk About It - Listen Up Twitter: ListenUp@Listenup4U Website: listenup.biz…

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Immigration Myths and Realities 45:53

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Send us a text Al Neely and Tina Jenkins explore how immigration discourse disproportionately focuses on Latino immigrants while ignoring significant migration from countries like China and India, and how fear-based policies threaten America's economic stability. • Media coverage of immigration overwhelmingly focuses on Hispanic immigrants crossing the Mexican border • Chinese immigration and property purchases receive different political framing and treatment • Mass deportation would severely impact housing, healthcare, agriculture, and construction sectors • Only 1-3% of undocumented immigrants are criminals, despite political rhetoric painting them as threats • Legal immigration pathways are prohibitively complex, expensive, and time-consuming • Fear-based campaign tactics exploit racial and economic anxieties to gain political support • Indiscriminate detention methods have resulted in American citizens being detained simply for speaking Spanish • Different protest approaches among minority communities reflect varying relationships with American identity Please hit the subscribe button to get future episodes as they become available. Support the show Do us a favor and like, comment, share, and subscribe so you don't miss any future episodes. Reach out to us on our socials and hit us up with any questions! Email: Info@listenup.biz Instagram: ListenUp4U Facebook: Let's Talk About It - Listen Up Twitter: ListenUp@Listenup4U Website: listenup.biz…

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From Classroom to Legislature: Justin Burns' Vision for Virginia's Future 42:30

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Send us a text A third-grade teacher with a passion for change is stepping into the political arena. Justin Burns, Virginia Beach native and special education inclusion teacher, shares his journey and vision as a candidate for Virginia State Delegate representing District 100—a diverse area encompassing Northwestern Virginia Beach and the Eastern Shore counties of Accomac and Northampton. Burns speaks candidly about what drove him to run: deep concern for children's futures, particularly regarding education funding, healthcare access, and economic opportunity. His firsthand classroom experience informs his urgent warning about potential federal education cuts that would devastate special education programs and widen the gap between affluent and low-income communities. "It would be a revert back to really the Jim Crow era...maybe not so much in as of race, but socioeconomically," Burns explains, highlighting how his district's Eastern Shore communities—where median household income falls $36,000 below the state average—would suffer most. The conversation delves into the affordable housing crisis gripping the Eastern Shore, where both workforce and family housing options are scarce. Burns advocates for developer incentives to build more accessible housing, understanding the ripple effects on employment, transportation, and community stability. Environmental challenges also feature prominently in his platform, with the district's coastal geography making rising sea levels and sustainable development urgent priorities for residents bordering both the Chesapeake Bay and Atlantic Ocean. As a young candidate in a Republican-leaning district, Burns brings an organizer's mindset to a challenging political landscape. Rather than shying away from difficult conversations, he's meeting voters where they are—even Republican farmers concerned about vanishing agricultural grants. His approach focuses on finding common ground around shared priorities: family success, quality education, environmental protection, and economic stability. "At the end of the day, we all want the same things," Burns reflects, demonstrating the bridge-building approach he believes can overcome political polarization. Visit BurnsForVirginia.com to learn more about his campaign, volunteer opportunities, and where Justin will be meeting with voters throughout District 100. Your engagement matters in shaping Virginia's future! Support the show Do us a favor and like, comment, share, and subscribe so you don't miss any future episodes. Reach out to us on our socials and hit us up with any questions! Email: Info@listenup.biz Instagram: ListenUp4U Facebook: Let's Talk About It - Listen Up Twitter: ListenUp@Listenup4U Website: listenup.biz…

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Al Neely on the Black Manosphere: Toxic Influences, Societal Struggles, and Pathways to Empowerment 25:58

