Watch Your Words: Are They Tearing Down Or Lifting Up? | Ep. 71 Creating A Life You Love With Adriana podcast

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In this episode, I talk about common relationship misconceptions, like: “I thought he was the one just because he’s Christian,” “I prayed for God to remove him, He didn’t, so we should stay together,” or “He was the one and I’ll never find anyone else because of all my mistakes.” I also dig into modesty, heart posture, and why character, growth, and faith alignment matter more than labels. Plus, I share practical advice for singles on building relationships that really reflect God’s principles. 💌Looking for personalized support? Book a 1:1 session: https://www.adrianarofrano.com/ 📲 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adriana.rofrano/ 🎧YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@adrianarofrano…

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The Truth About “Grass Is Greener” Thinking | Ep. 114 25:59

14天之前25:59

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Lately I’ve caught myself comparing—whether it’s someone else’s life or my own past—and feeling like I’m missing out. In this episode I share how comparison and nostalgia can distract us spiritually, and how God’s been teaching me to stay present and appreciate where I am. 💌Looking for personalized support? Book a 1:1 session: https://www.adrianarofrano.com/📲 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adriana.rofrano/🎧YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@adrianarofrano…

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Why don't I feel close to God?? | Ep. 113 32:33

20天之前32:33

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I share my journey from going through the motions of faith to truly connecting with God. From breakups to marriage, I reflect on prayer, solitude, and reading the Bible as ways to grow intimacy and face hard emotions. I also talk about struggling with loneliness and what the Lord has been teaching me.…

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Not forgiving them is hurting you | Ep. 112 48:19

27天之前48:19

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Whether you have unforgiveness toward an ex, a friend who hurt you, or even yourself, learning to forgive is essential. In this episode, we talk about what Jesus says about others, practical steps to do it, and why it’s so important for your peace and spiritual health. 💌Looking for personalized support? Book a 1:1 session: https://www.adrianarofrano.com/ 📲 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adriana.rofrano/ 🎧 Podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/adrianarofrano/…

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Real Breakup & Relationship Stories + Advice 56:21

5 weeks之前56:21

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Today I am going over real breakup and relationship stories you’ve shared with me and give godly advice to each scenario. From wondering if you should reach out to your ex to dealing with jealousy and insecurity in a long-term relationship, I talk about trusting God’s timing, finding peace, and growing through heartbreak.…

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How to heal from a breakup | Ep. 110 43:08

6 weeks之前43:08

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Your guide to getting through a breakup!! I share my own journey from heartbreak to marriage and walk through practical, faith-centered steps to grieve well, set healthy boundaries, reflect on lessons, and begin healing—no matter how your breakup happened. 💌Looking for personalized support? Book a 1:1 session: https://www.adrianarofrano.com/📲 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adriana.rofrano/🎧 Podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/adrianarofrano/…

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Silence and solitude helped me heal | Ep. 109 37:13

7 weeks之前37:13

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In this episode, I share how God transformed my faith when I finally stopped running from the quiet. When I stopped distracting myself and instead sat with my emotions and God. We will talk about what scripture says about silence and solitude, and a simple step-by-step guide to help you start meeting God in the quiet.…

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Seeking God in Suffering | Ep. 108 33:39

8 weeks之前33:39

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Have you ever wondered why there’s so much suffering? Or why bad things happen to good people? Especially with everything going on lately, it can be hard to make sense of it. In this episode, we talk about what Jesus and the Bible say about suffering, and how God can use even the hard stuff to draw us closer to Him, strengthen our faith, and give us hope that lasts. I hope this can be an encouraging listen💗 💌Looking for personalized support? Book a 1:1 session: https://www.adrianarofrano.com/📲 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adriana.rofrano/🎧 Podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/adrianarofrano/…

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What I Wish I Knew About Dating | Ep. 107 21:41

9 weeks之前21:41

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In part 2 of “What I Wish I Knew When I Was Younger,” I share the lessons I’ve learned in dating and relationships— we talk on physical and emotional boundaries, relationship anxiety, and more. 💌Looking for personalized support? Book a 1:1 session: https://www.adrianarofrano.com/📲 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adriana.rofrano/🎧 Podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/adrianarofrano/…

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What I wish I knew about breakups & singleness | Ep. 106 23:54

10 weeks之前23:54

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In this episode, I share the things I wish I could tell my younger self about breakups and singleness—why no contact brings clarity, how to guard your heart while healing, and how this season can be one of the most powerful times to grow closer to God and more! 💌Looking for personalized support? Book a 1:1 session: https://www.adrianarofrano.com/📲 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adriana.rofrano/🎧 Podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/adrianarofrano/…

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When God Feels Distant—What to Do | Ep. 105 28:42

11 weeks之前28:42

28:42

Are you only coming to God for answers? In this episode, we dive into why we often feel lonely or disconnected from Him—and it’s not because He’s absent. The real issue is that we’re chasing answers instead of cultivating a true relationship, which often leaves us feeling even more confused and alone. This episode is inspired by the Practicing the Way course on prayer— it’s full of practical tools to help you actually live this out: https://www.practicingtheway.org/prayer 💌Looking for personalized support? Book a 1:1 session: https://www.adrianarofrano.com/📲 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adriana.rofrano/🎧 Podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/adrianarofrano/…

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Listening to the voice of God | Ep. 104 46:34

12 weeks之前46:34

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How do we know if it is God is speaking and what he is even speaking to us? In this episode, we explore the different ways God speaks to us—through Jesus and by scripture, circumstances, desires, prophecy/dreams/visions and in the quiet moments of prayer. This episode is inspired by the Practicing the Way course on prayer— it’s full of practical tools to help you actually live this out: https://www.practicingtheway.org/prayer💌Looking for personalized support? Book a 1:1 session: https://www.adrianarofrano.com/📲 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adriana.rofrano/🎧 Podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/adrianarofrano/…

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How to Talk to God When You Don’t Know What to Say — A Guide Through the Lord’s Prayer | Ep. 103 16:42

13 weeks之前16:42

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We explore how the Lord’s Prayer in Matthew 6:5-15 can guide you in learning to talk to God—especially when words don’t come easily. If you're walking through a breakup or a tough season, this isn't about saying the “right” thing, but about showing up honestly. This episode is inspired by the Practicing the Way course on prayer— it’s full of practical tools to help you actually live this out: https://www.practicingtheway.org/prayer 💌Looking for personalized support? Book a 1:1 session: https://www.adrianarofrano.com/ 📲 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adriana.rofrano/ 🎧 Podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/adrianarofrano/…

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"Should I pray for my Ex to come back?" — Learning to Pray with Open Hands | Ep. 102 22:21

14 weeks之前22:21

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This episode explores the heart posture we’re called to have in prayer. Whether you’re praying for your ex, a broken friendship, or a situation that feels uncertain, the real invitation is to come to God with open hands. We talk about what it means to surrender, to trust, and to partner with God rather than try to control the situation yourself. This episode is inspired by the Practicing the Way course on prayer— it’s full of practical tools to help you actually live this out: The Prayer Practice — Practicing the Way 💌Looking for personalized support? Book a 1:1 session: https://www.adrianarofrano.com/ 📲 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adriana.rofrano/ 🎧 Podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/adrianarofrano/…

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Conflict Isn’t a Sign to Leave—It’s a Chance to Grow | Ep. 101 34:42

