I started doing YouTube videos in August 2017 about being an INFJ, and how it took me 30-odd years of journaling, self-reflection, and self-actualization, to get to this level of understanding and love with myself. I'm an INFJ and I'm here to show you through my podcast that you are not alone, you are not crazy, you are not autistic, or a sociopath. You are just misunderstood, and the more you realize that there are others like you out there, the less alone and confused you are going to feel ...
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A daily show focused on motivation, productivity, leadership, technology, communication, entrepreneurship and work/life balance. This show aired 2016-2017.
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INFJs don't like the idea of proving their love using big gestures. No writing our love in the sky or kissing on the big screen at the football game. It's the small everyday stuff that we think really shows our love for you. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionaireh…
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INFJs are not sharing information with you to show off. That is not our intention. We do it to show our love. It is one of our love languages. Unusual, but true. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/ Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.co…
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It's hard to see an INFJ you love moving towards self-destruction, self-sabotage, and doom in such a clear fashion. But all you can do for them is be there when they call upon you. Do not interfere too much. Otherwise, they will slam that door and you will have no contact with them. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - …
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INFJs spend too much time in their heads and not enough in their bodies. So that's why grounding tools like the one I speak about in this episode are so useful to us. Use this tool as much as you need, my friends. There are no side effects. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http:/…
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INFJs want to spend all their time learning new information. We just love to learn. No matter if we get recognized for it or not, we want to learn about the subjects we care about in our free time all the time. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/ Che…
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INFJs need to learn that social battery drain is inevitable for them. Our social batteries are just so minuscule. So we need tools to deal with it, rather than bemoaning it. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/ Check out my YouTube Channel at https://…
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INFJs want to care about humanity and believe in their goodness. But then something happens that ruins and dashes our hope to the ground. And then we build up that hope again. Thus, the cycle continues. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/ Check out m…
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I used to worry all the time (and sometimes still do) that I was not on the right path. But as an older INFJ, I want to tell everyone younger than me, that you ARE on the right path. You will be surprised when you are older, how much you are on the right path. Really! Truly! Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below ar…
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One of the worst things INFJs do to themselves is believe they are all alone without any incoming help. It is the worst way we sabotage ourselves. We need to look up and see that people are willing to help, even if we aren't willing to accept it. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at …
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As I said in the last episode, there are many reasons INFJs would be successful in an apocalypse, but it could all be undone in a moment because of our poor social skills and low social battery. What do you think? Why wouldn't you be successful in an apocalyptic situation? Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are …
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So I have been thinking about whether I would survive a doomsday scenario if it happened. In some ways, I wouldn't (more on that in the next episode). But in some ways, I would be a natural at it, considering I'm an INFJ. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehipp…
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INFJs have a hard time being vulnerable, more so than other types. We are so fearful of trusting others with our innermost thoughts and feelings. Essentially, we lack that emotional courage that others find easy. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/ C…
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INFJs have a lot more potential than others around them, but because we spend all our time in doubt and anxiety, we aren't able to achieve this potential. We undervalue ourselves and underestimate our immense potential. It's quite sad, actually. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at h…
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INFJs sometimes feel like they are led around by their obsessions, but this hack I share in the episode will help you lead your obsessions instead. Let's get in the driver's seat of our life, folks! Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/ Check out my Yo…
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INFJs go through cycles or phases where they get obsessed with a certain item or situation and then lose interest after a while. We can direct this obsessive nature towards good by using the technique I suggest in the episode. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionair…
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INFJs spend a lot of their time in their heads, in their imagination, in their dream worlds. So they have to create systems and automate things, so they don't end up missing payments or other important deadlines because they are distracted. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http:/…
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INFJs are quite aware when others are manipulating them, and that covert behavior is annoying to us. If you are going to use us, be direct and honest about it. Don't try to use us in a covert fashion, please. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/ Check…
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INFJs don't know how to deal with people who are indirect, dishonest, or two-faced. We don't know if our intuition is telling us the truth about the person. So we would rather people be honest with us, even if that means dealing with rude and antagonistic people. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways:…
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INFJs have difficulty telling the truth in certain situations because we worry about confrontations, arguments, or discussions. We don't want all that. It's easier sometimes to say a little white lie and get out of the situation that way. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://t…
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Many people who surround INFJs will complain about their robotic or aloof nature, but the truth is INFJs are highly emotional. We just spend all our time hiding this aspect of ourselves, quite to our detriment. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/ Che…
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INFJs get confused by emotions and emotionality quite easily, not only by their own, but also by others. It's a mystery to us. What are emotions all about? It's easier to understand quantum physics or mechanics, truly. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.…
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Without a deeper meaning to a particular task or item, INFJs will not put their effort into it. That's why we need to trick ourselves and attach a deeper meaning to everything we need to get done in our adult life. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/…
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INFJs don't know what a relationship means, let alone a friendship. So when people say they are our friends, we are truly confused. Are we really?? Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/ Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha…
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It's so hard for INFJs to get relationships away from superficiality and into something much deeper and intense. We try so hard, but we fail so many more times. These are the reasons for it, as I share in the podcast. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.c…
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The world is a terrible place for empaths like us. We want to do more morally and otherwise, but we can never do enough as INFJs. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/ Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group!…
