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Six CONFLICT Mistakes That Are HURTING Your Marriage
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Most couples have relationship problems. The causes are varied but the patterns are consistent. One of the most important ways to fix your relationship problems is by learning what conflict mistakes to avoid. For example, my wife and I had a conflict a few years ago about leaves. You heard me, about leaves! I did all the raking and felt like I picked up enough leaves 🍂 without it blocking the sun and harming the grass. She disagreed and thought more needed to be raked. She brought up her concern and I said it was fine. The more I said it was fine, the more she argued that it wasn't fine. Eventually, we both got frustrated. 🤯 She felt like I was dismissing her concerns. I felt like she wasn't respecting my judgement. We had to first de-flood. Then, we had to listen to each other's experience in the conflict to discern how we both made it worse. Then, we had to discuss adjustments we both could make moving forward. In this episode, I share some of these lessons with you!
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Manage episode 451196910 series 2940632
✏️LEAVE A REVEW & SHARE THE EPISODE!
Most couples have relationship problems. The causes are varied but the patterns are consistent. One of the most important ways to fix your relationship problems is by learning what conflict mistakes to avoid. For example, my wife and I had a conflict a few years ago about leaves. You heard me, about leaves! I did all the raking and felt like I picked up enough leaves 🍂 without it blocking the sun and harming the grass. She disagreed and thought more needed to be raked. She brought up her concern and I said it was fine. The more I said it was fine, the more she argued that it wasn't fine. Eventually, we both got frustrated. 🤯 She felt like I was dismissing her concerns. I felt like she wasn't respecting my judgement. We had to first de-flood. Then, we had to listen to each other's experience in the conflict to discern how we both made it worse. Then, we had to discuss adjustments we both could make moving forward. In this episode, I share some of these lessons with you!
FREE PDF GUIDE
Are you struggling in your marriage? Are you starting to feel hopeless? Get my FREE Guide on How To Rebuild Your Marriage In 90 Days! Grab it here!
FOLLOW me on social for FREE daily tips!
Facebook
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