16 weeks之前34:42

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We all want deep, meaningful community—but most of us leave when conflict shows up. In this episode, we unpack the myth of the perfect community, the messiness of the early church, and how God uses conflict to form us into people of love. (This conversation is not about enduring abuse or staying in unsafe situations. We're talking about everyday conflict—the kind that comes with real, imperfect people—and how it can actually be the soil for spiritual growth) This episode is inspired by the Practicing the Way course on community— it’s full of practical tools to help you actually live this out: https://www.practicingtheway.org/community💌Looking for personalized support? Book a 1:1 session: https://www.adrianarofrano.com/📲 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adriana.rofrano/🎧 Podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/adrianarofrano/…

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You’re Only as Sick as Your Secrets: The Power of Confession | Ep. 100 20:53

17 weeks之前20:53

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We’re diving into how shame shows up in breakups, relationships, and even in Christian community—and how it keeps us distant from God and others. You’ll walk away knowing that shame thrives in silence, but healing comes through honest confession. This episode is inspired by the Practicing the Way course on community— it’s full of practical tools to help you actually live this out: https://www.practicingtheway.org/community Get your FreeDiet™ Collagen using code "Adriana" for 10% off:https://naturalmedicineformulas.com/product/freediet-collagen/(I may earn a commission if you use my code — thank you for supporting!) 💌Looking for personalized support? Book a 1:1 session: https://www.adrianarofrano.com/ 📲 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adriana.rofrano/ 🎧 Podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/adrianarofrano/…

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Build Real Friendships: Share Your Joys & Sorrows | Ep. 99 25:22

18 weeks之前25:22

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In this episode, we’re talking about why surface-level friendships leave us feeling empty and how real community starts when we share both our joys and sorrows with our friends.This episode is inspired by the "Practicing the Way" course on community. You can go through the 4-week course with friends and use this podcast as added commentary, or simply follow along here. Either way, I highly recommend diving into the full course — it’s full of practical tools to help you actually live this out: https://www.practicingtheway.org/community💌Looking for personalized support? Book a 1:1 session: https://www.adrianarofrano.com/📲 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adriana.rofrano/🎧 Podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/adrianarofrano/🌱 join the community (weekly emails) :https://adrianarofrano.aweb.page/p/2956041d-29fb-4f8e-9e3f-c39f24287350…

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Why we need community | Ep. 98 26:09

19 weeks之前26:09

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In this episode, I’m sharing why community is essential and how I’ve seen its impact in my own life.This episode is inspired by the "Practicing the Way" course on community. You can go through the 4-week course with friends and use this podcast as added commentary, or simply follow along here. Either way, I highly recommend diving into the full course — it’s full of practical tools to help you actually live this out: https://www.practicingtheway.org/community 💌Looking for personalized support? Book a 1:1 session: https://www.adrianarofrano.com/📲 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adriana.rofrano/🎧 Podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/adrianarofrano/🌱 join the community (weekly emails) :https://adrianarofrano.aweb.page/p/2956041d-29fb-4f8e-9e3f-c39f24287350…

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Our story, Part 3: from engagement to marriage | Ep. 97 39:08

20 weeks之前39:08

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(Sorry in advance about the audio we had some issues with my husband’s mic) This is Part 3 of my husband and my story of how we went from breakup to marriage. In this episode, we talk about what the engagement season was really like, and how we navigated the pressures and expectations that came with it. We also share about the wedding planning season and what life has been like as newlyweds: the beautiful moments, the unexpected challenges, and the lessons we’re still learning in marriage. 💌Looking for personalized support? Book a 1:1 session: https://www.adrianarofrano.com/📲 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adriana.rofrano/🎧 Podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/adrianarofrano/🌱 join the community (weekly emails) :https://adrianarofrano.aweb.page/p/2956041d-29fb-4f8e-9e3f-c39f24287350…

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Our Story, Part 2: Getting Back Together After the Breakup | Ep. 96 52:29

21 weeks之前52:29

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(Sorry in advance about the audio we had some issues with my husband’s mic) This is Part 2 of my husband and my story of how we went from breakup to marriage. In this episode, we talk about how we got back together, the challenges we faced along the way, and how our relationship grew to the point where we seriously considered marriage. In Part 3, we’ll share how we got engaged, what the wedding planning season was like, and how marriage has been so far. 💌Looking for personalized support? Book a 1:1 session: https://www.adrianarofrano.com/📲 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adriana.rofrano/🎧 Podcast: https://creators.spotify.com/pod/profile/adrianarofrano/🌱 join the community (weekly emails) :https://adrianarofrano.aweb.page/p/2956041d-29fb-4f8e-9e3f-c39f24287350…

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Our Story, Part 1: From Meeting to Heartbreak | Ep. 95 42:36

22 weeks之前42:36

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(Sorry in advance about the audio we had some issues with my husband’s mic) In this episode, I’m joined by my husband as we open up about our journey — from breaking up to finding our way back to each other and eventually getting married. We share honestly about how our relationship began, what wasn’t working, and how we broke up. If you’ve ever questioned a relationship, dealt with anxiety about love, or wondered if God can restore what feels broken — this episode is for you. And in Part 2, we’ll share how we ended up getting back together and reflect on the last year and a half of our relationship.…

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Answering your questions relationship questions | Ep. 94 36:37

23 weeks之前36:37

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Watch on ⁠⁠YOUTUBE⁠ In this episode, I’m answering YOUR questions about dating, marriage, breakups, and navigating relationships through a Christ-centered lens: -“What are some good conversations to have before getting engaged or married?” - “Can guys and girls really be just friends?” - “Can a relationship be redeemed if you’ve fallen into sexual sin?” - “How do you know if you’re ready for a relationship — or if someone is from God?” - “Do you believe God has a specific person planned for each of us?” Get your FreeDiet™ Collagen using code "Adriana" for 10% off (I may earn a commission if you use my code — thank you for supporting!)Let’s connect on Instagram!📲 Instagram: @adriana.rofrano…

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Answering your questions about breakups | Ep. 93 34:53

24 weeks之前34:53

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(Watch on YOUTUBE ) In this episode, I’ll be answering YOUR breakup questions from my own experience (mainly from the breakup I had with my now-husband)Some questions I’ll be answering: - “What were the red flags that caused you to break up?” - “What if they ended it because they weren’t sure you were the right one?” - “Should you seek closure if it ended well but still left questions?” - “How do you actually go no contact when they’re all you think about?” - “How did you know when it was time to come back together? How long were you broken up for”…

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What to Do When You Don’t Know God’s Plan | Ep. 92 17:29

40 weeks之前17:29

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In this episode, we talk about how to navigate uncertainty when you’re unsure of God’s plan for your life. I share how it’s okay not to have a 20-year plan and how focusing on your passions and staying faithful in the small things or what God has placed before you know, can lead to clarity.

