5 Hacks: How to Speak Kid #35

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Have you ever felt like talking to your kids is like speaking an entirely different language? You tell them to put on their shoes, and suddenly it’s like you’ve asked them to climb a mountain. Believe me, I’ve been there. In this episode, I’m breaking down why our kids don’t always seem to get what we’re saying—and spoiler alert, it’s not because they’re ignoring us.

We’ll dive into the science behind how kids’ brains work, why they process the world differently from adults, and how we can adjust our approach to get through to them. I’ll share five creative hacks I use with my own kids—simple tools that help me communicate in a way they actually understand. If you’re tired of power struggles and tantrums, this episode is packed with practical tips that can make life a little easier (and a lot more fun).

What You’ll Learn

• Why kids’ brains work differently
  I’ll explain how their brains are still under construction and why emotional reactions often take over.
• How to communicate in ways that work for them
  From using stories to simplifying language, you’ll learn how to meet your kids where they are.
• Five creative hacks for talking to your kids
  I’ll walk you through how I:
  • Use iPad bugs to make screen-time transitions smoother.
  • Play tooth detective to turn teeth brushing into a fun, nightly ritual.
  • Talk to my kids’ bellies to encourage healthier eating choices.
  • Sing instructions to make them stick (hello, Daniel Tiger fans!).
  • Use puppets to make even tough conversations more approachable.

Why This Matters

I truly believe that how we communicate with our kids shapes not only their behavior but their emotional development and sense of connection. When we approach communication with playfulness and empathy, we’re not just avoiding meltdowns—we’re building trust and lifelong communication habits.

This Week’s Challenge

Try one of these hacks! Whether it’s rethinking how you handle screen time or singing through a tricky moment, I’d love to hear what worked for you.

Resources I Mentioned

• The Whole Brain Child by Dr. Tina Payne Bryson and Dr. Daniel Siegel
• The Way of Play by Dr. Tina Payne Bryson and Georgie Wisen-Vincent
  
  

Let’s Connect

I love hearing from you! Share your thoughts on this episode, tell me what hack you’re excited to try, or let me know about your own creative communication wins.

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Thanks for listening, and until next time, let’s keep learning how to speak kid—it might just change your life (and theirs)!

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章节

1. Understanding Child Communication and Brain Development (00:00:00)

2. Understanding Dopamine and Tooth Detective'Hack (00:11:48)

3. Explaining Kids' Needs Through Dialogue (00:22:13)

4. Effective Child Communication Strategies (00:26:21)