450: Handling Grandparents and In Laws: Tips for Healthy Boundaries

Wire Talk with Karen Stubbs

Navigating relationships with in-laws and grandparents can be tricky, especially when it comes to setting boundaries for the safety and well-being of your kids. Today Karen tackles your questions about managing challenging family dynamics with wisdom, grace, and confidence. Whether you're dealing with safety concerns, feeling smothered, or struggling with differing parenting approaches, this conversation is packed with practical advice to help you protect your family while fostering peace.

Episode Recap:

2:10 - Check out our new podcast set up on YouTube

4:35 - How do I graciously handle having two sets of hyper-involved grandparents?

9:15- How do I handle my mother-in-law’s disrespect in a kind but firm way?

12:45- My mom hovers and overprotects my kids - what should I do?

16:45 - My in-laws have repeatedly shown they do not respect my boundaries, is there anything I can do?

Scripture for Reflection: James 1:5 (NIV)
If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.

Questions for Discussion:

1. Have you ever had to set boundaries with family members? What was the outcome, and how did you approach it with kindness and firmness?
2. What role should prayer play in preparing for difficult conversations about boundaries?
3. In what ways can we shift our focus from trying to please everyone to focusing on our responsibilities as moms?
4. What practical steps can you take this week to ensure your nuclear family has time to bond without extended family involvement?

Resources:

• Register for SOAR 2025 in the BOAW Moms app today [App Store] [Google Play]
• Grab a copy of Karen’s devotional: Moments with God for Moms