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From breaking up to getting married— The Full Story | Ep. 91 51:14

42 weeks之前51:14

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I'm finally sharing the full story (well, as much as I can fit into an hour!) of how my fiancé and I went from breaking up in 2023 to preparing for marriage now in 2025. I’ll take you through how we met, how our relationship began—and eventually ended—and the incredible journey of how God brought us back together. I’ll share what led us to start our relationship AGAIN, the lessons I’ve learned over the past year, and how those lessons have shaped our path to marriage!…

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“Why Don’t I Feel Joyful?”- How to Have True Happiness | Ep. 90 23:24

46 weeks之前23:24

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In this episode, we’re diving into what it means to experience true joy—not the kind of fleeting, picture-perfect happiness you see in holiday movies, but a joy that’s grounded in something far deeper. This is the joy of Jesus—a joy that’s available to you all year long, regardless of your circumstances. We also talk about how desiring happiness is NOT wrong but what is wrong is the way our culture goes about pursuing it. Lastly, I’ll share how joy and sorrow can coexist, and how, no matter where you are in life, you can access this happiness that comes from the Holy Spirit…

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Break FREE From your Negative Thinking Cycle | Ep. 89 29:40

47 weeks之前29:40

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In this episode, we’ll dive into how to break free from negative thinking cycles with 5 practical steps. Building on the idea from our last episode—that changing your thoughts can transform your life—we’ll go deeper into the “how.” Drawing insights from Dr. Caroline Leaf’s Switch on Your Brain , we’ll cover: My current state in my mental health and how this book has impacted me Why your thoughts matter : The science of quantum entanglement, mirror neurons, and their biblical connections to unity and empathy The 21-day mindset shift : How to rewire automatic negative thoughts in 21 days The 5-step framework for freedom : Gather, Focused Reflection, Write, Revisit/Replace, and Active Reach…

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Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Life: Using Science and Scripture | Ep. 88 32:18

48 weeks之前32:18

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In this episode, we’ll dive into what it means to "be transformed by the renewing of your mind" (Romans 12:2) and how both Scripture and science reveal how our thought life can influence our choices, actions, and life. After reading the book “Switch on your brain” by Dr. Caroline Leaf I wanted to share my insights with you: Why our thoughts matter: How the Bible and science align in showing that our minds influence our brain, body, and behavior. How to take thoughts captive: My personal experience with OCD and intrusive thoughts and how to catch a toxic thinking pattern. The power of choice: Why we do not have to be victims of our biology (example: "her mom has depression, so she will too"- not 100% accurate) , but co-creators of our future alongside God. Rest and renewal: How entering “directed rest” can deepen your connection with God, boost mental clarity, and bring peace (Psalm 46:10). By the end of this episode, you’ll understand how renewing your mind is not only possible but essential for living in alignment with God’s design for your life!…

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What It Means to Treat Your Body as a Temple: 5 Foundational Practices | Ep. 87 28:54

49 weeks之前28:54

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In this episode, we’ll explore what it means to treat your body as a “temple of the Holy Spirit”—specifically, 5 key practices to prioritize for your physical health. Here’s what we’ll cover: Why I took a break from posting fitness content Why being good stewards of our bodies matters, even though they’ll one day "waste away" 5 foundational ways to care for your body: sleep, nutrition, nervous system regulation, movement, and hydration How caring for your health is an act of worship and faithfulness to God How to focus on what you can control—without fear-mongering…

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Foundations of Faith: 3 Questions I Had as a New Christian | Ep.86 28:44

50 weeks之前28:44

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In this episode, I’m diving into some of the big questions I had when I first became a Christian. To make it even more meaningful, I asked you these same questions on Instagram and will be sharing some of your responses as well! Here’s what we’ll explore together: 1. Why are we (humans) here on earth— what is our purpose, why were we created? How would you learn what your purpose is? 2. What happens when one becomes a Christian? (broad question but answer in as great of depth as you want). What are the next steps? 3. What does it mean to have a relationship with the Lord, and how do we develop it?…

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Embracing new seasons (& big life update!) | Ep. 85 21:01

51 weeks之前21:01

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I have some big news that I just announced on Instagram—I’m engaged! But before I share the story, I want to discuss something we all face: change. A year ago, I was navigating heartbreak, clinging to the verse in Ecclesiastes: “There is a season for everything.” Life is full of seasons—singleness, relationship struggles, and joyful moments—and each one has a purpose. In this episode, I talk about how I’ve learned the importance of staying present and letting God work in the here and now instead of longing for the past or rushing into the future. Also, the book I mentioned is Sacred Marriage by Gary Thomas…

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You have to go back in order to go forward | Ep. 84 25:31

1 year之前25:31

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In this episode, I want to talk about how our past influences our present and future and why it's crucial to confront it. Sometimes, we need to go back to go forward. This leads us to explore these topics: My personal experience with holding on to emotional baggage and how it affected how I viewed God Common misconceptions about healing through religious activity alone Why we must go back to move forward: generational impacts, family patterns, and invisible scripts Practical steps for addressing deep-rooted behaviors and finding healing in Christ I also highly recommend reading the book Emotionally Healthy Sprituality by Peter Scazzero…

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How Compartmentalizing God Hurts Your Spiritual Life—and How to Stop | Ep. 83 23:20

1 year之前23:20

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In today’s episode, I’m diving into the concept of creating a healthy lifestyle that is truly centered on God. Many of us, including myself, have found ourselves compartmentalizing our faith—attending church on Sundays, praying in the mornings maybe, but leaving God out of the rest of our daily routines. This episode explores how this approach can lead to a shallow spirituality and disconnect from God throughout the day. We’ll discuss practical steps to integrate God into every aspect of our lives!…

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How to hear & listen to God’s voice | Ep. 82 42:18

1 year之前42:18

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(WATCH ON YOUTUBE ) You might have heard someone say, “God told me _____” or “I heard/felt God say ______,” but what does “hearing” from God actually mean? How do we know if it is God is speaking and what he is even speaking to us? In this episode, we explore the different ways God speaks to us—through Jesus and by scripture, circumstances, desires, prophecy/dreams/visions, and in the quiet moments of prayer. If you want to deepen your relationship with God and learn how to discern his voice, this episode will provide practical insights on how to hear and respond to His voice in your everyday life. This podcast was inspired by this organization’s bible study on “Prayer.” I highly recommend- https://www.practicingtheway.org/https://…

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How to pray | Ep. 81 27:45

1 year之前27:45

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(WATCH ON YOUTUBE ) This podcast explores the deeper meaning of Prayer, emphasizing that it's not a passive act but an active partnership with God. We discuss how we pray as an invitation to collaborate with God's power to bring His kingdom to earth. I talk about my experience with growing daily reliance on God for provision, the transformative power of confession and forgiveness, and the aligning prayers with God's will. In any relationship, communication is key, and in our relationship with Jesus, prayer is exactly that—our lifeline to God and absolutely essential. Bible study- https://www.practicingtheway.org/https://…

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Why Pray? | Ep. 80 26:32

1 year之前26:32

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In this episode, we tackle a question that many new Christians, including myself at first, often wonder about: “Why pray if God is going to do what He will do anyway?” We'll explore how prayer is not just about asking for what we need but about participating in God's redemptive work on earth. Besides understanding why prayer is important, you'll also learn how to start with prayer if you're new to it or how to enhance your existing prayer life. Bible study- https://www.practicingtheway.org/https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/are-there-two-wills-in-god…

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3 things I still struggle with | Ep. 79 30:43

1 year之前30:43

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(WATCH ON YOUTUBE) Lately, I've been struggling with a few challenges that left me feeling frustrated and questioning my ability to record a podcast because "I haven't figured it all out." But I dismissed that thought because I believe in being honest about my feelings, it can help you to feel less alone (if you can relate with me). In this episode, I open up about three struggles I've faced this week: feelings of hopelessness, social anxiety, and distraction. I share the steps I'm taking to address them, including putting ourselves in uncomfortable situations to grow and letting go of the pressure to be perfect.…

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Modesty | Ep. 78 28:48

1 year之前28:48

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(WATCH ON YOUTUBE ) In this episode, I want to address the concept of modesty and its true meaning. This leads us to explore these topics: My experience with it and how it affects your relationship with God Common misconceptions about modesty What it truly encompasses: heart posture, behavior, speech The biblical foundation for modesty (1 Peter 3:3-4, Proverbs 31:30) Practical tips…

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3 communication habits that kill relationships | Ep. 77 27:22

