Prenups: What is a Prenup and What are the Pros and Cons of a Prenup?

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Today’s guest is Laurie Israel. Laurie is a national prenuptial agreement mediator, consultant, lawyer, and author of "The Generous Prenup: How to Support Your Marriage and Avoid the Pitfalls.”
For today’s show we will discuss when prenups are appropriate, when they’re not, and the damage they can cause.
Show Notes
0:00-1:40 Introduction
1:41-4:51 Who should get a prenup and the situations that make sense for a prenup.
4:52-11:49 Who should not get a prenup.
11:50-17:59 The drawbacks of prenups.
18:00-20:56 The best process to embark on getting a prenup if you are going to get one.
20:57-25:18 The pitfalls of prenups that happen during the process once it starts.
25:19-27:03 The best way to pick a prenup attorney.
27:04-30:24 The provisions that are in “bad” prenups, the “good” or “helpful” provisions in a prenup.
30:25-31:25 Whether a prenup has to be fair.
31:26-32:15 What happens to a marriage when there’s a bad prenup.
32:16-32:54 One piece of simple and actionable advice from Laurie for considering a prenup.
32:55-34:00 Conclusion

Resources
Laurie’s website: https://www.laurieisrael.com/
Laurie’s book, The Generous Prenup https://www.laurieisrael.com/book/

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章节

1. Introduction (00:00:00)

2. Who should get a prenup and the situations that make sense for a prenup. (00:01:41)

3. Who should not get a prenup. (00:04:52)

4. The drawbacks of prenups. (00:11:50)

5. The best process to embark on getting a prenup if you are going to get one. (00:18:00)

6. The pitfalls of prenups that happen during the process once it starts. (00:20:57)

7. The best way to pick a prenup attorney. (00:25:19)

8. The provisions that are in “bad” prenups, the “good” or “helpful” provisions in a prenup. (00:27:04)

9. Whether a prenup has to be fair. (00:30:25)

10. What happens to a marriage when there’s a bad prenup. (00:31:26)

11. One piece of simple and actionable advice from Laurie for considering a prenup. (00:32:16)

12. Conclusion (00:32:55)

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Modern Husbands Podcast

Prenups: What is a Prenup and What are the Pros and Cons of a Prenup?

Modern Husbands Podcast

published 2年之前

MP3•单集首页

Welcome to the Modern Husbands podcast, where any combination of Dr. Ross, Christian, and Brian host national experts who share winning ideas to manage money and the home as a team.

Resources
Laurie’s website: https://www.laurieisrael.com/
Laurie’s book, The Generous Prenup https://www.laurieisrael.com/book/

Subscribe or follow Modern Husbands on social media!
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章节

1. Introduction (00:00:00)

2. Who should get a prenup and the situations that make sense for a prenup. (00:01:41)

3. Who should not get a prenup. (00:04:52)

4. The drawbacks of prenups. (00:11:50)

5. The best process to embark on getting a prenup if you are going to get one. (00:18:00)

6. The pitfalls of prenups that happen during the process once it starts. (00:20:57)

7. The best way to pick a prenup attorney. (00:25:19)

8. The provisions that are in “bad” prenups, the “good” or “helpful” provisions in a prenup. (00:27:04)

9. Whether a prenup has to be fair. (00:30:25)

10. What happens to a marriage when there’s a bad prenup. (00:31:26)

11. One piece of simple and actionable advice from Laurie for considering a prenup. (00:32:16)

12. Conclusion (00:32:55)

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