Making Empowered Decisions During Times of Transition

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Are you currently being faced with a tough decision that is causing you anxiety and unease? This could be a result of health concerns you’re facing, changing career paths, or even navigating relationship changes.

My guest today is Susan Guthrie, and she is here to share her wisdom from her experience being a top divorce attorney around what it has taught her about making important decisions. Susan is a preeminent family law attorney and mediator with over 32 years of experience. She also hosts the top 1 percent worldwide podcast, the Divorce and Beyond podcast.

We'll be sharing practical tips and heartfelt advice on how to approach and navigate tough decisions with confidence and clarity, so be sure to keep listening!

In this episode

• [2:57] Susan talks about ostrich syndrome and regrets when it comes to making big decisions.
• [4:21] Susan shares what she feels are people’s biggest risk and mistake when making life changing decisions.
• [5:17] How change brings negative emotions and why this acts as a barrier for some people.
• [7:07] Jodi shares the ‘taking a beat’ technique.
• [7:54] Giving yourself the grace of space.
• [10:19] “Divorce is not a shame. Divorce is not a stigma. Divorce is not the worst thing that ever happened to you. Divorce is an opportunity. And so are your difficult decisions.”
• [13:33] The ‘Me’ Decisions vs the ‘US’ Decisions.
• [16:03] The key to successful divorce negotiations.
• [20:29] “Write down, like sit down and exhaust yourself writing down all those positive things that you're going to get out of that.”
• [21:54] Jodi reminds us to put some distance between ourselves and the emotion so we can make a strategic decision.
• [23:47] Susan shares her top advice for listeners.
• [27:17] Better understanding mediators and the roles they play.
• [28:25] Your dare for the week.
• [29:56] More information about Susan’s podcast.\

Your Dare for the Week ❤️

If there is a decision that you are looking to make that is HUGE in your life, get curious about it and view it from a more positive lense. What do you stand to gain from making a decision like the one you’re facing?

References in the Episode

• The Divorce and Beyond Podcast

About Susan Guthrie

Susan Guthrie, a preeminent family law attorney and mediator with over 32 years of experience, hosts the top 1% worldwide podcast, The Divorce & Beyond Podcast®. Recognized as a top trainer in collaborative and mediation, Susan is the Chair-Elect of the ABA Section of Dispute Resolution and will assume leadership in 2024. She specializes in aiding professionals in developing successful practices.

Connect With Susan

• Instagram (Personal)
• Instagram (Business)
• Website
• Podcast
• LinkedIn

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