1 year之前27:22

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(WATCH ON YOUTUBE ) In this episode, we explore three detrimental communication habits that can hurt your relationships with your friends, significant other and pretty much anyone you come in contact with: defensiveness, gossiping, and passive aggressiveness. Drawing from my own experiences, I highlight the importance of self-awareness in identifying these habits and provide practical advice on how to change them for a more peaceful life!…

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“I'm not good enough to be a Christian” | Ep. 76 32:21

1 year之前32:21

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(WATCH ON YOUTUBE ) "I am not good enough to be a Christian” is a thought I have had before and I know I’m not the only one. So today, I wanted to answer the question of “what is good enough to be a Christian”(which is actually NOT the question you should be asking). This leads us to explore scripture and talk about these topics: What does it mean to be “saved” Faith vs. good works Forgiveness and repentance Difference between shame and conviction What about habitual sins? How to stop feeling guilt & shame for sins 🌱 join the community (weekly emails)…

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How to build a relationship with Jesus: From Knowing About Him to Truly Knowing Him | Ep. 75 29:57

1 year之前29:57

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(WATCH ON YOUTUBE ) In this episode, we dive into the journey of building a genuine relationship with God and the different stages of this journey. I'll share my personal experiences, starting from hearing about God through sermons and podcasts, to exploring the Bible to then actually living my life with God. We’ll discuss the importance of community, and the valuable resources (listed below) that deepened my understanding. I’ll also highlight the moments of surrender, where my superficial knowledge turned into a desperate need for God, leading to significant lifestyle changes. Wherever you are in your journey with God, I am sure you can gain something from my experience and what I have learned thus far. Resources recommended in the video: Bible Project - I mentioned their podcast and app with studies and videos Practicing the Way - I mentioned their podcast, Bible studies and book. This is all on their website On Guard - apologetics book by William Lane Craig. I would also recommend The Case for Christ by Lee Strobel if you want to understand WHY Christians believe what they believe…

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Anxiety | Ep. 74 35:55

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WATCH ON YOUTUBE: An episode about what we allll have dealt with at least occasionally or for some pretty much every waking moment—anxiety. I talk about my experience with this from social anxiety, phobias, intrusive thoughts and share what I have done through this. But most importantly we will talk about what God says about anxiety. Through my struggles, I've found comfort in inviting the Lord into moments and days of anxiety. I only hit the surface when it comes to mental health so stay tuned for more. But my hope in this episode is to put an emphasis on not letting anxiety become your identity. And to overcome it by bringing your worries to God, praying and allowing him to peel back the layers as to why you experience the emotions you do, so that you can live in PEACE.…

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Striving to be "happy" is hurting you | Ep. 73 26:06

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WATCH ON YOUTUBE : In this episode, we dive into the reality that the chasing happiness through instant gratification will not give you peace. We explore our tendency to avoid pain—whether it's putting ourselves out there to make new friends or having hard conversations—and why avoiding discomfort can be detrimental. Discover how good can emerge from suffering and why expecting constant happiness in Christianity can lead to discontentment. So where in your life are YOU avoiding pain that could actually PROPEL you into who God has created you to become.…

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Overcoming Phone Addiction: Finding the Root Cause Behind it | Ep. 72 23:20

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WATCH ON YOUTUBE : When I was battling phone addiction (10+ hours a day), I never understood why I was doing it. Later, I realized that many of us are missing the reason behind why we engage in activities like binge-watching TV, checking our phones every minute, or scrolling endlessly. Trying to muster up enough strength to put the phone down never seemed to work because I never addressed the root causes… my emotions. In this episode, I share practical tips to avoid becoming a slave to your phone and instead beat phone addiction!…

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Watch your Words: Are they tearing down or lifting up? | Ep. 71 26:28

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Watch on YouTube In this episode, we explore the impact of our words and thoughts on our lives. I discuss tools from scripture for overcoming strongholds in our thoughts, the continuous battle against negative patterns, and the journey towards letting God’s truth shape our identity and actions.

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Who Are You Becoming? - Understanding the Forces Shaping Us | Ep. 70 27:29

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Watch on YouTube In this episode, we talk about how we are being formed in our lives everyday by subtle and not so subtle forces. The question isn’t, “are we being formed,” its “Who are we being formed in to.” We are formed by many factors, a few categories being- habits, relationships, the stories we believe, our environment and life experiences. We evaluate these areas and I go over questions to ask yourself from a bible study which has helped me to do a “formation audit” of my life. Here is the link to the Bible Study I mentioned in the video: The Course — Practicing the Way…

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How to make friends and build friendships | Ep. 69 27:26

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Watch on YouTube In this episode, I share my experience with friendships from feeling like the odd one out and always dealing with drama to now being in loving supportive friendships. We will talk about the importance of choosing healthy friendships that promote growth, humility and support. I share practical tips for evaluating current friendships (does the friendship need to end), making new friends and lastly building those friendships.…

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Fasting, time off social media, and car crashes: having faith through it all | Ep. 68 27:44

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WATCH ON YOUTUBE After a month off of social media I have a few updates for you! In this episode, we talk about social media breaks and I share a story on my experience with fasting (after the Lord prompted me to fast). And I talk about how a recent car accident has served as a reminder to be grateful in all things. I talk about how these 3 things that have happened in the last month all have a common theme: having faith in the Lord AND remaining faithful to him.…

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My Story: Journey to Jesus | Ep. 67 47:36

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Watch on YouTube In this episode I share my testimony. I talk about how the lowest moments brought me to God and how my mess became my message. Throughout my life I have struggled with many things ranging from insecurities, identity, depression, and much more. I go into detail about how finding the Lord saved me. I hope that this can be an encouragement to you and a testament of how Jesus truly saves. TW: this episode will include talk about eating disorders, SA and other mental health issues. Please keep this in mind when deciding if, how and when you’ll listen. I am truly so grateful for all of your support. Let’s continue creating a life we love together…

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Q&A: Growing my faith, being disciplined, creating a healthy relationship with food/body | Ep. 66 21:40

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(WATCH ON YOUTUBE) In this episode, I answer some frequently asked questions! I share insights on my journey of faith, discussing the difference between “believing in god” and “following Jesus.” Additionally, I offer advice on cultivating discipline and sustaining motivation, while navigating the balancing act of juggling responsibilities like as work, fitness, school, and more!…

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Escape Beauty Standards: 3 tips to stop worrying about your looks | Ep. 65 18:49

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(WATCH ON YOUTUBE ) At the end of last year, when I woke up one morning I made a choice to wear no makeup, despite dressing up. I then had a moment of realization as fear of judgment was creeping in that I truly used makeup as a crutch and had even forgotten what my own face looked like... This experience showed me the damaging impact of beauty standards, the comparison to others, and even in seemingly small actions like frequent mirror checks. My eyes are constantly being opened on this subject from the Lord but today, I talk about strategies to shift focus away from appearance. Whether you have found yourself filled with insecurities or you just have a habit of frequently making sure you look good in the mirror this episode I hope will be helpful to you!…

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How to Focus on Jesus | Ep. 64 14:09

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(WATCH ON YOUTUBE ) Recently when I was getting overwhelmed about the future, confused about what to do, anxious about where I am suppose to be going, God reminded me that ALL I have to do is look towards HIM. When we run the race with Jesus we do not have to worry about what to do because as long as we are following him, he will lead us. Yes, we have decisions to make but by focusing on Jesus we can let worry to fall away. In this episode, I talk about how to focus our eyes on Jesus and start building a relationship with him or continue growing one, wherever you are in your faith journey.…

