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Don’t parent more than your partner!

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💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!)

When you’re in a relationship with someone who has children, by definition that implies that you’ve agreed to help parent those kids. Let me just say that again: you’ve agreed to help parent. Which implies that your partner should already be parenting their kids.

Stepparents: you can't parent your stepkids unless your partner is willing to actively support you in a parenting role. Nor can you parent your stepkids more than your partner is willing to do themselves. Not if you want to stay sane, that is.⠀⠀⠀⠀

If you’re pulling your hair out over a partner who isn’t parenting and your house feels way too close to Lord of the Flies for your personal comfort level, please please please go read this: ➡️ THE DISENGAGING ESSAY 👀

Because there’s a HUGE DIFFERENCE between helping parent someone else's kids vs taking all the parenting responsibilities upon yourself while your partner continues not parenting. Cross that line and you'll find yourself in burnout territory mighty quick. xo⠀⠀⠀

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🧡 Need a bigger pep talk? Start here or join us over on Substack! xo

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内容由Blended Family Frappé提供。所有播客内容(包括剧集、图形和播客描述)均由 Blended Family Frappé 或其播客平台合作伙伴直接上传和提供。如果您认为有人在未经您许可的情况下使用您的受版权保护的作品,您可以按照此处概述的流程进行操作https://zh.player.fm/legal

💬 Send us a text! (Yes really!)

When you’re in a relationship with someone who has children, by definition that implies that you’ve agreed to help parent those kids. Let me just say that again: you’ve agreed to help parent. Which implies that your partner should already be parenting their kids.

Stepparents: you can't parent your stepkids unless your partner is willing to actively support you in a parenting role. Nor can you parent your stepkids more than your partner is willing to do themselves. Not if you want to stay sane, that is.⠀⠀⠀⠀

If you’re pulling your hair out over a partner who isn’t parenting and your house feels way too close to Lord of the Flies for your personal comfort level, please please please go read this: ➡️ THE DISENGAGING ESSAY 👀

Because there’s a HUGE DIFFERENCE between helping parent someone else's kids vs taking all the parenting responsibilities upon yourself while your partner continues not parenting. Cross that line and you'll find yourself in burnout territory mighty quick. xo⠀⠀⠀

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🧡 Need a bigger pep talk? Start here or join us over on Substack! xo

  continue reading

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