145. Too Picky or Not Picky Enough?

Dating After Divorce

“What many don't realize is that…our brains are designed for a completely different purpose. Your brain is not designed to help you find love. Your brain is not designed to help you find that higher level partner. Your brain is designed to keep you safe.”

“When you slow down and work through this process, you will realize just how frequently your brain tells you a story about what you were looking at, and tells you and you make decisions based on what you think is true. But literally your brain just made it up. It literally just made it up”

“Now, the other thing the brain does is once you have gone on a first date with someone, your brain will not be picky enough.”

“The ability to meet your partner really requires doing the most effective things at the right time. And you need to know what those are.”

I am so delighted to be back doing teaching episodes! I’ll be bringing more of these between now and the end of the year and I'm really excited to bring a lot of thoughts and learnings that I've had, getting my clients over the hump with their dating journeys, and into relationships where they feel safe, loved, nurtured, getting them all the way to commitment.

In today's episode, I dive into the almost age old question of “Are too picky or not picky enough?”
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