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3 Reasons We're Unhappy & How to Change This | Ep. 63 30:52

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(VIDEO ON YOUTUBE & SPOTIFY) In our fast-paced world filled with distractions, it seems like our culture is very unhappy. I needed a little break recently from the busyness of my days so I decided to disconnect for 3 days by going on a spiritual retreat I made up for myself. From that, I was reminded of a few reasons why our culture is so unhappy in life. Though I am just touching the surface in this episode, I share 3 reasons why we are not living our lives to the fullest and what we can do about it so we can create a life we love. Through personal stories and insights that God revealed to me, we'll explore the dangers of constant distractions, rushing through life, and placing value on superficial things. Whether you are in a slump you can’t seem to get out of, or life is going pretty well for you, I’m sure you will leave this episode with some great takeaways. YouTube:https://youtu.be/u9fGCCN9O7E?si=Vr0jPb62pMMJ2zYO…

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Relationships: What should you be looking for? | Ep. 62 31:30

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(VIDEO ON YOUTUBE & SPOTIFY) In this episode, we’ll look at practical questions to ask ourselves about what we should be looking for in a partner when dating. I talk about my experiences over the past few months and what stage I am currently in now (single or in a relationship?) So, whether you're single and searching or already in a relationship, this podcast will hopefully provide guidance on what you can look for in a potential or current partner (and in yourself cause a relationship takes two- well 3… cause Jesus= ESSENTIAL). I also share some potential red flags and we talk about how self-awareness is crucial, how to guard your heart, the importance of being with someone who you can grow with, and more! YouTube: https://youtu.be/mK05p0twejY?si=wRJDzf_If4djWqUy…

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Breakups | Ep. 61 35:34

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(VIDEO ON YOUTUBE & SPOTIFY) Get ready for a little story time and girl chat about breakups! In this podcast episode, I talk about what NOT to do when going through a breakup (learned from my first breakup) and then what TO do (applied in my second breakup). We talk about when it might be time to break up...and what to do when going through that pain. I go over things like setting boundaries, using different coping strategies, and focusing on God through it all. YouTube:https://youtu.be/P2h2GOIO9ZE?si=ndycJFZhgGsQgHi4…

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Singleness: Learn from my top 3 mistakes | Ep. 60 25:11

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(VIDEO ON YOUTUBE & SPOTIFY) There are moments where singleness can be lonely and confusing and our society is so quick to talk about relationships but not so much about what to do while single. Over the past few years, I have had some major lessons learned from personal experiences, other people, and God simply revealing areas that I was once blind to. So in this episode, I talk about three mistakes (though I have made MANY more) that I made while being single. And about how YOU can avoid them...and even if you can relate to these mistakes with me, I hope you can learn from them as I did so we can continue creating a life we love! YouTube: https://youtu.be/BgBoliQF07o?si=KK6NppyJvcmFoE6m…

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What does living life with Jesus mean? | Ep. 59 33:02

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(VIDEO ON YOUTUBE & SPOTIFY) In our society today it's easy for someone to call themself a Christian yet not actually follow Christ (because they 1. Don’t know how or 2. Don’t truly want to). In other words, it is common to acknowledge God but not be an apprentice (disciple & follower) of Jesus. So in this podcast, we talk about what having a relationship with God means, and how to be a discipline of Christ. And I open up about my story of finding Jesus and creating a relationship with him. This episode is for you- if you aren’t following Christ but are curious about what it’s about, if you have been a believer for a while but now want to fully live for Christ, or if you are anywhere in between. Referencing “Practicing the Way” by John Mark Comer: https://www.practicingtheway.org/book YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/lcBYQSeNqH8…

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"But I'm not motivated"- How to stop being LAZY | Ep. 58 21:41

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In this episode, we tackle the common struggle of lacking motivation, specifically the phrase "but I'm just not motivated" that many can relate to. We explore the concept of laziness, its underlying causes, and what you can do to STOP being lazy. Practical tips are shared on overcoming laziness and we dive into biblical perspectives on laziness specifically in Proverbs.…

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How Journaling Can Transform Your Life | Ep. 57 29:58

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(VIDEO PODCAST ON YOUTUBE & SPOTIFY) In this podcast episode, I share how consistent journaling has significantly impacted my life. Like taking control of thoughts, tracking personal growth over time, acting as a personal accountability partner for goals, and deepening my relationship with God. If you want to gain a deeper understanding of how to journal this episode provides practical tips for starting and maintaining a journaling practice. You will take away 8 prompts to guide reflection on feelings, future aspirations, worries, and gratitude. Receive an email with a list of the prompts/ideas I talked about: https://adrianarofrano.aweb.page/p/2956041d-29fb-4f8e-9e3f-c39f24287350 YouTube: https://youtu.be/JDK-jxMqkP0?si=2zeSeaK9_hagaT3p…

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Laziness, Burnout, and True Rest | Ep. 56 23:32

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(VIDEO PODCAST ON YOUTUBE AND SPOTIFY) In this podcast episode, I talk about how to find true rest in the Lord. We go into the theme of distinguishing between laziness and burnout, and I talk about my personal experience with toxic productivity. Biblical references, including passages from Hebrews and Matthew, are used to support the concept of finding rest in Jesus. Practical measures for rest, such as prayer and journaling, are discussed, along with the significance of structuring one's days and weeks thoughtfully. YouTube: https://youtu.be/AoaqFFX-brI?si=U-rkf19YCkqLl2d3…

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Setting WISE Goals | Ep. 55 29:57

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Video on Spotify and YouTube: https://youtu.be/TTx-2lBVJl0?si=zUIJsrRzXa3rGovX In this podcast episode, I talk about goal-setting within the context of faith. I created the term WISE goals to make setting goals easier and biblical. This means setting Well-defined goals, knowing the Inspiration behind them or your "why," having them be Spirit-led, and Ultimately embracing God’s plan. Drawing from biblical verses, the discussion highlights the risks of being outcome-focused, and I talk about the significance of placing the Lord first in goal-setting for true fulfillment. I talk about personal examples, such as fitness and health goals and how to cultivate habits and disciplines! If you want to create a change in your life, give this a listen!…

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A talk with Allie: Keeping God first in College and During Life's Challenges | Ep. 54 47:19

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(VIDEO PODCAST ON YOUTUBE & SPOTIFY) In this episode, I talk with my best friend, Allie, about her recent experience with God and how that has completely changed her life for the better. We talk about the transformation she has had that brought her to put God first in her life, especially in her studies of architecture at Miami University. We dive into the challenges of balancing faith amidst social pressures, dealing with loneliness, and turning life's trials into opportunities for spiritual growth. Give this a listen if you want to hear a story of hope and inspiration no matter where you are in life! YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/UcGOnzsw4uM?si=UTFjzdgn65ZYLw8Z…

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You Are What You Consume: Guarding Your Heart | Ep. 53 29:08

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(VIDEO PODCAST ON SPOTIFY & YOUTUBE) In this episode, I talk about what it means to guard your heart as it says in Proverbs 4:23. I used to wonder why I would become easily irritated, have unwanted thoughts pop into my head, and get into slumps without knowing why... then I started looking at the shows, music, images, media that I consumed, and people I surrounded myself with. I realized the importance of guarding our hearts because it determines the course of our lives. So let's get right into it! YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/MT3w5MJ7uO4?si=yQ-gF9vS1XR7KOFf…

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Balancing Fitness, Body Image, and Breaking the Idol of Appearance | Ep. 52 36:52

