Unlocking TRUE Emotional Intelligence (Emotional Regulation Tips)

The Breaking Point Podcast

In this episode of the Breaking Point podcast, we delve into the fascinating world of psychology with our guest, Anna Ekblom. Anna shares her unique journey from planning a career in economics to accidentally falling in love with psychology through a course in rhetoric. She explains how the ancient art of persuasion led her to explore what happens inside our minds, culminating in her obtaining a master's degree in psychology. This conversation sheds light on how she applies these insights in her role as a public speaker, teaching techniques of influence and communication to both companies and individuals. If you are interested in the topic of Self Development then check out this playlist: • Self Improvement We explore the concept of emotional intelligence in depth, challenging common misconceptions that equate it simply with empathy or compassion. Anna breaks down emotional intelligence into its key components: self-awareness, emotional regulation, empathy, and social skills. She discusses how these elements are crucial not just for personal interactions but also in professional settings, helping leaders and employees enhance their persuasive and leadership capabilities. The discussion also touches on the Big Five personality model, contrasting it with other popular frameworks like Myers-Briggs, and examines how personality traits shape our life experiences and relationships. The conversation then shifts to the growing challenge of emotional regulation in today's society. Anna and host Ollie Jones discuss whether these issues are genuinely on the rise or if increased awareness makes them seem more prevalent. They consider factors like the cultural shifts in Western societies, the impact of social media, and the polarization of politics, which might contribute to heightened anxiety and depression. Anna offers insights into why emotional regulation might be more difficult now than in past decades, linking it to changes in how we perceive and engage with our emotions. CHAPTERS: 00:00 Introduction to Psychology and Rhetoric 02:57 The Teachability of Social Skills 05:57 Understanding Personality through the Big Five 08:51 The Intersection of Rhetoric and Psychology 11:48 Emotional Intelligence Explained 15:09 Challenges in Emotional Regulation 18:01 The Importance of Relationships in Mental Health