Introducing "Sometimes Curious, Often Confused" Sometimes Curious, Often Confused podcast

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Sometimes consistency feels overrated. It feels like showing up daily doesn’t mean anything if you don’t see results.But what if the real power of consistency isn’t about instant results but about staying in the game long enough to grow?Could it be that consistency is less about daily progress and more about keeping yourself in motion, so you don’t fall behind?Let’s talk about it. Send feedback or suggestionsEmail: ⁠ dearscoc@gmail.com ⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/scocpod ⁠⁠Tiktok: ⁠⁠ https://www.tiktok.com/scocpod ⁠⁠Follow me: ⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/richsomto All links in one place: ⁠⁠ https://www.linktr.ee/scocpod ⁠Y⁠our response might be featured in a future episode. Please indicate in the same email/DM if you’d prefer to remain anonymous.…

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What if fame had an off button? 14:23

14天之前14:23

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Can we talk about what people think fame is? Because that’s not the same as what it really is. In this episode, I’m starting a new series "If Wishes Were Horses, Beggars Would Fly" and we’re beginning with the dream of fame. From the highs of recognition to the pressure of staying in character, I’m wondering… what’s the real cost of being known? And if there was an off-switch for famewould anybody use it? Let’s talk about it. Send feedback or suggestions Email: ⁠ dearscoc@gmail.com ⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠ https://www.instagram.com/scocpod ⁠⁠Tiktok: ⁠⁠ https://www.tiktok.com/scocpod ⁠⁠Follow me: ⁠⁠ https://www.tiktok.com/scocpod ⁠⁠ All links in one place: ⁠⁠ https://www.linktr.ee/scocpod ⁠Y⁠our response might be featured in a future episode. Please indicate in the same email/DM if you’d prefer to remain anonymous.…

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Access Granted 7:54

21天之前7:54

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What if every thought, compliment, or criticism needed permission before it could shape how we see ourselves? In this episode, I’m thinking out loud about the mental checkpoints we don’t even realize we have—and how trust, self-image, and past experiences decide what gets through. Who have we given access to… and why? And more importantly, what would happen if we got better at choosing? Let’s talk about it. Send feedback or suggestions: Let’s talk about it. Send feedback or suggestions: Email: ⁠dearscoc@gmail.com ⁠Instagram: ⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/scocpod⁠ ⁠ Tiktok: ⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/scocpod⁠ ⁠ Follow me: ⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/richsomto⁠ ⁠ All links in one place: ⁠ ⁠https://www.linktr.ee/scocpod⁠ Y⁠our response might be featured in a future episode. Please indicate in the same email/DM if you’d prefer to remain anonymous.…

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How Are You, Really? 4:35

28天之前4:35

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When was the last time you really checked in with yourself? Not just a quick "I'm fine," but an actual moment to pause and ask… How am I, really? In this episode, we take a step back—just for a little while. No pressure, no overthinking. Just a question worth asking. So… how are you? Send feedback or suggestions: Email: dearscoc@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scocpod Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/scocpod Follow me: https://www.instagram.com/richsomto All links in one place: https://www.linktr.ee/scocpod Your response might be featured in a future episode. Please indicate in the same email/DM if you’d prefer to remain anonymous.…

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The Mindset Trap: The Prison of Being Right 21:50

5 weeks之前21:50

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We all say we want open conversations, but do we really allow people to change their minds? From influencers to politicians to everyday social media debates, there’s an unspoken rule: once you’ve taken a stance, you’d better stick with it—because admitting you were wrong? That’s risky.Why do we cling to old opinions, even when we know better? Is it integrity, or just fear? And where do we draw the line between accountability and growth?Maybe the real trap isn’t being wrong—it’s never letting ourselves admit when we are. Let’s talk about it. Send feedback or suggestions: Email: dearscoc@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/scocpod Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/scocpod Follow me: https://www.instagram.com/richsomto All links in one place: https://www.linktr.ee/scocpod Your response might be featured in a future episode. Please indicate in the same email/DM if you’d prefer to remain anonymous.…