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Send us a text What if the Black Manosphere, meant to be a sanctuary for open dialogue, mirrors the broader manosphere's darker themes? On this episode of the Listen Up Podcast, I, Al Neely, tackle the nuanced and often controversial dynamics within the Black Manosphere. We unravel the layers of societal struggles and survival mentalities that have shaped narratives within the black community, leading to the development of damaging stereotypes about black men and women. Our discussion shines a light on how figures like Joe Rogan and Candace Owens have influenced these spaces, and why young black men are drawn to these forums seeking connection and validation amidst limited opportunities for expression and growth. As we explore the complexities of this community, we confront the harsh realities of toxic influencers who exploit these platforms, spreading messages that fuel self-hatred and misogyny, overshadowing the potential for positive discourse. By reflecting on the systemic challenges the black community faces, from socioeconomic disparities to generational trauma, we emphasize the vital role of meaningful relationships and mental health awareness. Drawing inspiration from historical figures like Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., we navigate the ongoing issues of inequality and the necessity for healing and empowerment. Join me for a critical examination of these deep-rooted issues and a forward-looking exploration of potential pathways to change. Support the show Do us a favor and like, comment, share, and subscribe so you don't miss any future episodes. Reach out to us on our socials and hit us up with any questions! Email: Info@listenup.biz Instagram: ListenUp4U Facebook: Let's Talk About It - Listen Up Twitter: ListenUp@Listenup4U Website: listenup.biz…

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Navigating Education Policy: Tina Jenkins and Al Neely on Equity, Media Influence, and Political Engagement 1:00:28

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Send us a text What if the shifting tides in education policy could reshape the future of our classrooms? Join Tina Jenkins and me, Al Neely, as we tackle the pressing questions surrounding the educational landscape under the new administration. We explore the potential impact of executive orders on funding for special needs and Title I students, despite the protective barriers set by Congress-approved budgets. You'll discover why Title I funding is a lifeline for many communities and how recent shifts in financial priorities resonate across diverse groups, touching both those who backed the administration and those who didn't. In our discussion, we uncover the historical and ongoing challenges faced by minority communities in America, drawing attention to systemic issues of racism and discrimination. From the experiences of Japanese, Chinese, Hispanic, and Black communities to the biases in our educational curricula, we highlight how underfunding can perpetuate inequalities. Our conversation stresses the importance of political engagement, especially when nearly half the nation refrains from voting, and we underscore how local and state governance often holds the keys to equitable education. Finally, we navigate the complexities of political manipulation and media influence on education policy. From the portrayal of minority communities in the media to the ongoing debate over parental rights versus educational expertise, we delve into the delicate balance required. The episode closes with a look at the intersection of religion and education, emphasizing the critical need to maintain the separation of church and state to ensure a fair and inclusive environment for all students. Tune in for a comprehensive exploration of these vital issues, and gain fresh insights into how political and media landscapes are shaping the education system today. Support the show Do us a favor and like, comment, share, and subscribe so you don't miss any future episodes. Reach out to us on our socials and hit us up with any questions! Email: Info@listenup.biz Instagram: ListenUp4U Facebook: Let's Talk About It - Listen Up Twitter: ListenUp@Listenup4U Website: listenup.biz…

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Mary Carter on Education's Uncertain Future: Funding Challenges, Policy Shifts, and Global Implications 58:27

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Send us a text The episode features Mary Carter discussing the challenges students face in accessing higher education amid shifting federal policies and misinformation. Concerns about funding, student debt, and undocumented students illustrate a landscape fraught with uncertainty, while the conversation emphasizes the importance of advocacy and grassroots movements to protect educational access for all. • Discussion of student anxiety relating to the Department of Education • The FAFSA process and its significance in obtaining financial aid • Breakdown of various college tuition costs and financial aid opportunities • Examination of student loan forgiveness programs • Challenges faced by undocumented students regarding financial aid • The larger implications of proposed cuts to federal aid programs • The importance of political engagement and grassroots activism in education policy Support the show Do us a favor and like, comment, share, and subscribe so you don't miss any future episodes. Reach out to us on our socials and hit us up with any questions! Email: Info@listenup.biz Instagram: ListenUp4U Facebook: Let's Talk About It - Listen Up Twitter: ListenUp@Listenup4U Website: listenup.biz…

