How to Find Your Shared Reality and Create Peaceful Relationships

Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships

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PHIL: We were talking about why we have a peaceful relationship and came up with the idea of a shared reality. This seems to fit what happens when we talk about us, about how we are. One of us will …

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How to Find Your Shared Reality and Create Peaceful Relationships

Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships

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Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships

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What is Peace in a Relationship Actually Like? 5:47

3天之前5:47

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PHIL: When we talk about peace with people who have not experienced it directly, they conceive of it as an absence. It has long been associated with death—the Latin, “Resquiescat in pace,” or R.I.P., stems from the eighth century. But … What is Peace in a Relationship Actually Like? Read More »

Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships

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You Can’t Love If You’re Not There: Why Presence Matters 5:03

10天之前5:03

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PHIL: It’s time to talk directly about being present. We have mentioned it recently when writing about other topics like listening, paying attention, and hanging out. But what does it involve? I have written elsewhere that we have a verbal … You Can’t Love If You’re Not There: Why Presence Matters Read More »…

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How Attentive Listening Strengthens Your Relationships 6:07

17天之前6:07

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MAUDE: Pay attention! Listen! These seem like rather simple admonishments. And yet, so many of us find it very challenging to do so. Listening to others with an open heart and full attention seems to have become almost a lost … How Attentive Listening Strengthens Your Relationships Read More »

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How Peaceful Relationships Create the Freedom to Be Yourself 5:07

24天之前5:07

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MAUDE: Peaceful relationships are attractive. Once you have experienced the kind of deep calm and relaxation that such a connection provides, it is natural to want more. Developing these kinds of interactions through the many methods we outline in our … How Peaceful Relationships Create the Freedom to Be Yourself Read More »…

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Why Differences Don’t Need to Create Problems in Your Relationships 3:39

4 weeks之前3:39

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Here’s a conversation we had the other night about why differences aren’t a problem for us. They don’t need to be a problem for you, either. PHIL: Let me try and describe the nature of our relationship. I look at … Why Differences Don’t Need to Create Problems in Your Relationships Read More »

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How Hanging Out Enhances and Strengthens Your Relationships 3:27

5 weeks之前3:27

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Maude, with a little assist from Phil, wrote today’s post. Phil and I have, since the very early days of our relationship, set aside a time every evening to be alone with each other. We do many different activities during … How Hanging Out Enhances and Strengthens Your Relationships Read More »

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Why Respect is Important for Creating Peaceful Relationships 5:29

6 weeks之前5:29

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PHIL: Respect. Like many words, it has come to have several meanings. There is deference: you should respect your parents or pay your respects to someone. But in a relationship, it has a different meaning. When we started to talk … Why Respect is Important for Creating Peaceful Relationships Read More »…

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How to Find Joy, Peace and Inner Strength Through Your Relationships 4:46

7 weeks之前4:46

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When we write these posts, we sit down, talk together, then write separately. This offers you the same subject from two different perspectives with a certain amount of overlap. PHIL: We usually pick what to write about by looking at … How to Find Joy, Peace and Inner Strength Through Your Relationships Read More »…

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Why Peaceful Relationships Depend on What You Do and Don’t Do 6:08

8 weeks之前6:08

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MAUDE: It was recently our 20th anniversary of meeting (and a joyous celebration it was!), and Phil and I were talking about the components of our relationship and other deep relationships with friends and family. The flavor of those peaceful … Why Peaceful Relationships Depend on What You Do and Don’t Do Read More »…

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Why It’s Important to Relate to Community as Well as Individuals 4:54

9 weeks之前4:54

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MAUDE: Recently, Phil and I and another friend attended a gathering to listen to our government representatives talk about the current situation. It was held a few blocks from where we live, here in Santa Barbara, CA. As we walked … Why It’s Important to Relate to Community as Well as Individuals Read More »…

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Embracing Acceptance: How to Let Go of Annoyances in Relationships 4:34

10 weeks之前4:34

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MAUDE: Phil shared a thought last night: “Why get cross with anyone? You will only have to fix it later. It’s like knocking over a vase of flowers because you don’t like the arrangement. You’ll just have to mop up … Embracing Acceptance: How to Let Go of Annoyances in Relationships Read More »

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Rely on Relationships to Stay Sane in an Insane World 5:20

11 weeks之前5:20

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MAUDE: In these challenging and turbulent times, it is important to fill your moments with presence; to be calmly, lovingly present. One of the best ways to do that is through your relationships. Stay connected; put extra attention and effort … Rely on Relationships to Stay Sane in an Insane World Read More »…

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Why Acknowledgment is Like a Magic Charm for Relationships 4:21

12 weeks之前4:21

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PHIL: We were talking about the role of acknowledgment in relationships. At basis, it’s a recognition that the other person exists. You are saying “I see you”, which is incredibly affirming. It’s more than saying “Oh, there you are”; it’s … Why Acknowledgment is Like a Magic Charm for Relationships Read More »…

