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In this riveting episode of the Secret Life podcast, Brianne Davis-Gantt delves into the intoxicating and often destructive world of fantasy relationships. She explores how these relationships, fueled by unrealistic expectations and superficial attractions, can lead to emotional turmoil and self-sabotage. Brianne dissects the behaviors and red flags that characterize fantasy relationships, from love bombing and trauma bonding to the avoidance of real intimacy and responsibility.
Brianne also shares practical advice on how to recognize and break free from the cycle of fantasy relationships. She emphasizes the importance of setting realistic expectations, developing a strong sense of self-identity, and seeking support to navigate the complexities of genuine human connection. Tune in to understand the allure and pitfalls of fantasy relationships and learn how to cultivate healthier, more fulfilling connections.
🔑 Episode Keywords
Fantasy Relationships, Love Bombing, Trauma Bonding, Avoidance, Attachment Styles, Emotional Connection, Intimacy, Self-Identity, Red Flags, Relationship Advice, Emotional Healing
(00:00) Because fantasy doesn't last. You compromise yourself, you compromise your values.
(00:20) Welcome to the Secret Life podcast. Tell me your secret, I'll tell you mine.
(01:00) After twelve years of recovery in sex and love addiction, I finally found my soulmate myself.
(02:00) Today I'm pulling back the curtains of all kinds of human secrets.
(Brianne Davis) And today we are talking about dun dun dun fantasy, fantasy. A fantasy relationship.
(05:00) Disney. Somebody coming to rescue the all-important butterflies.
(10:00) When you are looking at a dating app, I tell people, read between the lines.
(15:00) An affair is fantasy based. You will literally disappear in that fantasy world.
(20:00) If you are fighting and then making up, um, passionate lovemaking, you are recreating a fantasy that is not healthy.
(25:00) Fantasy is intoxicating. You should not feel intoxicated by your relationship.
(30:00) Fantasies are short-lived. Short-lived and fleeting. Whatever burns fast burns out fast.
(35:00) Ten signs you're in a fantasy relationship. You ignore red flags. You see them, but you keep ignoring them.
(40:00) Ten ways to deal with fantasy. Recognize that, uh, you're in this fantasy relationship. Talk to your partner about it.
(45:00) Because fantasy doesn't last. You compromise yourself, you compromise your values.
(50:00) If you don't, you're going to go from fantasy relationship to fantasy relationship the rest of your life.
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If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhelmed, we've compiled a list of resources at secretlifepodcast.com
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To share your secret and be a guest on the show email secretlifepodcast@icloud.com
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SECRET LIFE’S TOPICS INCLUDE:
addiction recovery, mental health, alcoholism, drug addiction, sex addiction, love addiction, OCD, ADHD, dyslexia, eating disorders, debt & money issues, anorexia, depression, shoplifting, molestation, sexual assault, trauma, relationships, self-love, friendships, community, secrets, self-care, courage, freedom, and happiness.
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Create and Host Your Podcast with the same host we use - RedCircle
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Get your copy of SECRET LIFE OF A HOLLYWOOD SEX & LOVE ADDICT -- Secret Life Novel or on Amazon
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HOW CAN I SUPPORT THE SHOW?
- Tell Your Friends & Share Online!
- Follow, Rate & Review: Apple Podcasts | Spotify
- Follow & Listen iHeart | Stitcher | Google Podcasts | Amazon | Pandora
- Spread the word via social media
- #SecretLifePodcast
- Donate - You can also support the show with a one-time or monthly donation via PayPal (make payment to secretlifepodcast@icloud.com) or at our WEBSITE.
Connect with Brianne Davis-Gantt (@thebriannedavis)
Connect with Mark Gantt (@markgantt)
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Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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内容由Brianne Davis提供。所有播客内容（包括剧集、图形和播客描述）均由 Brianne Davis 或其播客平台合作伙伴直接上传和提供。如果您认为有人在未经您许可的情况下使用您的受版权保护的作品，您可以按照此处概述的流程进行操作https://zh.player.fm/legal。
In this riveting episode of the Secret Life podcast, Brianne Davis-Gantt delves into the intoxicating and often destructive world of fantasy relationships. She explores how these relationships, fueled by unrealistic expectations and superficial attractions, can lead to emotional turmoil and self-sabotage. Brianne dissects the behaviors and red flags that characterize fantasy relationships, from love bombing and trauma bonding to the avoidance of real intimacy and responsibility.
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🔑 Episode Keywords
Fantasy Relationships, Love Bombing, Trauma Bonding, Avoidance, Attachment Styles, Emotional Connection, Intimacy, Self-Identity, Red Flags, Relationship Advice, Emotional Healing
(00:00) Because fantasy doesn't last. You compromise yourself, you compromise your values.
(00:20) Welcome to the Secret Life podcast. Tell me your secret, I'll tell you mine.
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(05:00) Disney. Somebody coming to rescue the all-important butterflies.
(10:00) When you are looking at a dating app, I tell people, read between the lines.
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- Spread the word via social media
- #SecretLifePodcast
- Donate - You can also support the show with a one-time or monthly donation via PayPal (make payment to secretlifepodcast@icloud.com) or at our WEBSITE.
Connect with Brianne Davis-Gantt (@thebriannedavis)
Connect with Mark Gantt (@markgantt)
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/secret-life/donations
Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands
Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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