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Brenten Sims on Amplifying Black Voices: Mental Health, Identity, and Cultural Impact 41:06

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Send us a text What happens when Black men are given a space to speak openly about their mental health and societal pressures? Join my conversation with Brenten Sims, a local influencer and the voice behind the podcast "I See You, Bro," who has made it his mission to uplift Black men through candid dialogue and community support. We tackle the often-overlooked challenges Black men face, from the societal expectations that stifle emotional expression to the socioeconomic barriers that impede progress. Brenten's insights reveal the transformative power of providing platforms that amplify underrepresented voices and how these platforms can be a catalyst for change. Explore how art and music shape cultural perceptions and provide a canvas for vulnerability and growth. We discuss the vital role these mediums play in redefining the narrative around Black men while addressing the systemic issues that persist. Touching on political commentary, we reflect on the Black community's response to the recent presidential elections and the pressing need for actionable change beyond political rhetoric. Together, we examine how education and empowerment are pivotal in overcoming these challenges and enhancing communication within the community, ensuring that every Black man is met with the respect and understanding they deserve. In an intimate turn, I share my own experiences of navigating identity and spirituality, contrasting my upbringing in Chesapeake with my time at Liberty University. Through these personal stories, listeners gain insight into the complexities of aligning personal beliefs with broader institutional narratives. As we close, Brenten introduces initiatives like Black Boy Joy Fest, designed to connect men of color with wellness resources, encapsulating our shared commitment to fostering supportive communities. I See You, Bro remains a beacon of hope, providing honest dialogue and community connections, and is ready to welcome new listeners on this journey of empowerment and understanding. Support the show Do us a favor and like, comment, share, and subscribe so you don't miss any future episodes. Reach out to us on our socials and hit us up with any questions! Email: Info@listenup.biz Instagram: ListenUp4U Facebook: Let's Talk About It - Listen Up Twitter: ListenUp@Listenup4U Website: listenup.biz…

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Kendrick Lamar's Super Bowl Commentary: Art, Race, and Challenging American Inequality 42:21

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Send us a text What if art could truly transform society's views on race and inequality? Join me, Al Neely, on the Listen Up Podcast as we explore the cultural earthquake triggered by Kendrick Lamar's Super Bowl halftime show. We tackle the uncomfortable realities of racism in America, a persistent force dividing our nation—especially in the wake of recent political turmoil. With a keen eye, I analyze how Lamar's lyrics pull back the curtain on racial trauma and inequality, drawing from his own gritty experiences. The symbolic presence of Samuel L. Jackson as Uncle Sam during the performance stands as a powerful critique of American capitalism, challenging us to rethink the role of art in confronting societal norms. Beyond the stage, we journey into the heart of American culture—where violence and skewed values often define success in marginalized communities. Through Kendrick's evocative music, we confront how systemic neglect and political inertia amplify this culture of violence. His fearless storytelling sheds light on how aggressive, rather than truthful, approaches to societal issues perpetuate cycles of entitlement and unrest. This episode isn't just a reflection; it's a call to action, urging each of us to reconsider our place in these dynamics and the transformative potential of art to inspire change. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion that promises to leave you questioning and inspired. Support the show Do us a favor and like, comment, share, and subscribe so you don't miss any future episodes. Reach out to us on our socials and hit us up with any questions! Email: Info@listenup.biz Instagram: ListenUp4U Facebook: Let's Talk About It - Listen Up Twitter: ListenUp@Listenup4U Website: listenup.biz…

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Blame and Political Attitudes: Dr. Gail Sahar on America's Cultural Divide 46:20