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(VIDEO PODCAST ON SPOTIFY & YOUTUBE) When I first started on my fitness journey, it was driven by appearance which only led to a very unhealthy mindset. Along the way as I started to battle with physical pain, I thankfully started to realize danger of making my body an idol. I learned that anytime I obsessed over my appearance is when I struggled with insecurities or pride. So in this episode, I talk all about what changes I have made to make my fitness journey a journey centered on God, NOT my appearance. If you find yourself placing a high importance on your appearance (like we often do), this episode is for you. Click here for YouTube…

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Loneliness | Ep. 51 28:17

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(VIDEO PODCAST ON SPOTIFY & YOUTUBE) We all will have a point in our lives where we feel lonely. Maybe your friends left you, you feel isolated because you moved somewhere new, you are going through a breakup, or you just feel like you do not belong anywhere. Whatever it is, there is hope… not hope in our plans but hope in the word of God. Let's dive into that together and learn how to face loneliness and fill ourselves with God's word. YouTube: https://youtu.be/_9sCD8vikR0…

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Understanding the What, Why, and How of Prayer | Ep. 50 39:13

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(VIDEO PODCAST ON SPOTIFY & YOUTUBE) In this episode, we talk all about how to pray to the Lord through Jesus and by allowing the Holy Spirit to work in us. We talk about the purpose of prayer and what it means to pray. We talk about why we should pray and the power of it in our lives. And lastly, we talk about an outline (from Matthew 6) you can use to pray. I will also explain how I pray and what we should avoid doing when communicating with God! Whether you aren’t a believer yet, a new believer or are very strong in your faith, I am sure you can gain something from this talk about prayer. YouTube: https://youtu.be/PZ76UaPiPL4…

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Q&A: Making friends, discernment in dating, having a healthy body image and more | Ep. 49 39:14

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(VIDEO PODCAST ON SPOTIFY & YOUTUBE) In this episode I will answer questions from you! I talk about how to deal with loneliness, how to make friends, maintain healthy relationships and how to live on fire for the Lord. All of these and more so give this a listen if you want to learn how to live a faith filled life! YouTube: https://youtu.be/ZT3_AWUmMug?si=0L2kk8PnOtvR72Pb…

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Finding Peace in the Pain | Ep. 48 24:42

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(VIDEO PODCAST ON SPOTIFY & YOUTUBE) Have you ever wondered how you can find TRUE peace in every circumstance of life? We will all go through difficult times, and we can't control what happens to us, BUT we can control our attitude about it. There can be a purpose to our pain and through the pain, we can even find peace… which is exactly what we will talk about. YouTube: https://m.youtube.com/watch?si=A4O1S7t4K73aLIqc&fbclid=PAAaZfNuw4yShz8t1FbWTxQhujalcm5XFgm-JfOwN-nb-_zKqTdmHJc1WI804_aem_ARCAaEEQXIxSYktXxLnFufeEofxxHMjC7h40-3NMOdKIhKSCmvijcaw2n6G7zTaPZNM&v=j4hhm8L9jVc&feature=youtu.be…

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Social Anxiety | Ep. 47 23:46

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I share my personal journey of battling social anxiety and how I went from extreme shyness and fear to confidently being myself. I also talk about the times I still struggle (get ready for some possible awkward stories lol) and how I have been able to overcome it. I will talk about the roots of social anxiety, discussing its origins, including experiences like bullying and low self-esteem. You will learn practical strategies for overcoming social anxiety, and you'll learn the importance of self-awareness, pattern recognition, and challenging irrational beliefs.…

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The Enemy Within | Ep. 46 31:33

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Before I started living my life for God, I didn't think much about sin in a believer's life. And, once walking in my faith, I was confused as to why I was still sinning even though I was on fire for the Lord. But now having learned this past year about what sin is, the power of it, and how we can defeat it, I realized how important it is for every believer to know! In this episode I talk about how sin is more than just actions; it's a powerful force that operates through our flesh. We talk about practical steps to put to death our flesh and walk by the spirit daily! The link to the book I will be referencing throughout: https://www.christianbook.com/enemy-within-straight-about-power-defeat/kris-lundgaard/9780875522012/pd/42017 Receive a summary plus additional resources on this topic by signing up for this week’s email! : https://adrianarofrano.aweb.page/p/2956041d-29fb-4f8e-9e3f-c39f24287350…

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Beating Phone Addiction: Part 2 | Ep. 45 21:29

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In this podcast episode, I dive into the practical strategies I've personally used to conquer phone addiction and achieve a healthier relationship with technology. I share valuable tips, such as avoiding early-morning social media scrolling, employing phone filters, scheduling days out, and designating specific "no phone zones." If you want to learn how to establish clear usage boundaries and replace unproductive phone use with activities that bring them genuine fulfillment, give this a listen!…

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Beating Phone Addiction: Part 1 | Ep. 44 19:44

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It's not hard to see the negative side effects that come from using our phone too much (specifically social media). But it is apart of our world today which means we NEED to learn to find balance so this technology does NOT take over our lives. The first step is realizing the emotion behind this habit of constant phone use. So in this episode, we will talk specifically about 5 feelings that commonly push us to go on our phone: Feelings of sadness/hopelessness, procrastination, boredom, FOMO and social anxiety. And we will talk about what to do about them when the feelings arise so phone addiction does not destroy your life.…

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Shifting the Focus in Fitness Beyond Appearances | Ep. 43 16:05

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In this episode, we dive into the common struggle on a fitness journeys: body insecurities. We explore how to make an internal change to take the focus off of our appearance. The conversation centers around practical, actionable steps that you can integrate into your daily lives to cultivate this internal change.…

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Balancing Life through the Power of Scheduling | Ep. 42 15:18

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In this episode we talk about how to find the right balance in your life by embracing self-discipline, setting your priorities, creating a schedule and having flexibility in it all. I will be talking about how I manage everything in my life from work, school, recording this podcast weekly and everything in between. If you want to learn how to balance your life by learning time management and how to schedule your weeks, this is for you!…

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Overthinking | Ep 41. 11:15

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In this episode I’ll be discussing my past and current struggles with overthinking, primarily related to self-image and insecurity and specifically how to overcome it. Through my journey I've learned one key lesson that has made me understand the reason why we overthink about ourselves. And I’ve learned what we can do to overcome this. If you struggle with overthinking when it comes to what people think about you, your appearance, body- image etc, give this a listen!…

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Fact-Checking Your Mind: Separating Truth from Lies | Ep. 40 16:55

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Lately I’ve been thinking about how often we accept our negative thoughts as absolute truths, leading to self-doubt and insecurity. But through working through them myself I’ve learned some valuable tools I wanted to share with you! Throughout the episode, you'll discover techniques to identify where these thoughts come from in your life and how to “fact-check” them. And by incorporating biblical insights we can counter these harmful beliefs. If you're curious about improving self confidence by taking negative thoughts captive, give this podcast a listen.…

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Friendships Shape Your Future: How to Choose Wisely | Ep. 39 16:27

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"Show me your friends and I'll show you your future" is a quote that could not be more true. Today I’ll be sharing personal experiences related to this topic, and we will talk about how surrounding yourself with positive (or negative) influences can shape your future. We talk about understanding the impact of friendships, recognizing signs of negative influence, and learning practical steps to build a supportive inner circle that aligns with your goals and values. This podcast offers actionable advice to empower you choosing relationships that foster growth and positively shape your future.…

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The Fear of Making the Wrong Decision | Ep. 38 19:47

