Episode #013 | The Power of Influence: Creating a Sendy Community with Ans Brouwer | Jan 20, 2025

Sendy Mom with Becky Brouwer

In this episode of the Sendy Mom podcast, host Becky Brouwer interviews Ans Brouwer, who shares her extraordinary life story. At 81, Ans reflects on her childhood in the Netherlands during World War II, and the challenges she faced as a beautiful young woman in a music conservatory. The conversation delves into themes of family, faith, personal growth, and the importance of community. Ans emphasizes the value of resilience and the need to embrace life's challenges, inspiring listeners to live purposefully and with courage, surrounding themselves with good influences.

What you’ll Hear:

♛ Ans Brouwer's life is a testament to resilience and courage.

♛ Growing up in war-torn Netherlands shaped Ans's character.

♛ Family dynamics play a crucial role in personal development.

♛ Taking risks is essential for growth and self-discovery.

♛ Music has been a significant part of Ans's life.

♛ Faith can provide strength during difficult times.

♛ Community support is vital for overcoming challenges.

♛ Aging gracefully involves staying active and engaged.

♛ It's important to surround yourself with positive influences.

♛ Embracing vulnerability can lead to personal growth.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction of Ans Brouwer

03:30 Childhood in the Netherlands During WWII

05:14 Family Dynamics and Resilience

06:58 Dad's Escape from a Nazi Work Camp

09:14 Adventures and Risks in Youth

10:03 Lessons from Childhood Experiences

11:26 Riding the Barges to School

15:01 Falling in the Ice

17:22 Coping with Adversity and Finding Strength

19:46 Surrounding Yourself with Goodness - Be a Coffee Bean

23:40 Moving to Australia and New Beginnings

25:27 Self Advocacy at the Conservatory of Music

34:10 The Cold War and a New Beginning in Australia

40:29 Desparation and Apples

43:26 Faith and Community Connections and When Your Child Chooses a Different Path

50:38 The Journey to America

53:08 Staying Active and Engaged at 81

55:55 Rapid Fire Questions

01:03:24 Outro with music.mp4

Mentioned in the Show:
The Coffee Bean: Jon Gordon and Damon West

“From the Heart” by Ans Brouwer

Turning Point: The Bomb and the Cold War

“Acts of Oblivion” by Robert Harris

“Three Ordinary Girls” by Tim Brady

Meet my Guest:

Ans Brouwer has lived a remarkable life. She is 81 years old but doesn’t look a day over 65. She acts like she’s about 25 sometimes and is a joy to be around. I love talking to her because she surprises you. She likes to say things that are unexpected and is unapologetic about what she believes and who she is. She was born in the Netherlands during World War II but grew up not knowing hunger. As the oldest grandchild of a large family, they never let the baby be hungry while everyone around her were suffering from the Hunger Winter in the Netherlands. I am excited to help share her story today. I know a lot about Ans. We met in person the day before I got married and she became my mother in-law. You are about to see how lucky I am to have her in my life. Ans is spunky, full of energy, positive, cheerful, and hopeful. Ans is sendy as you will find out because of the sacrifices she has made for her family, her faith, and her personal growth. This is what a real Mormon housewife looks like!

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