Ep #129 Parenting: The Job Where Everyone Thinks You're Doing It Wrong

Connect Method Parenting I Conscious Parenting, Positive Parenting, Gentle Parenting, Connective Parenting, Peaceful Parenting, Slow Parenting, Parenting Teens, Single Parenting, Joyful Parenting, Positive Discipline, ADHD Parenting

Let's get real for a hot second—ever feel like parenting is just one giant tug-of-war? (And somehow you're ALWAYS the one about to face-plant into the mud puddle, am I right?!)

In today's episode, I'm diving into my "Dream Relationship Strategy" – the exact framework I've used to transform my relationships with my kids (including my son who's turning 24 this year—which is WILD because I'm pretty sure I'm still 24 myself! 🤪).

What You'll Learn:

• Why your brain is literally the command center of your parenting (yes, everything starts RIGHT there!)
• How those sneaky thoughts like "nothing will ever get better" are totally sabotaging your connection with your kids
• The mind-blowing reframe that turns "my kid is SO frustrating" into "my child is doing the hard work of growing up" (game-changer alert! 🚨)
• Why Indigenous cultures have been nailing this whole parenting thing while many of us are still struggling with outdated strategies

My Favorite Quotes From This Episode:

"All of those external tools that I depended on for years, it was better for me to parent without them."

"My child is doing the hard work of growing up. I'm honored to be here to help."

"Connection teaches more than consequences."

Your Homework Assignment (because growth doesn't happen by accident!):

1. Identify one sticky situation where your relationship feels strained
2. Write down ALL your thoughts about it (yes, even the judgmental ones we all have!)
3. Thank your nervous system for trying to protect you (because even those triggered reactions are trying to help!)
4. Create new, empowering thoughts to replace the draining ones
5. Practice visualizing yourself believing these new thoughts

Remember: You're not just studying for a test here—you're rehearsing for the role of a lifetime as the parent your kids actually WANT in their corner!

Want to become the parent your kids call when they're 25 with GOOD news, not just when their car breaks down? This episode is your roadmap!

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