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Do you ever fear that you are making the wrong decision? I have experienced this in many areas of my life, especially recently which has made me more interested in this topic. So in this episode, we will talk about this fear and how it intertwines with our spiritual journey. We will talk about the reasons behind this fear—societal expectations, consequences, loss of control, and more. And we talk about HOW to get over this fear and not let the paralysis of over-analysis overtake us. I share practical tools about how to overcome this and advice that I have applied in my life.…

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Overcoming Fears About Starting Something New | Ep. 37 21:31

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In honor of it being over a year since I started this podcast, I wanted to share my personal experiences of conquering the fears that held me back from starting something new! While I had many fears, the top 3 were: the fear of judgment, the fear of not being good enough, and the fear of failure. If you struggle with these, the good news is you CAN overcome it. If you want to learn how, give this episode a listen!…

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How to Grow a Relationship with God for Lasting Peace: My Personal Approach | Ep. 36 27:38

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In this episode, I'll walk you through practical steps that helped me go from just practicing “religion” to having a relationship with God. We’ll talk about understanding foundation of a genuine relationship, how reading the Bible daily changed my life, why heartfelt prayer is a game-changer, finding your spiritual community for support, and tackling those doubts head-on. If you want to start or grow a relationship with Jesus and find that peace we all crave, give this a listen.…

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Embracing Unexpected Detours in Life | Ep. 35 21:48

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I have found in life sometimes the most amazing things are the most unexpected and surprising. A recent plane ride I went on made me realize that sometimes the detours God has us take are really for our own good. We can have a set plan for our lives but in reality God knows what is really best for us. In this episode, I’ll be sharing some personal stories and insights into the moments when life took an unexpected turn but turned out better than expected. I’ll also be sharing how to recognize the divine detours God has set for us.…

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5 lessons for you from my fitness journey | Ep. 34 20:32

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Over my fitness journey I’ve learned many lessons along the way. Today I wanted to focus specifically on 5 tools and perspectives that can help you on your fitness journey and actually enjoy the process. Whether you haven’t started yet or you are already in the game, give this episode a listen to take your fitness journey to the next level!…

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Using Self-Discipline to Enhance Your Life | Ep. 33 22:31

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Having self-discipline is essential to create a life you love. Without it you are ultimately letting the external infleunces sway you wherever which in the long run will lead to a life of confusion. If you want to learn how to use discipline to grow your confidence and enhance your life, listen to this!…

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"How to Stop Worrying and Start Living"- Book Summary | Ep. 32 21:50

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We all have experienced worry at some point in our live. But excessive worry can cause mental, physical, and spiritual harm. In this episode we will be reviewing the book, “How to Stop Worrying and Start Living” by Dale Carnegie. This book has been of tremendous help in my journey so I will be highlighting a few key points that could serve in your journey as well!…

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My Health Journey- Learning the 5 aspects of health | Ep. 31 18:24

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When I started my fitness/health journey, it was ALL about my looks. Nothing else mattered except my appearance. But this became a problem because I neglected my spiritual, financial, social, mental, and physical (how I was feeling) health. And by focusing too much on what I looked like, I was constantly unhappy. If you want to fully optimize your health so you can live a life you love, give this episode a listen.…

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The pressure to achieve | Ep. 30 19:07

2 years之前19:07

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In our society there can be a lot of pressure to ALWAYS be achieving SOMETHING. Recently feel like I've had this pressure, and it's been taking the joy out of the journey. While having no drive or motivation for achievements isn't good, having an overwhelming amount of pressure is not either. It can lead you to get burnt out and can even lead to you resenting the goals you are trying to achieve. Because of this, it is so important to find the balance between these two spots. If you want to join in on finding this balance with me, give this episode a listen.…

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5 Lessons I've learned about friendships & relationships | Ep. 29 13:05

2 years之前13:05

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When we were younger it was obviously way easier to make friends... But as we get older it gets harder and its kind of like learning a new language. I used to have the hardest time making friends and for that matter, KEEPING THEM so it was hard to grow lasting friendships let alone be in a healthy relationship with a significant other. But each experience has made me stronger and taught me alot. Today I wanted to share some of the important lessons I have learned. If you want to learn how to have healthy friendships/relationships give this a listen!…

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Your Beliefs: The Power to Create or Destroy | Ep. 28 13:44

2 years之前13:44

13:44

Recently I have been thinking about how the beliefs you adopt about your life will determine the direction your life will go. Not facts, beliefs, meaning there is room for error which can lead to destruction in your life. In this episode, we will talk about how to shred the limiting beliefs you tell yourself. I’ll be sharing about how I was able to change the destructive story I kept telling myself and how you can too!…

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Becoming "happy" with your body | Ep. 27 15:59

2 years之前15:59

15:59

For a few years of my life, I was incredibly insecure. I never liked the way I looked, so I tried to change that in an unhealthy way at first. Body dysmorphia hit me hard, and because of that, I fell down a rocky path of body image struggles. I thought starting a fitness journey would make me happy with myself, but it did NOT... until I realized why. I realized where you place your identity affects how you feel about yourself. If you have been struggling to be happy with how you look, listen to this for a perspective shift on how to ACTUALLY be happy or in better words, at peace, with yourself.…

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Dealing with Stressful Situations | Ep. 26 18:13

2 years之前18:13

18:13

We are going to face stressful situations in life, and they CAN harm us... but only if we let us. It's not the stressful situations themselves that kill, but it is how YOU respond to it. Throughout my life I have shifted my perspective on stress and have started to see stressful situations as a way to make me stronger. But I also know living in stress is not good for your health so in this episode we will be talking about what you can do to deal with stressful situations in your life so you can continue to create a life you love!…

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How to "Stay Motivated" | Ep. 25 19:08

3 years之前19:08

19:08

We have all been there where we have a goal we are really excited about. We stay consistent for maybe a week and then we are NOT motivated anymore. We rely on motivation to reach our goals, but because of that we never achieve them. What if I told you there is a better way? Its called your WHY. Your why is the reason WHY you keep pushing despite the obstacles. It is strong enough to get you out of bed on the days you don’t want to. And your why is something greater than yourself, its roots are so deep that no matter what comes your way you will overcome it in order to achieve your goals. In this episode we talk about how to stay “motivated” by remembering your strong “why”…

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You attract what you are | Ep. 24 19:33

3 years之前19:33

19:33

Throughout my life I have noticed that the kind of person I am is the kind of person I attract. Because whatever energy you give off is who you attract. And by energy I don’t just mean the vibe you give off. I mean the way you act, the behaviors you participate in, the things you do. Because everything you do and how you behave collects together and creates the energy you send out to whoever you are around. If you want to start having better friendships and relationships in your life you need to look at yourself first which is exactly what we will talk about in this episode.…

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Letting Go of Expectations | Ep. 23 23:03

3 years之前23:03

23:03

Holding expectations about events, people, or yourself leads to disappointment. Throughout my life, I kept my expectations high...of how I should look, act and be and about others as well. But these expectations kept getting let down because I could never live up to the image I had created in my mind. The unfortunate thing about expectations is that in the process of looking forward to what you want to gain or looking to the past for what you had or had not received, there is no room for the present. Thankfully after realizing this, I have figured out how to lessen these unrealistic expectations. If you want to learn how to let go of your expectations, so you can create a life you love, give this a listen.…

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Overcoming Jealousy | Ep. 22 23:44

3 years之前23:44

23:44

I feel like all of us have felt jealousy at some point in our lives before. But the issue arises when it takes over our daily life and where we live in it. I’ve been there and I know how miserable it was… but I also know how to get out of it. Today we will be talking about my experience with jealousy and how you can combat these feelings as well!…

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The Fear of Missing Out | Ep. 21 23:35

