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How Labeling, Roles & Alliances Affect Our Relationships
Manage episode 281720420 series 2633325
This podcast episode explores:
-How roles limit the way we can see the other person fully
-How the labels you ascribe to a person causes you to miss other viewpoints
-how alliances are special relationships in a family or system that have an agenda or an underlying issue
-How triangulation can occur as one reason for an alliance and why this occurs
-How a person may present as the ticket of admission with a problem but there is really another underlying issue with someone else in the family that it's masking
-how genograms can be used as a tool to look at how issues or patterns repeat in different generations of a family. It can raise consciousness about patterns so you can break them.
-How to deal directly with the family member you have a conflict with, instead of gossiping or communicating through a third party.
-Why parents need to be the architects of the family. They need a shared vision and agreement so the kids or family members can't split them. They also should be on the same page regarding parenting and consequences.
And more!
To learn about relationship coaching with Paulette, check out her website
You can also get her book on marriage and on dating.
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How Labeling, Roles & Alliances Affect Our Relationships
The Love Psychologist: Transforming Your Relationships from the Inside-Out
Manage episode 281720420 series 2633325
This podcast episode explores:
-How roles limit the way we can see the other person fully
-How the labels you ascribe to a person causes you to miss other viewpoints
-how alliances are special relationships in a family or system that have an agenda or an underlying issue
-How triangulation can occur as one reason for an alliance and why this occurs
-How a person may present as the ticket of admission with a problem but there is really another underlying issue with someone else in the family that it's masking
-how genograms can be used as a tool to look at how issues or patterns repeat in different generations of a family. It can raise consciousness about patterns so you can break them.
-How to deal directly with the family member you have a conflict with, instead of gossiping or communicating through a third party.
-Why parents need to be the architects of the family. They need a shared vision and agreement so the kids or family members can't split them. They also should be on the same page regarding parenting and consequences.
And more!
To learn about relationship coaching with Paulette, check out her website
You can also get her book on marriage and on dating.
97集单集
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