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The Fear of Letting Go 26:18

6 weeks之前26:18

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Ever had the perfect comeback—only for the moment to slip away? Or worse, forgotten what you were about to say entirely? That sting of loss isn’t just about words—it’s about ideas, relationships, and the things we struggle to hold onto. Why do we cling to people, even when we’re not sure they belong in our lives? Why do we hoard thoughts, fearing we’ll never come up with something better? Is loss even real, or do we just convince ourselves it is? Maybe letting go isn’t about forgetting—it’s about trusting that what’s meant to stay will stay. Let’s talk Send feedback or suggestions: dearscoc@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @scocpod and @richsomto for updates. Your response might be featured in a future episode. Please indicate in the same email if you’d prefer to remain anonymous.…

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Nobody Is Themselves Anymore 26:36

7 weeks之前26:36

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In this episode, we dive into the blurry line between authenticity and performance. From influencers faking beach cleanups to the oddly consistent formula of online apology videos (cue the hoodie and soft voice), we ask: Is expressing ourselves still genuine, or has it all become a script? Why does confidence feel like something we have to rehearse? Why do even vulnerability and sadness have a “look”? And if being yourself requires effort, is it even real? Let’s unpack the ways we perform emotions—for others and maybe even for ourselves. Stay with me. Send feedback or suggest a topic: dearscoc@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @scocpod and @richsomto for updates. Your response might be featured in a future episode. Please indicate in the same email if you’d prefer to remain anonymous.…

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Overthinking is my Full-time job with no pay 26:01

10 weeks之前26:01

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Episode 10: Overthinking Let's have a deep dive into the endless spiral of overthinking! In this episode, we unpack the mental gymnastics of analyzing every conversation, decision, and potential worst-case scenario—because why let things go when you can dissect them for hours? From replaying awkward interactions to preparing for debates that may never happen, we explore the exhausting (yet oddly entertaining) world of overthinking. Grab a chair, your existential dread, and let’s overanalyze everything together. Send feedback or suggest a topic: dearscoc@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @scocpod and @richsomto for updates. Your response might be featured in a future episode. Please indicate in the same email if you’d prefer otherwise or if you’d like to remain anonymous.…

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Fear of Ruined Reputation: Why We Worry About Judgment even Before Success 14:49

13 weeks之前14:49

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Season 1: Why We Do What We Do and Why It’s Not Weird | Episode 9 Why are we so afraid of ruining our reputation, even if no one knows who we are? In this episode, we delve into the fear of being canceled, why we worry about our reputation, and the pressure to be perfect—even before we go viral. Whether you’re an aspiring creator or someone trying to avoid judgment, this episode uncovers the causes behind the fear of losing it all. Subscribe for more thought-provoking episodes. Send feedback or suggest a topic: dearscoc@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @scocpod and @richsomto for updates. Your response might be featured in a future episode. Please indicate in the same email if you’d prefer otherwise or if you’d like to remain anonymous.…

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The Productivity Myth: Why Less Sleep Won't Make You More Successful 11:00

14 weeks之前11:00

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Season 1: Why We Do What We Do and Why It’s Not Weird | Episode 8 Is staying up late really the secret to getting more done? Or is it just a trap we keep falling for? In this episode of Sometimes Curious, Often Confused, I break down the myth of late-night productivity and why sacrificing sleep often backfires. We'll explore why we convince ourselves we work better at night, the impact of sleep deprivation on focus, and whether more rest could actually make you more productive. If you're stuck in the cycle of working late and feeling exhausted, this episode is for you Subscribe for more thought-provoking episodes. Send feedback or suggest a topic: dearscoc@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @scocpod and @richsomto for updates. Your response might be featured in a future episode. Please indicate in the same email if you’d prefer otherwise or if you’d like to remain anonymous.…

