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Cycles
Manage episode 294177850 series 2911797
In Come Here To Me's first bonus episode, Figs and Teale break down what "a cycle" means in a relationship by exploring the emotional bonding needs every human is born with.
Timestamps:
01:00 Small talk
03:48 Introduction to topic, "The Cycle"
05:46 "The problem is not the problem"
09:33 Surfer bro interlude: Just keep swimming
11:37 Couples fight because they love each other
12:38 "The solution itself is not the answer," Do you both feel loved?
14:48 Reptilian insults
16:07 "If you really love me" conversations
17:56 Attachment theory / emotional bonding
23:42 "This is the one that I hope my emotional love needs will be met by."
26:20 Honeymoon's end
26:59 Feeling unloved prompts a negative reaction
28:02 Reaction prompts negative response
28:57 What is a cycle?
33:09 ...Fiddling
33:43 Let it feel like a relief: you're fighting because you love each other so much!
38:47 The key isn't to avoid getting into a cycle, it's to get out of the cycle once it's started.
Visit comeheretomepodcast.com for episode transcripts, social media links, and to subscribe to the mailing list.
If you or someone you love are struggling in your relationship, visit empathi.com for quizzes, courses, and consultations.
35集单集
Manage episode 294177850 series 2911797
In Come Here To Me's first bonus episode, Figs and Teale break down what "a cycle" means in a relationship by exploring the emotional bonding needs every human is born with.
Timestamps:
01:00 Small talk
03:48 Introduction to topic, "The Cycle"
05:46 "The problem is not the problem"
09:33 Surfer bro interlude: Just keep swimming
11:37 Couples fight because they love each other
12:38 "The solution itself is not the answer," Do you both feel loved?
14:48 Reptilian insults
16:07 "If you really love me" conversations
17:56 Attachment theory / emotional bonding
23:42 "This is the one that I hope my emotional love needs will be met by."
26:20 Honeymoon's end
26:59 Feeling unloved prompts a negative reaction
28:02 Reaction prompts negative response
28:57 What is a cycle?
33:09 ...Fiddling
33:43 Let it feel like a relief: you're fighting because you love each other so much!
38:47 The key isn't to avoid getting into a cycle, it's to get out of the cycle once it's started.
Visit comeheretomepodcast.com for episode transcripts, social media links, and to subscribe to the mailing list.
If you or someone you love are struggling in your relationship, visit empathi.com for quizzes, courses, and consultations.
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