3 years之前23:35

23:35

The fear of missing out…What even is it. Well its having anxiety that an exciting or interesting event may currently be happening elsewhere, often aroused by posts seen on social media. Now the last part of this sentence is so important. The social media part. Because back 30 years ago when Fomo was a feeling someone experienced I don’t think it had as much impact as in todays world. And because I think this is such a popular feeling, we are going to talk about HOW to overcome it and have these feelings less in life.…

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Our Fake "Reality" | Ep. 20 18:06

3 years之前18:06

18:06

Have you ever noticed there are really 2 worlds today? One where we can feel the ground beneath our feet, feel the fresh air, hear the sounds of birds, touch trees and be in touch with our surroundings. And the second world is where we log on every few minutes to check what's new or what we missed. The one that is accessed through a little box with a screen... also known as a phone and social media. In our society today social media has become the "new reality" but it's really a fake "reality." This can become a big issue because if we are not aware we can have this fake "reality" take over our REAL LIVES. In this episode we talk, in detail, about the impact this can have and how we can overcome it so we can create a life we love!…

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How to Create Change in Your Life | Ep. 19 11:36

3 years之前11:36

11:36

It's common to say we want "change" in our lives. We want things to change, but sometimes WE don't want to change. In this episode, we talk about why we get stuck in complacency and how to overcome it by putting some tools in place in our lives. If you know you need to change something in your life whether it's your finances, career, relationships or your health, give this episode a listen and let's start creating change within.…

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Getting Out of a Slump | Ep. 18 10:35

3 years之前10:35

10:35

Sometimes we can fall into a slump by accident but staying in a slump is a choice... YOUR CHOICE. Growth is NOT linear so we have to learn to pull ourselves up when we fall. While it can be challenging, I have learned some tools along the way to make it easier to get out of a slump. If you are in a slump right now or just want to listen ahead of time, this is the perfect episode for you. We talk about acknowledging your feelings, understanding why you are in a slump and how to take actionable steps to get out of this state so you can continue to create a life you love!…

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You Cannot Hide from Your Emotions | Ep. 17 8:28

3 years之前8:28

8:28

You may think it’s easier to push your emotions down rather than acknowledge them… but in the long run this never works. In this episode, I will talk about an experience with my emotions that I recently had. If you are someone who doesn’t know how to deal with your emotions… until it’s to late, give this a listen and put these tools into practice in your life.…

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The Importance of Being Present | Ep. 16 10:27

3 years之前10:27

10:27

Being present in todays world is not an easy task. But it’s essential. The ability to be present in each moment is directly correlated with our happiness. And I would say that makes it extremely important. In todays episode we will be talking about what being present really means, why it’s important and how you can do it yourself so you can create a life you love!…

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Finding Joy in the Journey: Loving yourself where you are while pursuing what you want | Ep. 15 9:04

3 years之前9:04

9:04

At the beginning of my fitness journey, I thought I had to "hate my way to my goals." I didn't believe I could be happy with what I had and still work on improving myself daily. And because of this, I found a deep hatred for my body until I finally realized that I needed to learn how to find joy in the process of achieving my goals. If this sounds anything like you, give this episode a listen because I will be talking about how to be happy with what you have while in pursuit of what you want.…

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How to Hear God's Voice | Ep. 14 14:56

3 years之前14:56

14:56

For a long time I wondered how I could hear the voice of God. I started to doubt my faith because of this until I realized why I never heard from Him and how to actually hear His word. If you have felt the same as me, I highly recommend reading the bible study book "Discerning the Voice of God" by Priscilla Shirer. This really opened my eyes to how I could understand God's voice, so in this episode I will go over a few key points that I apply in my own life after reading this book. And once I applied what I learned to my life, everything changed and I realized how to thrive in my relationship with the Lord which helped me to thrive in life!…

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How to handle "Bad Body Image Days" | Ep. 13 14:32

3 years之前14:32

14:32

Many of us can go through days where we don't feel so great about ourselves or our body's. And to get out of this state of mind it is important to really understand why this is happening. In this episode, I will be sharing what I do when I have a day where I don't feel so great about myself and how you can overcome these "bad body image days," too. We will be going over in detail how we can shift our focus away from our body and more towards how we feel through asking questions and journaling them out. I will be sharing some tools to overcome these feelings and how I ultimately place my faith in God because I know he is the foundation for my confidence…

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Setting Goals: Create Your Vision | Ep. 12 11:58

3 years之前11:58

11:58

It's a popular thing to set our New Year's resolutions, but why should we even set goals and how should we create and achieve them? In this episode about goal setting, you will learn how to create a life you love by creating goals that excite you. Without goals we will go through life mindlessly and ultimately feel lost and confused. Thankfully I realized this sooner than later and learned how to create goals that I can achieve. In this episode we go over starting with the end in mind so you can get clear about your vision. After this you can create structured goals with steps and habits to put in place for each. We also cover keeping your "why" at the front of your brain so you will learn to enjoy the process of achieving your goals.…

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Motivation vs. Discipline | Ep. 11 8:03

3 years之前8:03

8:03

In this episode, we talk about motivation vs. discipline and what we should use each for. They each have their place but it is important to know how to use them so you can achieve your goals and create a life that you love!

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Stop Trying to Fit In | Ep. 10 10:42

3 years之前10:42

10:42

Do you find yourself striving to fit in? Fit in with the trends, with a friend group, with the world? I used to struggle with an obsession to fit in but this led me to feel empty inside. It wasn't until I demolished the belief of wanting to fit in, that I found true joy. In this episode we talk about the dangers of trying to fit in and how we can stop the desire to fit in.…

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Who You Surround Yourself with Is Who You Become | Ep. 9 9:46

3 years之前9:46

9:46

Who you surround yourself with, what you watch and what you listen to can affect what kind of person you will be and where you will go in life. If you want to create a life you love, you MUST ensure your environment supports this. In this episode, we will be talking about how you should evaluate your environment to make sure you are able to achieve your goals and reach your full potential in life…

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Should Happiness be the goal in life? | Ep. 8 9:08

3 years之前9:08

9:08

A common saying is "do what makes you happy." But should we really listen to it? Does striving for happiness in life really make us happy? In this episode we will be talking about why striving for happiness leads to unhappiness, and what the goal should be instead.

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Overcoming Constant Comparison to Others | Ep. 7 11:22

3 years之前11:22

11:22

Has comparison to others taken over your life? I've been there, and I know what it's like to be stuck in this what seems like a never-ending cycle. But the good news is there is a way out of it! And in this episode, we will be talking about the tools I have used to help me overcome the constant comparison and that can help you too!…

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Dealing with loneliness | Ep. 6 11:22

3 years之前11:22

11:22

This episode shares how I deal with the feelings of loneliness and how you can too.

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How God Found Me | Ep. 5 10:50

3 years之前10:50

10:50

Here is a little bit of my story about how God worked through my life and saved me and how life is now that I have God.

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Overcoming the fear of what others think | Ep 4 12:08

3 years之前12:08

12:08

It is so easy to let fear hold you back in life. Especially fear of what other people think. In today's episode we will be talking about my journey to overcoming this fear and how you can also defeat it, so you can live the life you love.

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Becoming Confident | Ep. 3 20:55

3 years之前20:55

20:55

In this episode, I will be sharing what life was like before confidence, my body image struggles and how I overcame these insecurities.

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4 questions to overcome a negative state of mind | Ep. 2 12:23

3 years之前12:23

12:23

In this episode we will be going over what to do when you feel uncomfortable emotions

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What “Creating a life you love” means | Ep 1 10:03

3 years之前10:03