Celebrating 50 Episodes: Exploring Relationship Escalators, Jealousy, and Growth in Non-Monogamy

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Today we are celebrating a major milestone for our podcast, Nope, We're Not Monogamous: our 50th episode! To mark this occasion, I was joined by Danny, my producer, boyfriend and fellow non-monogamous adventurer. As we reminisced about our favorite episodes, we couldn't help but feel grateful for the incredible support we've received from our private Facebook group and Patreon patrons.

Our journey through non-monogamy has been a rollercoaster, and we were excited to revisit episodes that covered topics like decolonizing polyamory, relationship anarchy, overcoming the challenge of being vetoed, and experiencing personal growth through jealousy. We also delved into the complex world of emotions, discussing the importance of jealousy, compersion, and creating a sense of safety when opening up or transitioning into non-monogamy.

We also explored the concept of the 'relationship escalator' and the societal pressure to follow a traditional trajectory in relationships. By taking things slow and avoiding the pitfalls of this prescribed path, we've found that our connections become stronger and more secure. So join us as we celebrate 50 episodes of candid conversations, learning to live life outside the box and embracing the world of non-monogamy!

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章节

1. Celebrating 50 Episodes: Exploring Relationship Escalators, Jealousy, and Growth in Non-Monogamy (00:00:00)

2. 50 Episodes of Non-Monogamy Discussions (00:00:07)

3. Non-Monogamy Podcast Favorites (00:07:55)

4. Nonmonogamy and Jealousy (00:20:22)

5. Relationship Escalators and Non-Milestone-Based Relationships (00:32:39)

6. [Ad] Eye-Opening Moments Podcast (00:35:04)

7. (Cont.) Relationship Escalators and Non-Milestone-Based Relationships (00:35:41)

8. Relationship Escalator and Taking Things Slow (00:40:28)