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Self-Perception, Confidence, and Seeking Validation: When Approval Helps and When It Hurts 20:01

15 weeks之前20:01

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How much do other people’s opinions really affect the way you see yourself? In this episode of Sometimes Curious, Often Confused, we explore the connection between self-perception and external validation—breaking down how feedback from others can influence your confidence, identity, and the choices you make. You'll learn about: • What self-perception really is and how it differs from validation. • Why we crave external approval (even when we think we don't). • When validation helps and when it holds us back. If you’ve ever questioned why feedback can feel so personal—or if it’s possible to build confidence without external approval—this episode is for you. Have thoughts to share? Let me know! Send your feedback to dearscoc@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @scocpod and @richsomto for updates. Your response might be featured in a future episode. Please mention in your message if you'd prefer to stay anonymous. Referenced Video: What it feels like when someone steals your joke…

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Why Does January Feel Like a Never-Ending Monday? 9:04

16 weeks之前9:04

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Season 1: Why We Do What We Do and Why It’s Not Weird | Episode 6 You’ve survived the holidays, but now January arrives—the Monday of the year. It feels impossibly long, leaving us drained before we even get started. Is it the weight of holiday debt, the pressure of sticking to New Year’s resolutions, or simply the slow grind after festive excitement? In this episode, we’ll dive into the cultural and psychological reasons behind January’s heavy grip, exploring the strange rituals that make this month feel harder than any other. Let me know at dearscoc@gmail.com or connect on Instagram @scocpod and @richsomto for updates. Your response might be featured in a future episode. Please indicate in the same email if you’d prefer otherwise or if you’d like to remain anonymous.…

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Fresh Starts: Why We Love to Begin Again (and Again) 10:28

17 weeks之前10:28

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Season 1: Why We Do What We Do and Why It’s Not Weird | Episode 5 Every January, millions of people embrace the promise of a fresh start, setting New Year’s resolutions aimed at personal growth, better health, or greater happiness. Yet, by February, many of these goals have already fallen by the wayside. Why does this cycle of optimism and abandonment repeat itself year after year? Is it a lack of discipline, or is there something deeper driving our desire to reset and start over? In this episode, we’ll explore why we’re so drawn to fresh starts—and why they so often fade. Are societal expectations, unrealistic ambitions, or simple human tendencies to blame? We’ll also look at how small, intentional shifts can create meaningful, lasting change. But ultimately, we’ll ask the bigger question: Are fresh starts truly the key to transformation, or are they just another way we convince ourselves to keep trying? Why does the New Year feel like the “perfect” time for change? Do we put too much pressure on ourselves to succeed immediately? If today’s topic resonates with you, share your thoughts at scocpod@outlook.com or connect on Instagram @scocpod and @richsomto for updates. Your response might be featured in a future episode. Please indicate in the same email if you’d prefer otherwise or if you’d like to remain anonymous.…

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Christmas in Nigeria: The Glow-Up, The Glow-Down, and The Aftermath 25:12

18 weeks之前25:12

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Season 1: Why We Do What We Do and Why It’s Not Weird | Episode 4 Christmas is often filled with glittering lights and festive cheer, but what’s really happening behind the scenes? In this episode, we’re digging into the emotional and social costs of the holiday season—the pressures to overspend, overindulge, and maintain fake connections. From the stress of trying to live up to expectations to the exhaustion of creating the "perfect" holiday, we explore what makes Christmas both magical and overwhelming. Why do we overspend on Christmas? Is it worth it to go all out? And how can we focus on the joy without breaking the bank? Is the holiday glow worth the challenges that follow? Let me know at scocpod@outlook.com or connect on Instagram @scocpod and @richsomto for updates. Your response might be featured in a future episode. Please indicate in the same email if you’d prefer otherwise or if you’d like to remain anonymous.…

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Why is Being humble a competitive sport? 12:44

19 weeks之前12:44