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Send us a text What if the real divide in America isn’t just about left versus right, but rather how we assign blame? Join us for a compelling conversation with Dr. Gail Sahar, a distinguished professor at Wheaton College and author of "Blame and Political Attitudes: The Psychology of America's Cultural War." Together, we unravel the complex cognitive processes behind how we perceive social issues like poverty and terrorism, challenging the narrative of a strictly polarized society. Dr. Sahar’s insights offer a fresh perspective on understanding these issues beyond mere political ideology, bridging the gap between academic research and public discourse. We dive into the nuanced roles of blame in our society, tackling sensitive subjects such as unwanted pregnancy and sexual assault. With Dr. Sahar, we explore stereotypes and perceived control that shape public opinion and policy preferences, often dictating who receives sympathy and who faces judgment. The discussion touches on political contexts, including the support for Donald Trump, and the need for diverse social connections to break free from ideological echo chambers. Through education and awareness, we aspire to inspire a gradual reduction in prejudgment, even if it’s just one person at a time. Our exploration extends to the broader political landscape, examining societal attitudes toward immigrants and minority groups. Dr. Sahar shares personal reflections, highlighting the impact of fear-driven rhetoric from leaders and the media. We discuss the influence of corporate capitalism on political priorities and the essential role of education in overcoming economic barriers, emphasizing the structural challenges faced by those trying to escape poverty. As we engage with these complex topics, Dr. Sahar’s hope is to encourage understanding and inspire change, offering a signed copy of her book as a token of appreciation for continuing the conversation. Support the show Do us a favor and like, comment, share, and subscribe so you don't miss any future episodes. Reach out to us on our socials and hit us up with any questions! Email: Info@listenup.biz Instagram: ListenUp4U Facebook: Let's Talk About It - Listen Up Twitter: ListenUp@Listenup4U Website: listenup.biz…

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The Legacy of Coach Field: Fast-Paced Basketball, Harlem Globetrotters, and Empowering Youth 40:41

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Send us a text Step into the fast-paced world of Coach Field's basketball philosophy, where shooting every seven seconds was the norm and camaraderie was key. This episode takes you on a journey through the experiences of players thriving under his guidance, much like the modern-day Golden State Warriors. Discover the significance of the "last supper," a unique pre-season tradition that helped shape team dynamics, and understand the depth of Coach Field's commitment as he lived and bonded with his players beyond the court. Despite their successes, we reflect on the underappreciation of past players, particularly at institutions like Norfolk State. Join us as we welcome a former Harlem Globetrotter who shares his incredible journey from college days to playing with this iconic team. From being invited to their camp in 1969 to facing the challenges of tryouts, his story is one of resilience and grit. Hear firsthand accounts of the camaraderie with notable players like Mel Lock and Curly Neal, and the life-changing experiences of traveling across the U.S. and South America. This narrative provides a fascinating glimpse into the financial contrasts between the Globetrotters and NBA players, and the pride that comes from representing a legendary basketball institution. We also shine a light on the importance of respect, community, and the power of mentorship. Drawing from the wisdom of influential figures such as Coach Dick Price and Coach Ernest Donald Fears Jr., we discuss how these values can empower individuals to dream big and overcome challenges. This episode addresses the pressing issues of bullying and youth violence, highlighting the critical need for investing in community programs and youth mentorship. Through personal anecdotes and historical reflections, we underscore the enduring values of teamwork and resilience, encouraging today's youth to learn from past legacies and build a brighter future. Support the show Do us a favor and like, comment, share, and subscribe so you don't miss any future episodes. Reach out to us on our socials and hit us up with any questions! Email: Info@listenup.biz Instagram: ListenUp4U Facebook: Let's Talk About It - Listen Up Twitter: ListenUp@Listenup4U Website: listenup.biz…

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Brotherhood and Basketball: Tommy Long and Roscoe Brown on Norfolk State's Legacy 40:52

