Ep 16: "Play Party" Tips, Advice, & Games with Professional Party Host JJ

The Birds & the Bee

You asked for a play party episode and here it is! JJ works for NYC's largest play party, as well as running his own private events & freelances for other parties throughout New York. JJ's tips include how to function as both a guest and a host at a play party. Although the party he works for often draws in cis gendered couples, his advice is perfect for newbies as well as the veteran party goer because JJ's sober lifestyle proves that you can meet new people, express your personality, give/receive consent, and get some action without the need or pressure of getting trashed. JJ's focus at parties is as an icebreaker host: setting up games and wingman-ing people early in the evening before play commences, and he brought an example of a game that Chelsea & Matt play in this episode. For more about JJ check out his podcast "Sexie Show" where he plays games with models, creators, and other people in the play community. @sexieshow on Instagram, X, FetLife, and look for his full podcast on your favorite podcast platform.