If you want to help people, don't help them with advice, love them as they are instead - 24.07.18

The Power Of Emotion

If you want to help people, don't help them with advice, love them as they are instead - 24.07.18

Hi everyone, in this video I want to dive deep into the concept of advice giving and its deeper implications. Recently, I've been reflecting on the principles of the Alcoholics Anonymous 12-step program, which emphasizes the importance of love and connection over direct advice. The program suggests that many addictions stem from a lack of love and connection, and addressing these root causes can help us overcome our dependencies.

I want to share some personal reflections on trying to help a friend by giving advice. I realized that my motivation was mixed with ego and a desire for validation. The most effective way to help others is not through unsolicited advice but through non-judgmental love and support.

By removing internal judgments and simply being present with love, I found that people felt more at ease and open. True help comes from being empathetic and loving, rather than trying to fix or advise. I wish for all of you to embody this non-judgmental love in your interactions, fostering genuine connections and personal growth.

Remember, the best way to help someone is to love them, not to try to fix them. Let's be there for each other with open hearts and minds.

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