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Send us a text Two Norfolk State University alumni, Tommy Long and Roscoe Brown, share their journeys from high school to college basketball, highlighting the powerful bonds of mentorship and friendship that formed along the way. They discuss the importance of community involvement and the impactful legacy of their mentor, Coach Fields, encouraging the next generation through shared experiences on and off the court. • Tommy Long and Roscoe Brown recount their recruitment stories to Norfolk State • Role of Coach Fields in building relationships among players • Importance of mentorship in shaping young athletes • Reflections on personal challenges faced during college • Ongoing commitment to youth engagement and community service • Lasting friendships and the legacy of their late teammate, Bob Danridge Support the show Do us a favor and like, comment, share, and subscribe so you don't miss any future episodes. Reach out to us on our socials and hit us up with any questions! Email: Info@listenup.biz Instagram: ListenUp4U Facebook: Let's Talk About It - Listen Up Twitter: ListenUp@Listenup4U Website: listenup.biz…

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Carl Poole on Community Power: Navigating Politics, Education, and Housing in Norfolk 1:00:10

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Send us a text The episode provides a deep dive into the critical transformations occurring in Virginia's local elections and their impact on communities. We discuss the role of voter turnout, historical changes in electoral laws, the dynamics of local governance, the implications of school funding disparities, and the challenges of affordable housing in Norfolk while highlighting the urgent need for community engagement and advocacy. • Examining voter dissatisfaction and apathy towards local elections • Analyzing the shift in local election timing for increased voter turnout • Discussing the impact of new candidates filling local council seats • Exploring inequalities in schools’ funding tied to socio-economic status • Addressing the housing crisis and its effects in Norfolk • Confronting environmental issues related to industrial practices • Looking ahead to upcoming gubernatorial elections and their implications Register to vote today and consider volunteering for local candidates to boost civic engagement in your community. Support the show Do us a favor and like, comment, share, and subscribe so you don't miss any future episodes. Reach out to us on our socials and hit us up with any questions! Email: Info@listenup.biz Instagram: ListenUp4U Facebook: Let's Talk About It - Listen Up Twitter: ListenUp@Listenup4U Website: listenup.biz…

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The Complexity of Memory and Healing from Abuse 33:11

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Send us a text Megan Stover bravely joins us to recount her journey of uncovering repressed memories of sexual abuse, highlighting a painful experience from her childhood involving a church janitor. Her story uncovers the alarming realities of abuse within trusted environments, such as churches, and the complex psychological mechanisms like memory repression that victims may experience. Through Megan's narrative, we also touch on the male perspective, shedding light on the societal challenges that inhibit men from expressing vulnerability in the face of abuse by female perpetrators. Reflecting on how upbringing and religious beliefs mold our relationships and self-worth, we unpack the trials of growing up in a strict church setting. This background often fosters toxic relational patterns and issues of self-worth. Through personal anecdotes, we explore the role of therapy, particularly EMDR, in healing from these deep-seated traumas. Our discussion delves into how familial interactions from childhood can perpetuate unresolved emotions and influence adult relationships, while also acknowledging the strength and resilience required to navigate these challenges. Finally, we address the intricate power dynamics at play within relationships, highlighting how sex can sometimes be wielded as a tool for dominance. By candidly sharing personal stories, we aim to reassure listeners that they are not alone in their experiences and encourage open, honest conversations about these difficult topics. As we wrap up, we invite our audience to stay connected with us for more insightful discussions, with a heartfelt reminder that understanding and addressing past traumas is a crucial step toward healing. Support the show Do us a favor and like, comment, share, and subscribe so you don't miss any future episodes. Reach out to us on our socials and hit us up with any questions! Email: Info@listenup.biz Instagram: ListenUp4U Facebook: Let's Talk About It - Listen Up Twitter: ListenUp@Listenup4U Website: listenup.biz…

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Andre Council on Resilience and Racial Identity: Navigating Systemic Inequality in America 1:22:44

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