221. Is Dating A Waste of Time?

Dating After Divorce

In this deep-dive episode, I explore our complex relationship with time in dating after divorce, challenging the common belief that dating is a "waste of time." As part of my three-episode series about time, we examine how this mindset affects your dating journey and what to do about it.
Key Concepts Explored:
What Actually Wastes Time in Dating:
- Dating without a strong "why" or due to external pressure
- Pursuing someone who clearly stated they don't want what you want
- Trying to convince uninterested people to date you
- Fantasy relationships and passive dating
- Repeating the same dating patterns without learning or growth
Common Questions Addressed:
- What if I'm truly too busy to date?
- How do I know if I'm investing time wisely in dating?
- When is it okay to stop seeing someone to "save time"?
- How can I date efficiently without compromising on what matters?
- What's the difference between being selective and over-filtering?
Ready to Transform Your Dating Journey?
If you're ready to shift your relationship with time and dating, let's talk. Book a consultation call to explore:
- Your unique dating patterns and time-related concerns
- How to create an efficient, values-aligned dating strategy
- Whether working together could help you find love in 2025
- Specific steps to move from passive to intentional dating
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The Dating After Divorce Academy provides:
- Clear strategies to date efficiently
- Support in overcoming mindset blocks
- Tools to evaluate potential partners
- A process for authentic connection
- Community of like-minded women
Additional Resources:
- Episode 219: Thoughts About Dating at Your Age
- Episode 220: Dating Older and Younger Men
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