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How to Let Conflicts Go Until You Can Talk Without Charge 6:55

13 weeks之前6:55

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Here’s a conversation we had that illustrates how you can connect without a negative charge on a topic that could be loaded. PHIL: I think this might be the perfect time to talk about something that happened a few days … How to Let Conflicts Go Until You Can Talk Without Charge Read More »

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Pay Attention – It’s How to Best Support Each Other 5:50

14 weeks之前5:50

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MAUDE: Last week, Phil had a big birthday. I had been thinking of how to celebrate him for many months, and had made numerous suggestions to him for grandiose celebrations, parties and trips. He never responded with the least enthusiasm … Pay Attention – It’s How to Best Support Each Other Read More »…

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Peace in a Relationship—How Can it Change the World? 5:05

31 weeks之前5:05

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Yesterday was The International Day of Peace. It’s a great time to think of what you are doing within your own life to make peace a living reality. Here’s an example of one of our favorite projects: I Declare World … Peace in a Relationship—How Can it Change the World? Read More »

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How Honesty Leads to Trust in Your Relationships 5:03

32 weeks之前5:03

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One of the steps to a peaceful relationship is honesty. When you share honestly with another, you set aside fears and defenses. You can share a bit and when you are accepted and respected, when you feel seen and heard, you dare to open a bit more. Read more ›

Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships

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Make Service a Core Value in Your Relationships 5:03

33 weeks之前5:03

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One of the signs of a peaceful relationship is when the element of service to the other person is a core value for that relationship. Learning what this is takes paying attention to the other person, and being open to listen and hear what they might need or want for support. Read more ›

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Why It’s Important to Be Fully Present in Your Relationships 5:25

34 weeks之前5:25

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Every relationship feels entirely different when you are truly present in it. This difference can be recognized by both parties, whether consciously or unconsciously. When you have the experience of each person being present, many of the fears that people bring to relationships dissolve. Read more ›

Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships

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How to Experience Peace in Your Relationships 7:37

35 weeks之前7:37

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The most important element to creating and maintaining peaceful relationships is that both people share peace as a central Core Value. This is not having thoughts of peace in some theoretical sense; it is experiencing peace as a visceral reality. Read more ›

Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships

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3 Things That Every Person Wants in Their Relationships 5:20

36 weeks之前5:20

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Most relationships will blossom when they have acceptance, appreciation and acknowledgment as an underpinning. In any relationship, it is important to be accepted for who we are, to be appreciated for who we are, and to be acknowledged for who we are. Read more ›

Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships

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Why It’s Important to Support Each Other in Your Relationships 3:50

37 weeks之前3:50

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The extent to which you have a feeling of support in your relationships will determine your sense of calm, serenity and peace. It consists of both giving and receiving. There is joy in this sense of mutual support. Read more ›

Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships

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It’s Important to Feel the Connection in Your Relationships 5:00

38 weeks之前5:00

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All too often, people become so used to the contact and connection in their relationships that they start to take them for granted. You stop really noticing the experience of that connection; how it makes you feel, why you treasure it, why it’s so important. Read more ›

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How to Find Peace and Hope Through Your Relationships 5:14

39 weeks之前5:14

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Watch for the dangers we all face every day of succumbing to doubt, loss of hope, or just plain tiredness. Turn to your relationships. Listen to the quiet and strength of hope you can find within yourself and each other. Read more ›

Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships

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Why It’s Important to Speak Your Feelings in Relationships 5:32

40 weeks之前5:32

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Speaking your position that has two benefits. The fact of putting it into words makes it much clearer, and the more specific the words are the clearer you can be. And having spoken it, you can start to move past it. Read more ›

Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships

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How Tone of Voice Creates Peace in Your Relationships 6:08

41 weeks之前6:08

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Peaceful relationships can come down to whether or not you speak with respect, love and kindness in your tone of voice and basic attitude, as this kind of communication creates an environment of calm, openness and comfort. Read more ›

Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships

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How to Handle Discord in Your Relationship 5:07

42 weeks之前5:07

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You know the feeling of being at odds with another person? Don't go there in the first place, and if you're in there, get out. Don’t just look at what the other person is doing; look at what you are doing, too. Focus on finding a resolution that works for both of you. Read more ›

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Peaceful Relationships Really Do Exist: Make Yours One Of Them 5:45

43 weeks之前5:45

5:45

We have a direct experience of a peaceful relationship, we’ve had it since our early days, and it has remained completely consistent. It is so different from our previous relationships that we feel compelled to write about it. Our message is that it exists, therefore it is possible. Read more ›

Phil and Maude on Successful Relationships

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How Trust and Peace go Hand in Hand in Your Relationships 4:36

44 weeks之前4:36

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Trust comes from openness and sharing, being interested in who the other person is, interacting without being defensive, wishing the best possible outcome for each other, and coming from love, not fear. Read more ›

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How To Avoid Relationship Conflicts With One Little Word

45 weeks之前