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Just because you exist, you are worthy, INFJs. Tell yourself this daily and practice feeling worthy, no matter what. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/ Check out my YouTube Channel at https://m.youtube.com/c/BoomShikha Join my FB group! https://www.…
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It can sometimes feel like you are speaking a completely different language than others around you, even though you are speaking in the same tongue. Communication requires INFJs to learn other people's styles first, before saying even a single word. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog …
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There are many reasons why INFJs run away from their closest relationships. People are exhausting, we don't trust very easily, we have been hurt in the past, and we think we don't deserve love. What is your reason for running away? Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themilli…
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INFJs tend to create high impossible-to-reach standards for themselves, especially when it comes to morality. This is called moral perfectionism, and it's a mind-killer. Don't let yourself fall into that trap. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/ Chec…
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INFJs find it easy to criticize themselves because we see our faults clearly. But that means that we end up seeing ourselves in a very negative way and forget that we are human, imperfect, and have our good points, too. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie…
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INFJs know that they are human, but this doesn't mean that they like it or don't try to avoid the whole responsibility of being human completely. We ignore our human needs and desires and pretend like we are not human. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.…
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INFJs have a really hard time asking for help because we think we are smart enough to do it all ourselves. But no matter how smart we are, there will always come a time when help is necessary. So we need to learn this important skill early on. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at htt…
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INFJs aren't really the you-only-live-once kind of crowd. We need to plan things out carefully and if we are spontaneous, it's when we have planned for it within our schedule. It's weird and restrictive, but it works for us. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionaireh…
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Some decisions INFJs can make in a jiffy. But others it takes us forever and ever. It's because we need to reach a certain critical mass in terms of information before we are ready to make particular decisions. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/ Che…
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I recently got diagnosed as being on the spectrum, and now I realize there are many practices I built into my daily routine to help with my ADHD tendencies. To temper them so I can live in the world without rocking the boat too much. Which ones do you relate to? Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: …
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INFJs like to spend a lot of their time in their heads, which means that they end up ignoring all the real-world situations, like paying bills, saving money, and more. I give you some tips in this episode to help manage your money better. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://t…
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INFJs tend to go all-in when they are in a relationship, but that can result in an obsessiveness that isn't healthy. Watch the video for some tips on how you can balance yourself out when in a relationship, so you can stay healthy and happy. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http:…
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I recently got diagnosed as being on the spectrum. I always knew that I was neurodivergent in some manner, but doing some research on how people with ADHD and autism behave, really opened up my eyes to how I have done so many things unknowingly to adapt myself to this neurotypical world. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me furth…
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I have always believed that INFJs have lots of great qualities, allowing them to become good at whatever career path they choose. But particularly, I think we would be great FBI agents or covert operatives. Except that we are terrible at lying and have a non-existent poker face. But yeah, besides that, we would be great secret agents. Thank you for…
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INFJs are socially awkward and that makes them do embarrassing things and say foolish things to people even when they aren't high or drunk. People often think I am high but I'm not. I'm completely sober! Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/ Check out …
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INFJs tend to become extremely anxious and obsessive in a relationship and that makes them want to run away from the person they love. Does this happen to you? It has happened to me lots of times and it's been a challenge to remain calm and talk through my emotions rather than just running away. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with …
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INFJs, when they move to a new city, country, or neighborhood, will always spend a few days or weeks driving or walking around to find out all the important shops and spots. Do you do this as well? It's just the price we pay for being an INFJ planner at heart. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Re…
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INFJs have this bad habit of being overly involved in other people's lives and tasks and forgetting their own stuff. We will procrastinate on our important tasks by 'helping' others even when they haven't asked for our help or when they don't even want our help. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: …
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Introverted intuition is such a fascinating power of INFJs. Lots of times, we will get insights from our intuition and have no idea why or where it came from. It's just there, asking us to believe it. But how do we explain this to others? It's impossible! Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my…
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INFJs don't need you to come in and punish us. We are very capable of doing that for ourselves, thank you very much. That's why we are always berating ourselves, and putting ourselves down, even for things that are not our fault. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillion…
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INFJs are great in relationships and great lovers, but we have a tendency to hold ourselves back because of past relationship issues and trust issues. If we could only avoid doing that, we would be able to give and receive unconditional love, as much as possible in this imperfect world. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me furthe…
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INFJs can become addicted to people, ideas, and actions quite easily because we are obsessive about our passions. But we have to be careful about that and do it in a controlled fashion. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http://themillionairehippie.com/ Check out my YouTube Channel…
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INFJs don't see any point comparing themselves to others, since people are so different from each other and on different paths. That's why we are constantly comparing ourselves to our past selves to see how much we have improved and changed. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: Read my blog at http:…
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INFJs love collecting knowledge and then sharing that knowledge with the people they think would be helped most by it. Even if the person hasn't asked for this knowledge, we have this uncontrollable desire to share it, because we know it will better their lives. Thank you for listening! If you want to connect with me further - below are some ways: …
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INFJs have a very unique way of processing and dealing with information. The older I get, the more conscious I become of this process and it just astounds and awes me. Thank you for listening! I have just started an online community called Soul Vitamins where you can access all of my courses, books, and videos for a low monthly price. Check it out …
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